I meet this woman and she has 2 daughters (5 & 7), and she is seperated. When we first met I spent 81/2 hours with her in the emergency room after only knowing her for 5 hours. (long story abusive a**hole), for our second date she invited me up to her house to watch movies and we made out. We got together again a week later and she introduced me to her daughters, we spent an entire day of hiking and swimming, and dinner and everyone had a great time, teh girls even said that they liked me. We haven't went out since then, she is always busy doing something..she texts me say 20 times in a day and then I don't hear from her for like 2 days. He last boyfriend told her he didn't like her kids. I personally think that they are great and have told her so. Now, she tells me that she doesn't want to date anyone at this time, but she still texts me all the time...What is going on???? any ideas??? I am sort of lost here...
2006-08-13 14:54:47 · 10 answers · asked by tbd2_2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not sure
she's prolly scared of being with a guy right now
(since what happened before)
give it time
2006-08-13 15:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by ▲▼▲▼ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could have someone else in the picture, or she could just be too busy. She does have kids and probably a job. She may be overwhelmed with stuff. She obviously still wants to be friends since she texts you.
Try asking her why. Maybe also she was with you because she was rebounding from her ex, but now that reality has set in she's freaking a little.
Good luck
2006-08-13 22:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by chica123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...you may not want to hear this, but this is what it sounds like...
I think she may have gotten back together with the old boyfriend in an 'on-again, off-again' kind of way, but she's not sure where it's going, so she's buying some time right now by keeping you hanging while she figures what or who she wants.
You sound like a nice guy...if I were you, I'd go find someone else who knows what they want, and doesn't play games.
2006-08-13 22:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she is only seperated usually ends in disappointment. She may be scared if their is abuse in the home. She may not know exactly what she wants. In my opinion it would be best if you stepped back and if she is serious about you, she will follow through with the divorce and then you will need to take it really slow. If it moves to fast, you will just be the rebound person and that's never any fun.
2006-08-13 22:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by M A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is fresh out of a relationship and she needs to have time and space to figure out her life and if you get too close too soon you will just be a rebound.
2006-08-13 22:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by kyeann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow don't know. Seriously no clue. Unless she chose to go back to the abusive b.f. and that is often the case.
2006-08-13 21:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not that into you. Move on, you found out early. Tell her to stop texting you, she is just stringing you along.
Good luck.
2006-08-13 22:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think she just has enough of being with guys. stick arund she just wants to be freinds and d things with you. dont try to force anything on to her. be there for her
2006-08-13 22:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by been there done that 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too long to read !
2006-08-13 22:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just got used for sex you lucky devil you.
2006-08-13 21:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Totoru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋