i have a cousin who is in love with my best friends bf what should i do??

Question

my cousin has been talking to my best friends boyfriend and my cousin said she is in love with him now and she does not want me to tell me best friend but i always tell my best friend every thing what should i do?????????/

Answer 1

I think you should let your best friend know because obviously your cousin is scandalous to even think about it. If it was you wouldn't you want to know because if it gets out and your best friend finds out you knew and didn't warn her she is going to be upset at you. You only get two good friends and your cousin is always going to be cousin . LOYALTY!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

1. Tell your cousin that you do not think what she is doing is right

2. Tell cousin you do not want to keep this from your best friend.

3. Ask cousin how she can like a guy who is a cheat.

4. Tell cousin that she is really putting you in an uncomfortable situation.

5. Tell your best friend that you did all of the above.

Answer 3

Obviously, he's taken, so I'd make that pretty clear to your cousin. I don't see any reasoning for your best friend to know, unless something ends up happening between your cousin and him. I mean... chances are, your cousin isn't the only one that is attracted to this guy. It happens, it's not grounds to go and start a argument, when it's something such as that. People will be interested in him, regardless... it's just unfortunate for you, that it's your cousin. Yeah... I'd just make that clear to your cousin and keep my mouth shut unless something ends up going down.

Answer 4

First of all I think that your cousin knows her wannabe lover is already in with someone else, so she needs to back off. I think that you shouldn't say a word to know one. You dont want neither of them to be mad at you so donot tell your bestfriend because the both of my get you in the mix of a big fight or arguement. So if your cousin loves she could wait for them to break-up.

Answer 5

... hun how old r u? u know if u promised ur cousin not to tell it to ur friend. just don't tell. but if case is more serious. talk ur friend to make her ready for some bad situations. it is not ur realtion. also ur's cousin love can be not so serious then maybe no need to worry ur friend... if u feel u should tell to help somehow ur friend off course tell but if u wanna tell cous u can't wait to tell her news keep it for urself,

Answer 6

like everyone else is saying talk to your cousin tell her you don't appreciate her trying to ruin your friendship.
In my small community the cousins do this all the time... it ruins the relationship..but the ones that communicate save both relationships..so talk to both your bf & your cuz.....Good luck!!!

Answer 7

talk to ur cousin about this and dont try to talk with ur best friend about it. cuz she may not understand. try to tell ur cousin that he is not hers. try to tell her this is not love. and she cant love someone who is already taken. try also to convince her that she will suffer alot when she see him with ur best friend and how much it is going to be painful
try to control the situation i wish for u all the luck :)

Answer 8

Well number one ur cousin needs to back off of ur friends boyfriend it wrong and she shouldnt be trying ne thing. tell her u dont wanna know ne thing bout it because if she does do something and u know bout it that could mess up u and ur friends relationship. just dont say ne thing and dont know ne more than u already know

Answer 9

Tell your cousin to back off he's already taken.

Answer 10

This cousin is apparently in love from afar cuz he is taken. There is no point in telling her this cuz SHE has him. Thc cousin doesn't so why upset her? Feelings from afar wont change his decisions.