Confused!!!!?

Question

I have been thinking about asking my boyfriend to move in with me for a while, but wasnt sure because I didnt want to scare him!
This weekend on the way back from a party I told him that his mates keep asking me when we are going to move in together, he replied blimey we have only been together 5 months. He then went on to say that if I asked he would move in, in a flash if I asked. Does he want me to ask?

Answer 1

you can put it to him this way "when you feel comfortable moving in, I will be more than happy to have you" and then leave the ball in his court.

And men say they can't understand us!

Answer 2

WellIt has only been 5 months maybe you should wait untill atleast a yr that you kow him a little more. Plus you have to consider all the responsabilties that come with moving in together. like Does he work how long has he work is he going to be willing to go half on rent and bills. how about his personal hygene . when you go to his place is he a slob or is he tidy?i mean you have to know if you are going to be working all day and have to come home to a mess . plus you have to consider do you like your privacy or are you a party animal and is he the same couse if you like paece and quite and you come home to all his freinds hanging out it wont be pretty. just think long and hard before you ask him becouse things can get ugly later. i know you are in love and i am all for love belive me i married my husband after a month of meeting him off the net but i should have known better . we have our ups and downs and it's real hard . atleast if we where just living together it would be easier to walk away but i take marrige seriously so i'm in it for the long hual. Anyways just take your time you are young and so is he . give it atleast a year is all i have to say.

Answer 3

It seems your boyfriend has read your mind about you thinking of asking him to move in with you, it looks as if he would willing if you asked him even though you two have been together about 5 months. He could or could not be hinting around about asking him and even if he doesn't and you want to ask him go for it, may get the answer you looking for.

Answer 4

Yes make sure that your relationship will stand the change it is very stressful moving in together - I found that the first six months was great and the next a night mare and then it all evened out and six years later we're not just moving in together we're moving together (although my boyfirend did just ask me to move in with him again - sweet).

But if you feel you're ready then ask him - good luck!

Answer 5

Youve gotto ask him remember hes a guy and he wont know what your thinking unless you -SPELL- it out.
It sounds like hes already thought about it though so just sit him down and tell him what your thinking. Maybe hes a little hesitant cause thatll mean your taking it to the next level and that means commitment etc. another guy issue.

Answer 6

There is no harm in asking as long as you know that if he says no, that doesn't mean that you two can't continue to date, it just means that he might need a little more time. It sounds like he would be saying yes just to make you happy.

Answer 7

bit soon love, enjoy having your own space for a while.
ive just moved in with my partner of 6yrs and it drives me crazy
so far all i keep saying is pick your boxers up, whats this wet towl on the floor for! i feel like a mum!

Answer 8

he probably does but hen again maybe you should give it a lil more time you've only been together 5 months wait a while you don't want to scare him

Answer 9

You have to make sure you both feel comfortable with each other first(i mean properly feel comfortable)and then you never know what the out come will be

Answer 10

He definitely wants you to move in with him. But, always double-check and ask to make sure.

Answer 11

Yes, mate