Family & Relationships - 12 August 2006

I'm a sweet, kind, loving one man woman who loves her teenagers and our pets.Would love to start over with a kind, loving man who would enjoy our lives together and watch our kids grow up and have kids of their own.We are crazy at times and a whole lotta fun...I'm 54~~~~~~~~~<3

2006-08-12 11:05:15 · 1 answers · asked by diecast_heart 3 in Singles & Dating

Not telling them to shut up,to leave you alone, or to never talk to you, etc..... but kind of liek to leave her hints that I don't want to talk to her. She is annoying and critical!

2006-08-12 11:05:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like my crush so much its not even funny. i've never had a boyfriend before and i want him to be my first. i want to tell him tonight but i dont know how. i dont know how he will take it. im scared of what he would say. his cell phone is broken so i cant call/text him. i want to tell him over IM but i dont know how to tell him. how should i start it off? then tell him? i dont know i need to know. he lives about an hour away from me. is that a problem? I NEED SOME ADVICE!

2006-08-12 11:03:33 · 6 answers · asked by loveyouu_xo 1 in Singles & Dating

Heres the deal i've been married for 4 years we've split up 4 times during those 4 years( its a very rocky marriage). We have a daughter together & i have 2 kids from a previous marrigage. Talking to my high school sweetheart stirred up so many emotions inside me. He said he still loved me and always would. Hes divorced with 2 kids. I feel crazy at the fact that this encounter has impacted my life so much it was just a phone call and it has me rethinking everything. We talked what seemed like forever and I swear this guy seemed like he remembered every conversation we'd ever had he even has a gift i gave him when we were like 17 (now were 30) I couldnt believe he still had it (even through his marriage he still kept it) he says he still loves me and regrets that we ever stopped talking. Im very confused about the whole situation I have children to think about & i feel they've been through enough with me & my husband always breaking up & our drama but i cant stop thinking about him HELP

2006-08-12 11:03:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-12 11:01:36 · 6 answers · asked by robertm1951 2 in Friends

I have teenage daughter she is 17 and all that I can say is that i have been proud of her all my life. Always best grades, great behavior, but she was always shy and hard on confiding her feelings. She has dream of being musician and works and practised alot to accomplished it. One of her teachers is a man that is priest and that has been her role model since ever. I always knew that she had great respect and that she always admired him. But now, I strarted to think that my daughter is in love with him. I know he looks at her only and only as a student and I am absolutely sure that has no idea about her feelings. I am not even sure that she is completely aware of them. She never confided it to me, but as a mother i can see that she suffers although she would never say it at loud. What can i do to help her? I know that she would never do anything about her feelings, admit them or sth, but i know that she still feels them. How can I as a mother help?

2006-08-12 11:01:24 · 16 answers · asked by Mother of two 1 in Family

2006-08-12 11:01:22 · 14 answers · asked by China 2 in Family

2006-08-12 11:00:43 · 16 answers · asked by China 2 in Family

My family is so wierd. I live with my dad and younger brother and younger sister who all hate me. My dad is a complete idiot. On weekends he makes me go to dinner with him and his girlfriend and then brings her to our house and sleeps with her. I get in huge fights with him at least twice a week. My mom is kind of strange sometimes and has breakdowns every few years which I try and fail to prevent. I am a good student and play sports, but I hate my homelife......

2006-08-12 10:58:35 · 8 answers · asked by ojndoanj 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-12 10:57:53 · 31 answers · asked by marcy w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this past year.
a bunch of my friends have moved away or strayed from their walk with God.
one of my best friends in the world died right in front of my eyes at the mere age of 15.
another friend got cancer for the 3rd time in his 16 year old life.
& now he's moved to montana so he can get healthy again.
i know that i'm being selfish when i say that he needs to be here with his friends & family.
but i'm the one that needs him.
even if our friendship has been awkward for the past few weeks, i still love that kid.
i just feel like everything in my life is falling apart.
all of my friends turn to me with their many problems & ask me for advice.
i try to give them the best answers that i can, but i feel like it's all wrong.
all of my friends have some sort of drama or traumatizing event going on in their lives, & i keep getting pulled into it.
i try to stay out of it, & give them a few kind words when they need it,
but i get caught in the middle.
i know that my friends need me, but i need them too.
everytime i try to talk about my problems or whatever is going on in my life, they go off aboutwhatever they're stressing about at the moment.
i want them to listen to me & give ME advice for once.
i understand that they all have their problems.
i do.
but i can't help but be a little selfish.
the only one i can really turn to who listens to me is God. he's the only One that's been keeping me going through this past year.
life is just so confusing & complicated.
i just need someone to talk to.
i pray to the Lord that all my problems will be sorted out, & i know that they will in time.
but i can't wait forever.
this year has been one huge test of Faith.
all these deaths & drama & lies.
it's hard to take.
i really need advice.
will someone please help me?

2006-08-12 10:57:39 · 6 answers · asked by Sami ☮<3 2 in Friends

do u like chat by cam with mic or just mic or with out both of them??

2006-08-12 10:56:12 · 6 answers · asked by dodo 2 in Friends

Feel free to write it all

2006-08-12 10:55:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would u move from new york to venice beach for less paying job?
would u do that? what would be the pros? the cons?
would it be easier to find a date in venice beach or in new york?

2006-08-12 10:55:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is taking me on holiday to the canary islands in 2 weeks, during which it will be his 30th birthday. I want to make his day really special as he truly deserves it! I need some help in deciding what kind of present to get him, I want to get him something special that he will be able to keep forever. Also any ideas on how to make his birthday more special than all of our other days on holiday will be greatly appreciated.
We have been together for a year and his main interests are cars, music and football but he is quite sensitive and would appreciate something more personal.
Thanks for any help!!

2006-08-12 10:53:56 · 7 answers · asked by JK 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do u fine someone , when all u have is their name and what town they live in

2006-08-12 10:53:51 · 5 answers · asked by itavia s 1 in Friends

2006-08-12 10:53:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had guys ask me out then when I say no they get all bent out of shape. Comments like: Black men not good enough for you? Or Let me know when you start taking applications.(this is a turn off in the first place)

2006-08-12 10:52:49 · 10 answers · asked by blueeyesbrilliance 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-12 10:52:46 · 2 answers · asked by luv_luv_luv 1 in Friends

Just curious...

2006-08-12 10:52:17 · 12 answers · asked by Trying To Be Helpful 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-12 10:51:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i loved her like there was no tomorrow, the next thing she just betrayed me 4 sum 1 older & dumped me like nobody's business and didn't care at all. how do i deal with such torture?

2006-08-12 10:51:31 · 4 answers · asked by flyleg 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going through a painful divorce. I can't seem to get over the heartache & pain. Everywhere l look I am reminded of my ordeal. Can hypnosis help? What are the drawbacks if any?

2006-08-12 10:51:05 · 10 answers · asked by mari 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my cousin has been talking to my best friends boyfriend and my cousin said she is in love with him now and she does not want me to tell me best friend but i always tell my best friend every thing what should i do?????????/

2006-08-12 10:50:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What are some questions and answers I could get my mother to understand me?

2006-08-12 10:50:09 · 8 answers · asked by Unique 1 in Family

Hi, I have been married for 1.5 yrs and was happy until my mother in law and father in law came to stay with us. When I was spending two days away from my home I dont know what they did but my husband started behaving very differently. One day my husbands father talked very rudely to me and my husband and his mom also started shouting at me calling me names and saying that I was basically an egoist only interested in my own little life. I don’t know how this happened. I angrily reacted back and my husband did not say a word. When we tried to work things out when his parents left, we started living together again but things have changed. We arent as friendly as we always were, his parents still keep influencing him and basically I dont think he has a mind of his own. He gets influenced by whoever tells him anything. I feel bad and used as I am his wife but he did not support me in front of his parents. What do I do? How will my husband know what a role of a husband is in a marriage?

2006-08-12 10:49:44 · 13 answers · asked by Jasmine B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-12 10:48:56 · 11 answers · asked by spiderpn7 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello me and my husband have been together since 1999 and have been married since 2001 and he has always been mean to me like pouring ceral on my head or smacking across the face and about 1 year ago I kick him out. we have 2 kids, (2 1/2 and 5 years old) He moved out I filed for divorce, he snuck in my house in beat me up. And after a month or so I took him back. Like something crazy. Anyways I also slept with one of his friend while we where seperated. Something else crazy. Anyways that was my way of getting back. Now I can't just get past him beating me up, he still is mean but now just verbally. And I am not in love with him. I just don't know what to do. I am 23 years old and feel lost. He just nit picks all the time. I always worry if he is going to get mad over something. I have tried to fall in love and I just can't . He never appreciates anything. I mow the grass, take out the garbage, everything. And also clean house and take care of kids. I stay hateful towards him,plz,help.

2006-08-12 10:48:35 · 16 answers · asked by cbrannon22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You see I had relationships where my boyfreinds and I really loved each other, but we always fall apart! Is it love or like, and can it be possible for me to be in love and find the right guy?

2006-08-12 10:47:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I were camping on my birthday so I guess I wasn't expecting anything, but a card would be nice. He is a wonderful husband in every way but when it comes to gift giving he is a big failure. I just was hoping he would surprise me just once on this milestone of a birthday? My son takes after his Dad and didn't bother even with a card only a belated verbal Happy Birthday when we came back from our camping trip. My daughter on the other hand gave me two very special gifts.

Now I'm wondering what I should do about my husbands 65th birthday coming up in a few months. Should I just ignore it or plan a little family party which I wanted to do for him.

The thing is I am so hurt that I'm now out of the mood to do any celebrating for anyone. I am at the point of not giving cards or gifts for the men in my family from now on! I could really use some advice here!?

2006-08-12 10:46:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family