I've had guys ask me out then when I say no they get all bent out of shape. Comments like: Black men not good enough for you? Or Let me know when you start taking applications.(this is a turn off in the first place)
2006-08-12 10:52:49 · 10 answers · asked by blueeyesbrilliance 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, men that say that are just insecure with themselves and when you reject them they are searching for a way to blame you or make it look like YOU are the one that has the problem (especially if its in public) so they can walk away feeling good about themselves. As long as you are not coming right out and saying "No I don't date white guys or no I don't date black guys", then no you aren't being racist. You have the choice to date whom ever you wish to date no matter what race the man is.
2006-08-12 11:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't dating them because of their race then yes I do believe you are racist. But if you just aren't interested in them then they are just saying things to try and make you look bad since they probably feel like idiots for being turned down.
2006-08-12 10:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who you chose to date is nobody's choice but your own! If you only dated women would that make you sexist? I guess I'm sexist because I'm a man and only date women. They are just tryna validate themselves by finding fault w/you! F*** 'em.
2006-08-12 11:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people are indeed racist. in one way or another. some people just don't understand and they need to justify why you are rejecting them. bottom line is they know they are loosers and they can't accept it.
2006-08-12 10:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of racer are you? Runner, bicyclist or swimmer!
2006-08-12 11:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the races pure.
2006-08-12 11:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like racing.
2006-08-12 10:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is ok.. u are the one who is goin to b datin with the person, not him?
2006-08-12 11:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by tattoo babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some guys are @$$holes.
2006-08-12 10:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are the racist. it's your choice not theirs.
2006-08-12 10:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋