My husband asked me one morning on his way to work, "Please clean the house." I was taken back by this statement because that is what I do when he is gone anyway, why did he need to say that. It's like saying do your job today. I figure that you don't have to remind me, you don't have to say remember to breath, you just do. I stated this to him and he responded, "Well, it's the same as you saying work overtime this week please." I said "That is different, I am stating a fact, we need more money to pay the morgage payment, how else do I say it." I could understand him saying "clean the house", if I never cleaned it but when I questioned him he said I have been cleaning the house just fine he couldn't see any problem. I said, "Then why did you say it?" He said, "It's the same as you saying work overtime." I clearly disagree, what do you think?
He is not aware of the finacial situation in our house. I do the bills, he says he wants it this way because he would just get overly stressed.
2006-08-02
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