ladies help me?

Question

i'm 21 with two kids one 2 and one 3 months and i think i might preagant again i love my baby daddy so much but i got a feeling he's cheating on me i want to leave him but it's like every time i pack my stuff i tthink about the times we had together and change my mind i mean i know it's other men out there but it's like if i see a man trying to holla i turn them down i don't know what to do

Answer 1

Have you tried talking to him about it. If he is cheating, confront him and tell him..look if you want this family you need to stop or I am leaving for good. Honey I know it will be hard, but you have to do what right for you and your kids...I am a divorced mother of three, I know. And if it does come down to you leavin...when ever you feel sad...you just look at your beautiful children and know that they are what keeps you goin. good luck!

ps...don't stay just for the kids...that never works.! Thats just like getting married because you are pregnant...almost never works.

Answer 2

Sweetie Ur concern should be about u and Ur kids. Not Ur may be cheating man, or any other man, because he's gonna do it NO MATTER what. But the one thing u should also do is make sure he take care of his kids.

U said that everytime u pack to go u think about the times u had together, I don't believe thats whats making u stay, I think u may be afraid of be alone( and thats normal) because it can be scary and with two kids u have to worry.

Have u asked or confronted him about this cheating u think he may be doing?

U need to try to focus on getting yourself, the kids and ur new baby together the men will and can come later.

What if he is cheating,, what are u gonna do?

Answer 3

First and foremost, are you sure that he is cheating, or are you paranoid from the past actions of him? If he really is cheating, you guys need to work it out, he is not happy about something, or he might just be too young? Sit him down and have a long talk, I know its hard, but try to get some kind of counsling...three kids, something gotta shake...he needs to grow up and quit playing games.

Answer 4

Have a Talk With Him, and DONT LEAVE THE KIDS THERE IF U LEAVE. If he admitts hes cheating, then leave, its the best. And dont tell ur kids that there not going to see there daddy anymore, it just makes it worst. But Dont Pack before u no hes actually cheating.

Answer 5

I can not believe girls get themselves in this mess, in this day in age! You are letting this man trap you in a mess that you will never get out of. Your parents must be so proud. (not) There are very few men that are going to want you and your 3 kids. Best you tell this man to marry you and start being responsible parents. (You stop playing on neopets.com like a 10 year old and him stop messing with other p*ssy's like a 16 year old.)

Answer 6

Im a guy, but i recommend staying with him. Your gonna need the help, even if he is cheating with you, its better that he is there to help you out.

You can always look for someone to help you, a friend or just someone to help you with the kids.

Seriously thats why its a bad idea to have sex before marriage (correct me if im wrong).

-Edward

Answer 7

Its normal to think thoughts like that when stress is put on you. Besides, it would be better to have someone there for the kids, especially if you are pregnant again, you won't want to be alone.

Answer 8

You picked him. And you weren't even smart enough to wait until you married him. With 3 illegitimate children you have alot of baggage. I hope you are at least getting child support.

Answer 9

If you got 2 kids then stay with him.

Answer 10

wow, I just posted almost the same question a few minutes ago, the same thing is happening to me, and yes It is too hard to leave the person you love.