i like my crush so much its not even funny. i've never had a boyfriend before and i want him to be my first. i want to tell him tonight but i dont know how. i dont know how he will take it. im scared of what he would say. his cell phone is broken so i cant call/text him. i want to tell him over IM but i dont know how to tell him. how should i start it off? then tell him? i dont know i need to know. he lives about an hour away from me. is that a problem? I NEED SOME ADVICE!
2006-08-12 11:03:33 · 6 answers · asked by loveyouu_xo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well... i told my first gf over IM.... and... there isent really a rite way or a wrong way.... but if u 2 r really close as far as freinds go he might b thinking the same thing... so just tell him from the bottom of yr haert no exageration and no underestimates.... just tell him strate up.... but thats what i did once i got the nerve up and im still with my first gf and its been a year... so... if he is the rite one... he will probly b asking himself if u like him... so i say just go 4 it
2006-08-12 11:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLD UP WAIT A MINUTE!!!!
first of all u never had a boyfriend and u have a crush on some guy, ITS JUST A CRUSH u dont just go up and have sex with the first guy u really really like,
since u never had a boyfriend the first few crushes are gonna drive u crazy, but PLZ dont do anything stupid, trust me U WILL REGRET IT!!im not tryin be mean im tellin you from experience
plz make the right descion!!! plz.........
alll u should be doin right now is telling him how u feel about him, how? just say it flat out how u feel about him, its over the internet so u shouldnt be that shy about it, its better thatn calling him or sayin it face to face
plz make the right descion
2006-08-12 18:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down,this is a big deal!You need for your first to be very special and the boy should want you as much or more than you want him!Do not give your self to some one who is not going to be your steady bf that just will hurt you.Please wait go slower,wait for a guy who really loves you
2006-08-12 18:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want him to be your first, I know I WISH that I waited. OK.........
You could ask him out on a date and find out want he likes in females and if there is a romantic point somewhere in the date give him a kiss or something.
2006-08-12 18:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..ok slow down....lets see..
Hay, whatcha doin? Me well deciding on telling you my secret. I really like you and I was wondering if you would want to go out with me? I know its crazy me im you, but I didn't know how to ask you face to face. We could maybe go to the movies or out to eat?...
I hope this helps a little.
2006-08-12 18:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him over IM. Or even over the phone. Those don't allow you to see his reaction. Tell him in person instead. Good luck!
2006-08-12 18:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by SwimLove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋