Family & Relationships - 7 August 2006

We have been married for 8 years, it seems that we have only been best friends,business partners. We are not in love with each other. We have 2 children 6 & 3. We do not want to divorce and we do not want to stay together just for the kids. We both know we deserve to be loved.We enjoy each others company and we rarely fight. This is a hard decision for both of us. Can we realisticly get a divorce and remain friends?

2006-08-07 04:27:44 · 147 answers · asked by lookingforanswers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-07 04:27:28 · 1 answers · asked by klarko 1 in Family

I have no idea what to do right now. I met this guy a year ago, we dated for a bit, then he decided to stop calling. About a month went by, and I just got this urge to call him and we ended up starting to hang out again. Eventually we took on the boyfriend/girlfriend title, and I ended up losing my virginity to him. He would still pull the not return my phone call thing every once in awhile when he got mad at me (which was usually the result of jealousy). But overall I was really happy with him. Then out of the blue he stopped calling, emailing, seeing me. He never even broke up with me. It had been 9 months since I heard from him, then yesterday there was a message from him on my myspace page and all it had was his phone number. Do I call him? If I do what do I say? He really hurt me, I haven't really dated since, does that mean what I had with him is worth forgiving, or am I just tied to him because of losing my virginity and being unable to start any other relationships?

2006-08-07 04:27:19 · 6 answers · asked by Legolas' Lover 5 in Singles & Dating

we went to court before he started this and they doubled his child support , he has always had a problem with paying it and i give most of the money to my daughter when i do receive one but he goes as far as quitting a job to keep from paying. i think that he isn't working now cause i haven't received one since court and the weekend he got her after court is when this started

2006-08-07 04:27:10 · 4 answers · asked by stormy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy for almost a year. He stares at other woman so much that we have gotten into many fights. I'm not talking about a look or whatever I'm talking staring for long periods of time. When we fight he gets very defensive and blames me for being insane insecure, whatever. Well, after many fights it just came out that he needs to make eye contact with other girls to make himself feel better. Now, when I'm not in a relationship I use eye contact in an effort to flirt. So, basically he flirts with other girls through eye contact everytime we go out.

He almost had me believing that it's me and that I'm crazy. But, now that he was honest with me I understand better.

My question is this. Would you stay in a relationship like this knowing that your significant other is doing this? If it's just eye contact and a smile is this a sign he will cheat? A guys reaction would be very helpful.

2006-08-07 04:26:29 · 14 answers · asked by lalalalalala 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 04:26:29 · 62 answers · asked by angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex fiance left me for the girl I was seeing at the time. Since then, they have had a son, gotten married, and now, she is pregnant again. Since he was my first love, you can imagine that it wasn't easy to let him go. I still haven't FULLY let him go as of now. Recently, he got saved and realized that it wasn't her he wanted; It was me. He tells me he still loves me and that he wants to be with me. What should I do? They have a second child due in October, and she and I hate each other. She had the situation planned out before she and I got together. I feel as if he really has changed his mind about being with her, but then again, my mind says "NO", but my heart says "Ok..One more time...That's it..." I want to be with him, and I want to trust him, but I'm not sure he's going to change...What should I do?

2006-08-07 04:25:40 · 17 answers · asked by Lindsey G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been thinking about asking my boyfriend to move in with me for a while, but wasnt sure because I didnt want to scare him!
This weekend on the way back from a party I told him that his mates keep asking me when we are going to move in together, he replied blimey we have only been together 5 months. He then went on to say that if I asked he would move in, in a flash if I asked. Does he want me to ask?

2006-08-07 04:25:33 · 23 answers · asked by ME 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 04:25:28 · 14 answers · asked by ♥SO Happy♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 04:25:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, we got together when i was 16,we are very happy, he moved in with me at my parents home but now we live apart again do you think we should look into getting our own place.

2006-08-07 04:24:56 · 22 answers · asked by Cutegirl_69 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been an honest person throughout my life.
But now i think now a days girls are cheater and have a low
moral character.
dont get emotional with them. just make them fool ,
**** them and forget them ,thats what they deserve.
all the time i have been made fool in relationships.
Now i think that the guys who use them like consumables
are right.
use them and through them. thats right for them.
m not against girls.But some girls need to teach a lesson.
what do you think.?

2006-08-07 04:24:43 · 12 answers · asked by rajmeindia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was just wondering because I am a sophmore and wants to now what awaits for me in highschool!

2006-08-07 04:24:41 · 9 answers · asked by Mace Windu 2 in Friends

they are a good person? What if there is no passion?
Honest answers.....sometimes I wonder if I could do this.

2006-08-07 04:24:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-07 04:24:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-08-07 04:24:06 · 6 answers · asked by dedenumba1 2 in Singles & Dating

they do not have a song they can call "their song" so they need some suggestions. serious ones please!

2006-08-07 04:23:36 · 13 answers · asked by lou 7 in Weddings

2006-08-07 04:23:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to marry her but im afraid this might happen again and i dont want the thought to always be in my head i want to know how to help get rid of this horrible idea and vision

2006-08-07 04:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I can handle a rude joke, but to go on about little kids is just too much. First off there are some kids on here and second its just immoral. Say what ever you like about sex and race but not kids. Am I the only one who feels this way?

2006-08-07 04:23:07 · 16 answers · asked by me 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to marry her but im afraid this might happen again and i dont want the thought to always be in my head i want to know how to help get rid of this horrible idea and vision

2006-08-07 04:22:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-07 04:22:33 · 6 answers · asked by Kadeem H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-07 04:22:07 · 20 answers · asked by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 in Singles & Dating

its my little brother and i have no idea what to get him.

2006-08-07 04:21:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-07 04:21:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where does a young 23yr old single mom go to meet people? I don't want to pick someone up in the bar, and I live in canton oh so minus the bar there is no where to go. Where can you meet someone? At least someone who is intelligent, smart, funny, understanding. good looking, stable and reliable. Where can you find that is there any hope

2006-08-07 04:20:37 · 3 answers · asked by katie 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and it seems that he likes me too. However, he's really shy so he's not very open about his feelings so this is kind of a big step that he's subtly showing that he likes me. unfortunately whenever a guy i like initially shows interest in me i tend to tense up and become distant when i'm with him (i.e. not walk close to him, avoid physical contact etc.) i sense this happening with this guy and i really don't want to push him away or make him think that i don't like him because i really like him and would like to pursue a relationship with him. we're already good friends which makes it even worse because i get embarrassed that i like him. what should i do?

2006-08-07 04:20:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 04:19:35 · 72 answers · asked by lou 7 in Weddings

2006-08-07 04:19:33 · 11 answers · asked by baby_gurl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What does orgasm feel like for you?

2006-08-07 04:18:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating