is it wrong to cheat on your husband?

Answer 1

noooo go for it babe he,s probably already done same to you xx

Answer 2

yes. what u have to do is find out what the problem is in the relationship, and try ur hardest of fix it. however, u have to remember it's a two way street..no matter how hard YOU try, if ur husband doesn't give a crap, or doesn't understand or validate ur feelings, it's headed for disaster such as cheating or even divorce. communication is *KEY* in any relationship, regardless of if there are problems are not.

i'm guessing u are unsatisfied in some aspects of ur married life. u need to talk to ur husband about it...not in an accusatory way, but communicating about what YOU NEED as a wife, and what you've been doing for him as a wife, and what u expect of him as a Husband. if something is not being satisfied, and not "nipped in the bud", then it grows and grows until it causes a rift between u two, instead of u growing stronger and closer together, which is what u should be doing!!

good luck, try ur hardest to fix the problems u have right here and right now. that's the only way u can move forward together.. if he truly loves u, he will do his ALL to help make this relationship work too..but u have to give him that chance, before u go and cheat and disrespect him.

Answer 3

Its generally wrong to cheat, but lets face it, many people do and there many people and professionals who would advocate that cheating on a partner/spouse has its benefits as well as its lows and may even benefit all parties concerned.

When you think about it this is not a question that just requires a yes or no answer. .
Often the dynamics with a marriage are often overlooked as to what brings people to have an affair in the first place..it just doesnt come down to the differing feelings of one partner in the marriage...it takes two partners to drift apart or maybe the other is ignoring the signs of something amiss in their marriage and not doing anything about it to try and correct it. And for some people feelings can change through time or they could well have started off married life for the wrong reasons to begin with and problems arise at a later date.

This question is actually more complicated than what most people would give thought to it. I for one do believe cheating is wrong and its happend to me, but even with that you have to understand why these things happen and what the botton line is...and that really is, that one or both partners in the relationship no longer really love or respect each other the same and the relatuionship has broken down probably in several areas probably well before it got to the stage of anyone contemplating on cheating on their partner.

Cheating becomes cheating simply because the person who wants to cheat is not willing or strong enough to face up to their responsibility and tell their wife/husband that they arn't in love with them the same, nor are they willing to leave their marriage first in order to take up on another relationship with someone else...usually because they like to keep their home comforts going while the new relationship is on the go.
Its called cheating because they want to remain in the marriage or partnership rather than leave it and that what makes a mockey of marriage and situations like affairs being so sordid and hurtful.
A lot of people would have their cake and eat it to rather than trying to sort out their marriage in the first instance, or secondly, leave the marriage because they are unhappy or are no longer in love with their partner the same.
It is wrong to cheat but for some people it does work out even better for them being with someone else and ending the marriage, and wither that is right or wrong is I suppose a matter of opinion, however, that is a different question althogether.
I suppose sometimes it is right in a sense and sometimes it is wrong, it depends on the outcome and the position you are personally in or what perspective you take.

Answer 4

Of course it's wrong. Nothing justifies being unloyal. But people do for whatever reason. I think if this is your case then you should either find a way to make the relationship better by talking to him or if not any hope, then do yourself and him a favor and leave. It is always hard to get back on track after being disloyal so good luck.

Answer 5

These questions are getting tough.Let me think..

Hey try this..If your marraige is in trouble try talking to your husband. If that does nt work let try to be adult and get a divorce. Cheating is something people who are afraid to address there problems do. Or better yet cheat and bring home a nice disease to your unsuspecting spouse

Answer 6

i cant believe soooo many people ask this question! would you know the answer to that if you were asking if it was okay for your husband to cheat on you? i think you know the answer to that.and all these people that ask this question , why did you marry in the first place, why dont you just stay single and do what you got to do whats up with you people what happend to till death do you part, sickness and health, better or worse. LET NO MAN PUT ASUNDER

Answer 7

That depends on you and you values. If you have no values then I guess it's okay. Since you're asking then I guess that you're feeling guilty and need validation of your eventual actions.

I guess that leaves it up to you and how you want to view yourself. You can rationalize it easily if you want. He's mean, nasty, cheats on me, hits me etc..... you can come up with anything you want to cheat. Again you are the final judge. YOu don't have to ask a bucn of strangers on the internet for advice....unless you want to of course. This is America and you can do almost anythign you want to in America.

GOod luck, but I think you will dishonor yourself if you cheat. Just divorce him and keep your honor in tact. In the end that's all we have is our honor.

Answer 8

YES IT'S WRONG! if you thought other wise why did you get married? you made a commitment to your husband, How would you feel if hr cheated on you,

Answer 9

Nothing is black and white. Maybe this is the impetus you need to get out of, say, an abusive marriage (feeling attracted to another I mean - knowing there IS life after marriage). But I wouldn't hang around cheating on him. If things have reached that stage, you've got your answer and it time to get moving on.......

Answer 10

Yes

Answer 11

You are only cheating if you get caught doing it. What u should have asked was: is it wrong to sleep with another guy or girl while you are married?