I have been with this person for 11 years. We do have a family but never been married. Right now we are working on staying together but we don't live together anymore. The situation is pretty much his actions don't match his words and i'm tired of it. It's time to send him walkin'. Any advice?
2006-08-13 14:47:02 · 3 answers · asked by j martin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
be honest. be yourself. be compassionate (not passionate). be gentle.
2006-08-13 14:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by annie - rainbow goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,id have to say that i agree with you...after being together for so long with a family and not even marriage ..that makes ya really.. really.. think ..........yeah!! its time to move on....i think the bond was broken and the choice should of been made when he moved out.....that just makes the greif of it all linger even longer if it didnt work when you lived together... it will be worse once you are appart or you will go through this cycle... its fine for a while maybe talk about moving back in... or leaving things as they are and ...bam!! then in 2 weeks back to square #1....makes no sense ya know?.if it got to that point then...honestly what do you need it for....i agree with you
2006-08-13 22:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by BLUEEYES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like divorced couples, you will have to make arrangements that work for your chemistry. Some can see each other regularly. Others only at great intervals. You should approach it as a negotiate and work at an "agreed to" schedule and expectations.
2006-08-15 22:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋