if your bf goes to a sleepover party of the girl he had a major crush on before you, even though there were other guys and girls there?
2006-08-14 17:09:41 · 14 answers · asked by nunovyorebiznis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be jealous is natural. What is important is how you respond to it. One needs to be cautious with jealousy. There's a strong energy associated with it.
Because of its highly emotional nature, jealousy often hinders judgement, communication, and good health. Offset this by letting your partner know how you feel. Try not to be confrontational but be honest.
Letting your partner know you are jealous could actually increase your closeness because he will know you are crazy for him. The trick is to let him know without instilling distrust between the two of you.
It's OK to be jealous, just be careful not to judge someone prematurely. If you do find out that he is fooling around, let him go his way. You'll likely never recover from the distrust and he'll likely never stop fooling around. Just be sure you know the facts.
Best of luck.
2006-08-14 18:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay to be jealous. The problem with this situation here is that... your boyfriend is sleeping over at a girl who he had a major crush on before. This is where you ask yourself this, "Why is he going over to her house to sleep over?" Even though there are other guys and girls there... you will never know what will 'truly' happen. He may do stuffs under "peer pressure" and... why aren't you invited?
I don't really like how the situation is here. Be sure to talk to your bf first and double check what is really going on. He isn't worth your time if he isn't honest or commited to you. Dump him if he does stuffs like this.
2006-08-14 17:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to be jealous but you need to trust your partner.
Your bf and his crush is not alone for the sleepover...
If you really love your bf, you need to TRUST him.
2006-08-14 17:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah its only natural in girls but if you feel like your jealous cause he s gone try to get with the girl than you shouldnt be with him anyway but if your jealous just because you know he had a crush on her than your good you can be jealous all you want just dont mess up your relationship with it
2006-08-14 17:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be jealous. You should either have told him you preferred that he didn't go or you have to be mature enough to trust him. Jealousy is never a healthy emotion- either trust him enough to not be jealous or ask him not to go and expect he will respect your feelings if he really likes you.
2006-08-14 17:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by QandAGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but jealousy does not look good on a girl. talk things out with him and maybe things will work out. if they dont, things are just not meant to be.
2006-08-14 17:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, It's not.
If he HAS given you a reason not to trust him, You are with the wrong guy.
If he HASN'T given you a reason not to trust him, And you still don't, He is with the wrong girl.
2006-08-14 17:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by chubbiguy40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok long as nothing happen just keep checkin just in case u feels like something is happening
2006-08-14 17:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by chante j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No jealousy it like venom. dump the guy. You don't need venom in your body.
2006-08-14 17:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-14 17:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋