I am her first boyfriend. When can I kiss her?

Question

I really like this girl and she likes me. I went with her on a date (bowling) last night and asked her to be my girlfriend. She said yes.

She's shy and I'm her first boyfriend. I'd liek to be the one to give her that "first kiss." But I'm not sure how or if I should.

Any ideas?

Here is a picture of me:

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I don't know if she'd be grossed out at kissing me... lol Anyone have anything to share that will help me out? Thanks guys!

Answer 1

You can kiss her now, however, make is sweet and not too long. Then go from her reaction from there :-)

Answer 2

You'll know if she doesn't want you to kiss her. She'll be distant, almost annoyed. If she's having a fun time, laughing and being close to you, she probably does want to kiss you too. Anyhoo, I think the best way is the 'Chris Rock' type of way. Ever seen 'Down to Earth'? Basically, the first kiss is usually in the middle of a sentence. You two will be standing close in front of each other, having a regular conversation... and it'll just happen. That means she won't be nervous about her first kiss because she won't know it's coming. But like I said, she better be having a good time and there must be signs that she might want to go on a second date.
AND FOR ALL OTHER GUYS- when it comes to kissing, little tongue is better that too much tongue. It's the most disgusted thing in the world to shove your whole tongue in a girls mouth. If you're a crappy kisser, you're defiently not getting a second date. Practice on your hand if you have to, I don't care. Just not too much tongue. YUK

Answer 3

First find out if she really has in fact never kissed anybody, that may help you alot faster, but if she hasnt or you dont feel right asking her that so sudden or even at all, then just believe she hasnt. Now the first kiss is always special and it has to be at that right moment...you shouldnt ask her or come off like you want to, just let it happen, but not too soon and if you are her b/f then you shouldnt be worried about not being first and if you both really like each other than you will have plenty of time deciding the right moment without being afraid if you should or if you wont be first.
let it come naturally and it actually may be her who kisses you if she feels very comfortable around you, but seein how u just asked her out, u should wait

Answer 4

you're really cute if she likes you and has agreed to be your girlfriend then she's probably waiting for you to kiss her do it on the next date either when you bring her back home at the doorstep or if the two of you are in a park sitting and talking thats a good place for a first kiss good luck she will like it im sure just dont go further than the kiss lets stick to 1st base for now

Answer 5

Okay...
I know exactly where you are coming from. The guy that I am currently seeing, he is my first boyfriend and he was the one that gave me my first kiss. We are still seeing each other, but it has only been a month. Anyway, back to you question. Just do it when you two are totally alone and you think that the time is right. That is how mine happened.

Answer 6

when the times is right ask her say can I kiss you? This really should follow after you've been holding hands for awhile. Girls bond through touch. take it slow . it's great that you're being sensitive to you be her first. Th first kiss should always be slow and soft. she'll always remember her first kiss don't blow it! if she said yes to being your girlfriend don't worry about her being "grossed out" with your kiss she obviously is attracted to you otherwise she would not have said yes to being your girlfriend. Always treat her with respect remember she's someones daughter, maybe sister, etc.. you'll do fine. and you're good looking so have some confidence! hold hands first.....really!! good luck!

Answer 7

hey bro whats up.. well congrats with the g/f.. well.. my advice is just take it slow.. u dont want to scare her off.. and hopefully if ur "dating" her u actually like her.. so waiting for the right time really isnt a problem.. if u ever catch urself in the middle of a kiss (shes staring at ur lips and ur both really close) then id say move in.. a girls first kiss is also one she will ALWAYS remeber.. so make sure u do it at the right time.. its something that is hard to explain but i think ull be aight bro..

Answer 8

You're not ugly, you have good facial features I'm being honest. Make it special for her, like romantic if she likes that sort of thing. Just kiss her normally first then see where that goes. If she agreed to be your girl friend then I'm sure she wouldn't object to being kissed. If your still full of doubts ask her if she's comfortable with you giving her a kiss.

Answer 9

Concentrate on your school work. Over time, when you take on a visual image of being educated and have a good sense of direction in your life, there will be ample girls to make give you a first kiss.

Answer 10

You guys will have a moment when you're together. You'll get close to each other. You both will know when it is. Try not to think about it so much or you'll jinx it. Unless she doesn't want to be kissed, but I highly doubt it since she agreed to go out with you.
Good Luck =)

Answer 11

Start off slowly with a very light kiss on the lips. Smile at her, tell her again you really like her and then kiss her again this time longer with very relaxed lips. Hold her face in your hands very tenderly when you do this. Remember you want to make her first kiss special and because you really like her you want to make this kiss enjoyable and you want her to relax. She'll like the fact that you "took charge."