During the first year of our 6 year marriage, we lost our first child. We have a new baby. In April, my husband said he didn't think he could handle the responsibility of a child. He is negative and nasty to me for the past few years, off and on. I was holding my own, but now I've started seeing another man, I got weak and failed. I feel horrible about what I've done, but it is what it is. I'm tired of being miserable, and afraid my child will grow up in a miserable household. My husband wants us to go to counseling, returns from a business trip in a few weeks. He's been gone since Feb. He says he has pushed me away because he is afraid of losing me, like I might die because our child died. I am resentful, and don't think he will change. He only started doing this when I told him I was leaving and starting my master's degree. He desires counseling. I do not plan to leave my husband for this other guy. I'd like NOT to be divorced, but I am so emotionally tired. Any advice?
2006-08-12
10:01:30
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~*Allypooh*~
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Marriage & Divorce