i need friend help!?

Question

this past year.
a bunch of my friends have moved away or strayed from their walk with God.
one of my best friends in the world died right in front of my eyes at the mere age of 15.
another friend got cancer for the 3rd time in his 16 year old life.
& now he's moved to montana so he can get healthy again.
i know that i'm being selfish when i say that he needs to be here with his friends & family.
but i'm the one that needs him.
even if our friendship has been awkward for the past few weeks, i still love that kid.
i just feel like everything in my life is falling apart.
all of my friends turn to me with their many problems & ask me for advice.
i try to give them the best answers that i can, but i feel like it's all wrong.
all of my friends have some sort of drama or traumatizing event going on in their lives, & i keep getting pulled into it.
i try to stay out of it, & give them a few kind words when they need it,
but i get caught in the middle.
i know that my friends need me, but i need them too.
everytime i try to talk about my problems or whatever is going on in my life, they go off aboutwhatever they're stressing about at the moment.
i want them to listen to me & give ME advice for once.
i understand that they all have their problems.
i do.
but i can't help but be a little selfish.
the only one i can really turn to who listens to me is God. he's the only One that's been keeping me going through this past year.
life is just so confusing & complicated.
i just need someone to talk to.
i pray to the Lord that all my problems will be sorted out, & i know that they will in time.
but i can't wait forever.
this year has been one huge test of Faith.
all these deaths & drama & lies.
it's hard to take.
i really need advice.
will someone please help me?

Answer 1

sweetheart you need to relax!!!! you cant solve the whole worlds problems!!!!just concentrate on yourself, make yourself happy!! theirs nothing selfish it that

Answer 2

You probably won't like this asvice too much since I don't believe in god, but you should try to meet some new friends. You should be thankful that all of the drama isn't happening to you. You need to take an optimitic view point on these thing. support your friends, you pretty much have no choice, but make sure you give them all the help they can get. That should help you forget about some of your problems if you have theirs on your mind. I'm not going to tell you to be patient because you seem like you're just about out of patience, so just hang in there. You are in charge, You can make things happen, Just believe in yourself! You have the power to turn fate in your direction.
Good Luck

Answer 3

I DO UNDERSTAND.IKNOW SOMETIMES THINGS REALLY LOOK BLEAK AND GOD ISN'T ANSWERING.WELL HE'S LISTENING JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVEN'T SEEN YOUR ANSWER YET DOESN'T MEAN IT'S NOT ON IT'S WAY.ALL THE STUFF YOR GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW IS ALL FOR SOME KIND OF REASON BUT RIGHT NOW YOU WON'T KNOW BUT YOU WILLBE SOME HOW A STRONGER PERSON FOR IT.REMEMBER"THERE IS A REASON FOR EVERYTHING UNEDR GOD AND HE WILL NOT PUT ANYTHING ON YOU THAT HE DOES NOT THINK YOU CAN HANDLE".TAKE CARE AND MAY GOD BLESS

Answer 4

You need to try and forget about everyone else and think about yourself for a change, go and just do something that you enjoy, like just going for a drive or something along those lines, just relax.
best advice ever.

Answer 5

you have chosen the right path in praying for help. jesus is the only true friend we have-he died for us. if you send an email, i'll be happy to return it with lengthier response. i need a nap. i work tonight. god is depending on you to be strong in these trying times. god bless you and i will pray for you.

Answer 6

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