Family & Relationships - 2 August 2006

My ex, or my 1st love we broke up about 4 years ago we hardly ever speak, and i got in contact with her threw myspace now i actully want her back all over again but how?

2006-08-02 14:47:59 · 22 answers · asked by dannyboy1286 1 in Singles & Dating

OK...I Have A Neice...She IS So Annoying And Bratty...But I'm Forced to be around her anyways...she always has to be righgt and she can be really mean...she is older than me..And im tired of being around her...what should i do???

2006-08-02 14:47:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Forgive me...I know this is a long post. Please bare with me. Thank you. There’s this guy that I am very interested in have been for seven years now. He had just gotten married right before we met. He and I always flirted with each other, but never did anything. Last year he came to me and told me he left his wife. Soon after that when I told him I’d like to see him, he began telling me stuff like, “It doesn't take a brain surgeon to see how much I like you.” Still nothing happened. He said he didn’t want to date anyone incase he went back to his wife. Which he did go back for a short time. During that time he said “If I were single I’d be knocking down your door.” Well, now, he's divorced. Has been since Feb. He told me a month later that he wanted to wait six months so he could heal from the divorce. He'll flirt with me and then say “He doesn't want to ruin our friendship.” Then he'll turn around and flirt with me again, telling me how much he wants to be with me.

2006-08-02 14:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

single windowed,father of 4.

2006-08-02 14:46:36 · 12 answers · asked by horseknickers 3 in Family

my girlfriend keeps telling me that a better paying job is the best, i tell her the more you make the more bills you have..the more you have to pay out..so it makes no sence..i am happy with my job..i have a very rewarding job and have been in my job for over 12 years...she goes job to job trying to make money..i told her it doesn't look good in the resume she tells me she omitts those jobs and don't put it in her resume.she says she made 120,000 last year at a job she no longer has...as a bank worker...she has a house up in the mountains. with her husband..she says is worth 550,000..i told her it may be worth that much but she does not own the house she will be paying till the day she die..what do you think...she say's i have a dead end job..with no opportunities to grow..i told her i have plenty of opportunities to grow in my job i just don't want the responsibilities that comes with it. what do you think?..please anybody please answer..am i wrong?

2006-08-02 14:46:19 · 4 answers · asked by gengen 3 in Family

My grandfather is ill and about to die and I am torn between whether I should go see him or not. I have not seen him in years and disowned their whole family due to verbal and physical abuse, alcoholism, neglect, and stupidity when I was a child. My other siblings seem to have forgotten this because he is sick but I have not. They have all been to see him. Will I regret it after he dies? What should I do?

2006-08-02 14:45:46 · 37 answers · asked by sara w 1 in Family

Whats the worst or funniest pickup line you heard?


someone said to me...

"do you have a bandaid? I hurt my knee falling for you!"

2006-08-02 14:45:45 · 12 answers · asked by Sully* 2 in Singles & Dating

A couple of days ago I brought a date back to my place. We got a little hot & heavy & after a while I checked to see if the "backdoor was open" . She said she was cool with it if she was allowed to use her toys on me next time we are at her place.

Now I need some excuses for our next few dates cos I am scared that we are gonna end up at her place and I am not ready to hold up my end of the deal (dont know if I'll be ready at all)

2006-08-02 14:44:57 · 27 answers · asked by Whodaman 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 14:44:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 14:43:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he was my Grandad and i'm looking for any of his irish/english family he was married to Elsie and lived in East London u.k he has deceased now but i would still like to know his relatives or anyone that knew him or was in the army possibly with him all i know is he was in Aden ! his conrads may have passed on but there families may have heard there love ones talk about him !

2006-08-02 14:43:16 · 5 answers · asked by terrystoner1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so i've been with my guy for almost 9 yrs. been engaged for 4 yrs, i'm still in school, 2 hours away from him, we don't have our own place together (i have a place at school, and he helps with the family business so has the upstairs of his 'rents house to himself (where i used to stay on weekends). i got into to it with my future monster-in-law b/c i haven't been helping to keep her house clean (i go to school yr round, i am studying to be a dr., i don't want to go to a dr. that didn't study, so i do study, and i go home for 2 days a weekend), am i supposed to be the maid? she said some REALLY mean things to me that i will never forget, i've never had someone be so mean to me. she screamed, i said "i'm sorry you feel that way" (i know i added fuel to the fire!), but he didn't stand up for me when it comes down to it. i am ready to end this long, first love, relationship, 75% of the reason due to his mom, 20% b/c of his friend (long story), and 5% b/c of him... suggestions??

2006-08-02 14:42:24 · 4 answers · asked by c 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you tell your boyfriend to stop asking for money without actually telling them?

2006-08-02 14:42:23 · 2 answers · asked by nasheila 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im young and Im in love for the very first time. Im talking about TRUE love. However, I have to break us off just because of our circumstances. I decided it would be better for the both of us to not be together, but it hurts me. It hurts me so much and since Ive never really loved anyone like this before, I dont know how to cope with this. I am so sad, I miss him so much. I miss his voice, I miss the nice things he says, I miss him. I need help. I ended us because I love him and I knew it would be best for us not to be together. Please help me to cope. Please give me suggestions. And please tell me how much experience youve had so I know. I appreciate it.

2006-08-02 14:41:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy, but I want to know do most women get b i t c h y when they are having PMS? Do some not change at all? What are some signs that a woman is having PMS (I'm not talking about discharge, so don't even say it.)

2006-08-02 14:41:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have recently met a beautiful woman. We've been out on a few dates, had wonderful times together, and have been intimate on a few occaions. The chemistry is strong and she's such a positive burst of energy and happiness that I can't help but feel the same way when we are together. But recently some things have changed. She seems to be more distant and told me that she doesn't want a relationship right now. She had just gotten out of one when we met but this didn't seem to be an issue then. But now she tells me that she's scared about a commitment. She also has kids who keep telling her they don't want her to have another boyfriend. I guess they were pretty close with her ex and his kids and probably don't want to go through that again, which I do understand.

So now she just wants to be friends and still go out to party. I feel kinda used but maybe I'm over-reacting. I don't know how to feel or what to say. I'd like to explore something more with her but I don't want to get hurt.

2006-08-02 14:39:33 · 15 answers · asked by Dark Horizons 1 in Singles & Dating

with their girl and another GIRL- but then get all huffy about the girl wanting them and another GUY to get her?

2006-08-02 14:39:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just dont think i have time in my life for a child. dont get me wrong i love kids i just think it would be wrong for me to have a child knowing that i would rather be doing something else with my time. i love to go out and hang out with my friends. most of my friends have children and i spoil them rotten. im already 25 years old. i dont want to be an old lady with a kid. my mom is young and we get along so well like friends and she is a good mom. i dont think my mom and my relationship have anything to do with it. and i just want to know what you think about this topic.

2006-08-02 14:38:33 · 8 answers · asked by shannon8869 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 14:38:08 · 45 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Singles & Dating

My son married a girl that is a total control freak, she tells my son when he can bring our grandbaby to our house,how long they can stay, and refusses to let his family keep the baby at all. This has caused a lot of friction between our son and the his family. He SAYS he has tried talking to her about it, but can get nowhere with her.She will not come to our home at all anymore. My grandbaby is almost 7 months old, she will leave the baby with HER 15 year old brother but refuses to let any member of my sons family keep the baby. Like I said this has caused a lot of argueing , not to mention the heartache of not being able to spend quilty time with our only grandbaby.We have gone through this for months now and I myself am now sure how much more I can take of this, I have cried myself to sleep at night over this matter. Whats a grandmother to do. I feel as if I have done everyting but bend over backwards and kissed her *** over this problem!!

2006-08-02 14:38:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 14:37:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do in a situation where a guy your dating is a little bit older than you and a girl who is his age already has a baby, likes him and thinks that were nasty for going out because of the age difference. I met her yesterday and before i got a chance to say anything to her she had already jumped into talking about my boyfriend. i change the subject because its none of her business with me-n-him.Plus I'd rather talk to her in private. Today, i asked my boyfriends cousin(best friends) if he would ever leave me for her and he said hell naw. But he also said that before me, they were friends with benefits.(I think she was just good for sucking dic. she looks like it-but I'm not the one to judge). Its also crazy because her baby daddy died and she seems like the type to be devious and run to the cops but not only that, we have the same name!!!(only i spell mine with an E)

2006-08-02 14:37:15 · 4 answers · asked by Lyssa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy on an online dating service, and he lives in the same state but a different county. He seems nice and everything, and actually i already agreed to meet him. He is 27 and I am 20. Do you think it is too old. Do you think I should meet him. We have talked we have chatted and done web cam so I know that he is not like 100 yrs old. I just don't want to get raped and murdered if you get my drift. But you got to try stuff new. And you got to take chances. So would you meet him?

2006-08-02 14:36:38 · 26 answers · asked by nana_14 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend got mad at me lastnight when I said Never mind cause i though was asking our friend Bubbles, and even explained in emails, but every time she replys watver and I can't even say that to her and she dosen't want to have things to like a DS. So wat do i do!

2006-08-02 14:36:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What is better for a guy to have physically? 1. Ripped six pack abs
Or 2. A flat stomach with not much definition and a well built torso?
Because, I have the latter. Anyone interested?

2006-08-02 14:34:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 27,(F) I have been with him since I was 16, he has been my only sexual partner, now we hardly ever have sex any more. PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-08-02 14:34:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And my fellow prisoners are already starting to call me a "old fat queen" is this a good start?

2006-08-02 14:33:43 · 12 answers · asked by Italian Stallion 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 14:32:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I make my whole night passionate with my partner and make her completely satisfied?

PLEASE GIVE HEALTHY AND SOUND ADVICES! THANKS!

2006-08-02 14:32:40 · 5 answers · asked by wullubemyfriend 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband its been very abusive and now his stupid *** is in jail for it.he calls me and says that he loves me and apreciate me more and he is going to change. hes abusive when drunk ad he is going to this program to help him with his alcoholism. but im not sure if i love him anymore. is it normal to feel the need to have someone else? isit normal to feel atracted to someone else and know that someone feels the same but you just feel youll be cheating if you fullfill your desires? is it normal to feel what i feel?

2006-08-02 14:32:30 · 10 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce