how can i get better at talking to girls
i tend to become a girls friend and they don think of me as being a boyfriend how do i stop doing that
2006-08-13 14:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by footballkid92 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to be nice be sweet complement her clothes like you can say that shirt makes you look beautiful but I'm sure you that what ever you ware you will still look good. but don't you even dare talking to her like she is a piece of meat. don't say anything like you sure look fine come here where you belong. then when you do get her attention talk about simple things like your interests and hers try your best to impress but don't lie about anything . then talk about deeper things like hops and dreams. after talking for a while make a move like touching her hand tell her that she is pretty while touching her hair perhaps. make sure you get her number and for gods sake call the woman because if you don't call her within the first 3 days you are already out of the picture.
2006-08-13 15:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes playing the friend card works - I fell for my guy friend and we've been togther for 7 years. But sometimes ... it doesn't. Try to get your girl friends to see you as being a sexual person - because you are! Try talking about sex with them and see how they respond, if they keep talking about it then that's good. If they get weirded out and change the subject, then they're not interested.
Also, try not to focus so much on getting girls and start doing things you really enjoy. Like traveling, playing music, sports etc. Girls like guys to be exciting and have interests. Be yourself and be honest, and you may get rejected but don't let it bother you. Understanding women takes time.
2006-08-13 22:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit some Paul Masson, call all of them up, and let it flow. All in one night. Every girl number you got, call em' , tonight.
I'ma tell u what to do. Get that Martin Lawrence movie A Thin Line Between you know what I'm talking about. Watch that movie tonight, no, I mean 4real, study it. Focus on the part when he keep telling the lady that he needs a woman in his life. Feel that!!!
Stop playing with these woman and let them know what u want. You got to be patient with them, but at the same time, let them know that you want them, from the beginning. Watch that movie man, study it. Think back, like when you and your boys use see who could get the most phone numbers. Remember how it was like a challenge. I mean, cause u didn't really care if you got the numbers or not. Really, u just had to show your boys that u had some juice, that u wasn't slippin. Get ya confidence up. And if u want just holla, holla at some woman for fun. See if you can get some numbers. But, if u have this one shorty that u want a future with. Get serious, no smiling. Step to her, and let her know that u feeling her like that, and u loving her style. Let me know how it goes playa ?
2006-08-13 21:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by Da Jedi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're planning on being shallow and trying to date as many girls as possible, let them know you're interested quickly, before they get comfortable with you as a friend.
Myself, I'd say you're better off being yourself - real friends last longer than shallow relationships do anyway, and when you hit it off with someone, it'll happen on it's own!
Just keep doing what you're doing - don't talk to them "as girls" - talk to them the same as you would to anyone - better that they like you for you, than for you acting like someone else 'cause you're "on the pull"..
2006-08-13 21:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only try to talk to a girl when she is alone, not a group of friends.
2006-08-13 21:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by ShaSha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becoming friends is the first part just be yourself and get used to talking and being around them
2006-08-13 21:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by baby_turtle0468 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good to become a friend first. Keep doing it, and it will just come.
2006-08-13 21:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by SpeedyTV.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well move right in when you like someone. don't play the friend act too much or they will think of u as just a friend.
2006-08-13 21:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop being too nice...girls sometimes like guys who are a little tough and rough....NOT MEAN...but just not too nice....opening doors is good...kissing her butt is not...saying nice things to her...but not to the point that is pathetic....women/girls are complicated my friend....sorry to tell you that!
2006-08-13 21:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by sexyhair 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-08-13 21:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋