I want to marry her but im afraid this might happen again and i dont want the thought to always be in my head i want to know how to help get rid of this horrible idea and vision
2006-08-07 04:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont' marry her, she'll keep cheating on you forever and you'll always be paranoid about it. Find someone else.
2006-08-07 04:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE NOTHING TO FORGIVE!!! SHE DID THE WRONG THING, NOT YOU!!! ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER!!! DON'T DO IT!!! DON'T MARRY HER!!! FIND SOMEONE WHO REALLY LOVES YOU!!! IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT YOU WERE BROKE UP FOR A WEEK! IF SHE REALLY LOVED YOU SHE WOULDN'T HAVE CHEATED, EVEN FOR A MINUTE! SHE WOULD HAVE THOUGHT OF YOU AND SAID I'M NOT GOING TO DO THIS! I AM GOING BACK TO THE MAN I LOVE TO WORK THINGS OUT! BUT SHE DIDN'T BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T REALLY LOVE YOU! SHE IS A CHEATING LOSER!!!! DON'T GET MARRIED JUST BECAUSE IT'S A MONTH AWAY!!!! YOU MAY END UP DIVORCED AND FEELING EVEN WORSE!!!! THERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD!!! FIND SOMEONE NEW WHO CAN APPRECIATE YOU AND LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU SHOULD BE LOVED!!! DON'T SETTLE!!! LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE IN A MISERABLE RELATIONSHIP AND TO BE WASTING YOUR TIME WONDERING IF SHE'S OUT THERE CHEATING AGAIN! GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!
2006-08-07 11:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by ChicaLoca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were broken up at the time then how can it be cheating? If your marrying her, then you obviously forgave her. If you can't get over what she did when you were "broken up" then don't get married. I think your upset because she moved on to someone else instead of sitting at home crying over you. You need to get over it and realize that she does love you and you won her back. Don't let the past ruin your future. If you decide not to marry her you'll lose her forever. The choice is yours..........good luck
2006-08-07 11:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were broken up then she wasn't cheating. That was probably her way of trying to cope with the fact that you guys broke up. But, if you don't trust her, then you definitely shouldn't marry her because a relationship should be built on trust.
2006-08-07 11:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by lilcountrygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See do u realioze ur keywords???? u said ya'll was brokken up for a week so itz not cheating if ya'll wasn't together da only way u can consider it cheating is if ya'll was still together which ya'll wasn't so if u wanna marry her and be with her ur gonna have to trust her
2006-08-07 12:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by powderjusblazin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were broken up and that is a really hard time on a girl and some one probably took advantage of that as long as it was not when you were together it should be alright
2006-08-07 11:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋