Family & Relationships - 13 August 2006

I am 40 and she is 42 she is committed to there and calls everyday for me to get her out she is a non-compliant diabetic and has brain damage and mentally impared and does not accept or unable to accept she may be there for life however long it may be - it needs to stop I just wonder if anyone has faced this beast also we have both agreed to divorce so dont throw vows at me or death do us part horse@#$%- it wasnt diabetes that divorced us it was we grew apart and moved on but it was like something had to happen because she was getting worse she has been gone for 8 months and wont stop bothering me - please answer if you can

2006-08-13 15:00:09 · 10 answers · asked by fastweeny66 1 in Marriage & Divorce

*sigh* well im one of the guys that usually has a g/f and all my friends never do.. now its like the tottal opposite.. ive been in alot of relationships but it always ends up they cheat on me or lie to me.. its possibly because im way to nice... im not an ugly guy and i love to have a good time.. what the heck am i doing wrong? should i not even worry about it?

http://www.myspace.com/extreme_juggernaut

Im 20 years old and i usually lean towards dating a younger girl.. 17 or so.. could this be the reason becasue there immature? i guess im just one of those lonely emo kids or something lol.. but please any advice?

2006-08-13 14:59:59 · 5 answers · asked by Juggernaut 2 in Singles & Dating

i just woke up to life and are slowing my roll... and now want a meaningful relationship. and want to perform well...

2006-08-13 14:58:16 · 3 answers · asked by idrees r 1 in Singles & Dating

i just dont feel like,had a hard weekend.and i feel a bit cranky now

2006-08-13 14:57:44 · 31 answers · asked by badrussian1 2 in Friends

what does it mean if after a date a guy kisses your hand

2006-08-13 14:57:43 · 16 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I live in a condo; I have a neighbor who lives above me. He is constantly making noise during the night whether if it is having friends over or having loud music or even walking loud. I confronted him once and he told me that he was sorry and didn’t know that we can hear it but weeks later he started to do it again. what should i do?. He is constantly making noise during the wee hours. Should i talk to him again and if i do what should i say?. i can't move cuz i signed a 4 year lease to this place or should i put up with the noise. please help!!!

2006-08-13 14:55:12 · 14 answers · asked by john g 2 in Family

Been married for 28 years and have no clue where to begin.Friends describe me as intelligent,funny,and charismatic.I
love science,music,art and photography.I can't be more sincere
about this.Please help with any suggestions.Thanx!!

2006-08-13 14:54:47 · 5 answers · asked by Mark K 6 in Singles & Dating

I meet this woman and she has 2 daughters (5 & 7), and she is seperated. When we first met I spent 81/2 hours with her in the emergency room after only knowing her for 5 hours. (long story abusive a**hole), for our second date she invited me up to her house to watch movies and we made out. We got together again a week later and she introduced me to her daughters, we spent an entire day of hiking and swimming, and dinner and everyone had a great time, teh girls even said that they liked me. We haven't went out since then, she is always busy doing something..she texts me say 20 times in a day and then I don't hear from her for like 2 days. He last boyfriend told her he didn't like her kids. I personally think that they are great and have told her so. Now, she tells me that she doesn't want to date anyone at this time, but she still texts me all the time...What is going on???? any ideas??? I am sort of lost here...

2006-08-13 14:54:47 · 10 answers · asked by tbd2_2000 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-13 14:53:27 · 6 answers · asked by sxc_skatoulia 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend whom i love says that after sex shes to sore to walk the next day that im to big an thick for her what should we do about that

2006-08-13 14:53:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi. I have a big problem. My husbands uncle, aunt and their two sons are about the only family my husband has that lives near us. He loves them dearly but I have a problem with them. They bragg too much! I can't say anything to them becuase I can't make them or my husband mad. So...this has to be within my own thinking that I control my anger towards them. How can I control my hatred feelings towards them when they bragg about how much money they have and how they have the best and look down on others that don't have as much. My husband and I live mosdestly and don't have a whole lot of money and they really rub it in around us (indirectly), but they get their point across. I am a Christian and want to not have these feelings, but how do I handle my thoughts? I am beginning not to want to go around them which will in turn hurt my marriage. HELP!

2006-08-13 14:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by sugarbud 3 in Family

If someone tells you they don't have a long time to live, but they've done nothing to change it, despite a great number of people's persuasion.. is it ok to feel more angry than sad?

2006-08-13 14:53:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is a hot shot in my class and he asks who my crush is and then he'll date her and hes so good at sports (PS i am in 7th )

2006-08-13 14:52:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She won't be contacted unless she has already put her name on the registry. I know what she did was the right thing as she was 17 at the time I was born,and I was raised by a great family. I'm now 43, which would make her 60 and my adoptive mother thinks I owe it to her to at least try to find her and that now is the time to do it.

2006-08-13 14:52:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance stole my debit card and put $1500.00 on his poker account. After losing all of it . He wants me to cancel the transaction.

2006-08-13 14:51:56 · 46 answers · asked by bettie_rose_c12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-13 14:51:40 · 3 answers · asked by footballkid92 1 in Singles & Dating

he works 100 hrs a week and travels. he really likes me, but over the past 3 years, i've been a real jerk, blowing him off, trying to break up. but now i see he's sweet, positive, hardworking. And i wish i could get closer to him and maybe we could see if sharing our lives together would be good. but now ... i don't know how to get closer to him. we just get together abt twice a month for an evening. and that's physical for the most part. but i care so much for him. i was mean before because he wouldn't commit, and he still won.t he lives with roommates and travels and works constantly. he's 35 and i'm 30. isn't it time we should try to get closer?

what things can i do or say to let him know that's what i want? i just tell him i like him and he's the only one i like. i also ask him questions like, have you gotten married yet. and he'll say: not yet.

sheesh. it makes me feel sad a little. so i focu on the joy i feel when we're together and i see him. it's so nice. i want more tho

2006-08-13 14:49:21 · 8 answers · asked by asiaasisa 1 in Singles & Dating

i use to do the first move.. when i want to do it ... with my bf

2006-08-13 14:48:49 · 9 answers · asked by horny!! 1 in Singles & Dating

he doesn't want to study, he doesn't want to work
he does nothing
i know its my fault , i love him to much , and i spoiled him
i am thinking about : kicking him out of the house, maybe than he will start thinking and acting
am i right? talking to him doesn't work

2006-08-13 14:47:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how can i get better at talking to girls

i tend to become a girls friend and they don think of me as being a boyfriend how do i stop doing that

2006-08-13 14:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by footballkid92 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this person for 11 years. We do have a family but never been married. Right now we are working on staying together but we don't live together anymore. The situation is pretty much his actions don't match his words and i'm tired of it. It's time to send him walkin'. Any advice?

2006-08-13 14:47:02 · 3 answers · asked by j martin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if they get you drunk and take you home...and when you passed out had sex with you. but your already having sex on a daily basis..its not liike its something new to you. how would you feel about this?

2006-08-13 14:45:59 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl and she likes me. I went with her on a date (bowling) last night and asked her to be my girlfriend. She said yes.

She's shy and I'm her first boyfriend. I'd liek to be the one to give her that "first kiss." But I'm not sure how or if I should.

Any ideas?

Here is a picture of me:

http://myspace-941.vo.llnwd.net/00936/14/95/936585941_m.jpg

I don't know if she'd be grossed out at kissing me... lol Anyone have anything to share that will help me out? Thanks guys!

2006-08-13 14:45:59 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been with the same guy for 5 years... he has a problem with alcohol, however seemed to be doing okay... for the last 15 months, it has been bliss... however, i found out for the past week, he has been drinking again... of course, i never saw it coming. i am hurt, and he tells me he is sorry... he knows i will not deal with him at all while he drinks. he says today is the last day he will drink before starting over... tho i doubt it, and i do not want to be hurt again, my whole heart is messed up! i want to tell him to get out of my life, and yet even thinking about it hurts so much.
PLEASE give me some GOOD advice, and tell me, if you were me, what would you do??
i need some good sound advice! please help!
i have never asked anything before today...

2006-08-13 14:44:20 · 11 answers · asked by bronzebabekentucky 7 in Singles & Dating

she ran away at 16 from georgia and moved to california to become a star, I met her when she was 18 and I was 29 a year later we got married, now after three boys she now says she was too young to have gotten married.

2006-08-13 14:44:05 · 3 answers · asked by michaelaguirre1963 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-13 14:43:26 · 21 answers · asked by therine m 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have only been married for about a month, but we have been together for about two and a half years. Throughout this time, we've done a lot of different things with sex. We've done anal, had two threesomes with two of my girlfriends, and so much more. We've done what I think is almost everything, but now I'm somewhat stumped. The sex is good, but I just can't think of anything new to do, and I'm a little bored. What are some suggestions?

2006-08-13 14:43:19 · 10 answers · asked by Jill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep an emergency fund of cash from my wife. I use it for my own small purchases, presents, and in case of emergencies. Is this normal? Are there others out there (male or female), who keep a small amount (say <$1000) of cash hidden away?

2006-08-13 14:43:15 · 14 answers · asked by Geoduck 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-13 14:42:18 · 6 answers · asked by themassage therapist 1 in Singles & Dating

what may be the repercussions from this? Will he leave her alone for good since I know about her?

(He's a serial cheater)

2006-08-13 14:42:17 · 7 answers · asked by Nuni 1 in Marriage & Divorce