Family & Relationships - 2 August 2006

This means u would get to hang out with them, if theyre the opposite sex, then its like a date, and at night u could do anything you wanted without the consequences of what you wanted, so who would it be with, and what exactly would u do?

2006-08-02 15:12:42 · 12 answers · asked by mister w 3 in Singles & Dating

So I met someone wonderful this weekend. She is smart, attractive and really great to talk too. I think this is going somewhere but..i still love my ex-girlfriend. (who also has feeling for me but lives far far away) I want to move on, but my heart is still also fa far away!! Should I even bother going on a date with this new lady, or should I let her go until I can really be free in my mind, body, and spirit!! I have never been able to casually date someone, so it is either all or nothing. Somebody help a brother out!!

2006-08-02 15:11:43 · 3 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Singles & Dating

I am so into someone and I don't know what I can do to get there attention. every time I am around her she smells so nice and I just light right up. What should I do next?

2006-08-02 15:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 15:10:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my friend of many years, just wont returned my calls,
I have tried and triied, she just wont communicate with me.
I have even left messages, and wont answear I am worry about her. Should I give up on her?

2006-08-02 15:10:20 · 4 answers · asked by lunaredcartagena 1 in Friends

What if a guy always flirts with you, but then you find out that youre not the only one. Does that still mean he might like you?

2006-08-02 15:09:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

shes 13 im 15 ok she used to be all over me...i mean we would do everything togeher..i asked her out...she said idk maybe......she told her friends she mite like me....but she really backed off...its been about a month..and shes really backd off..she doesnt talk to me that much anymore...we dont do stuff together anymore.....now she's telling her friends taht she has no feelings for me at all...but her and her mom are rele close..and she told her mom..something totally diffreent....i think she likes this other guy..but no one knows about it.....so she is still all over him...do u think she is just scared?? or doesnt like me or what??....and if i scared her away..and she doesnt like me anymore...there has to be something i can do if she had feelings for me.......to make her get those feelings back..please tell me what i should do.( i asked her y she backd off and she said she was just busy and stressed)..and what could possibly be going thru her head ??????????

2006-08-02 15:08:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in desperate need of answers,recently i decided to try to get back in contact with a guy i use to go to school with so i called his mom and left my info with her and she told me that when she heard from him she would give him the msg.anyway its been almost 2 weeks and im starting to worry he may never call.i dont see any reason he wouldnt call me i mean we were friends in school he was crazy about me and we got along good with eachother.i miss him alot and i really wanna talk to him.this is really upsetting me what should i do?

2006-08-02 15:08:56 · 3 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Friends

But I never see them ACTUALLY doing it. Sure a few of them. I'm not talking about 30 year olds, I mean teenagers, girls my age. I was the typical nice guy, I would open doors for girls, complement them, they would talk to me about their boyfriends and their family but I never got a date. Girls say they want a nice guy. I say Bullshit. (most)Girls go for jerks. Girls go for assholes that don't give a sh it about them. I have only had one girl say she wanted to go out with me, and I didn't like her, I couldn't figure out why, I was always sarcastic to her and hardly ever payed attention to what she said. Until I found this, It answered all my questions.

On the matter of nice guys vs jerks I wish I could say that the statement was ridiculous and of course the nice guys in the end will get the girl but it's simply not true.

Women (just as men by the way) want someone who excites them, makes them feel special and gives them a thrill on a regular basis. They want somebody who sends them on an emotional rollacoaster.

I've been a bartender in the center of Amsterdam in one of the more popular places students go to, and before I started there I was a real regular nice guy to women. I'd take my time, always was nice even when they were being a total ***** and would really try to make them feel special. And it never worked. NEVER!!

After starting my, at first part time job there, I started, as a bartender, to get a lot of attention from women. Of course I realize that this was because of my job, had I been standing on the other side of the bar I wouldn't have gotten a second look. Problem was that the place is extremely busy and there are too many girls interested to give them all equal attention. To my amazement I found out that the girls I really didn't give the time of day, were the ones that really started to like me and started to do everything just to get a hello or a kiss out of me. (In Holland you give girls you know three kisses when you say hello.)

Exploiting this my sex life picked up a great deal and it started working to outside of my work too. Having a total disinterested attitude, and being a total sarcastic bastard is for some strange reason a turnon with women. If a girl spent the night at my place and I wouldn't phone them up or react really happy when I saw them the next time the girls would start being really nice to me, and do everything to make me happy, this was a whole new world for me! And yes they would come back to my place again and everything would repeat itself.

Two years later I am now the manager of a club by the same owner and can't be as frivolous as I have been the last couple of years. Instead of the one, or whenever it's desirable, night stands I wouldn't mind something a little more lasting. Problem is that being a jerk works, but I don't want to or enjoy being a jerk to somebody I genuinely have feelings for. The other girls willingly and knowingly went for the bartender and not for me as a person, and everybody knows how the story ends if you hook up with a bartender.

But I don't have a clue what happens when I fall in love. Probably the same way as it did before I invented the jerk in me, I'll get burned badly.

And just as in the movies in the end the nice guy gets the girl, but only because the jerk has had enough of her, she can't stand being treated badly anymore. The kid she's had needs clothes and food and a father and she's now willing to choose just love or at least affection over passion. And when the jerk pops up again, she'll be totally blown away again and full of doubts for a couple of weeks. (have I let go the love of my life?, were the bad times really that bad?, am I happy now?)

Well that's my input and I hope somebody proves me wrong, because when it's sex I'm looking for I have the perfect life, but when it's love I'm just as messed up as the rest of you.

2006-08-02 15:08:09 · 26 answers · asked by Greg 4 in Singles & Dating

It was prom night, and i didn't even buy a tux. But i did wear some nice tennis shoes. She refused to take any more than one picture with me at prom, then wanted to leave early. My parole officer was there the whole night, making sure i didn't go anywhere out of his sight. Most people laughed at me and her, but i thought love could endure anything, but obviously she, (like all bitches) only wanted me for my money. When prom was over she was kind enough to give me a prom picture but i didn't order any. But at least i was kind enough to draw a picture of us both on college ruled paper and give it to her and said, "here this is my prom picture for you." but she continues not to talk to me. Just because im 400 pounds overweight and never shave or wash my clothes shouldn't mean anything, that is, "if the love is there." I just don't understand it, im trying to be myself all the time. God damn, this toilet seat is getting hot, gotta flush.

2006-08-02 15:07:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am engaged to a wonderful man, i love him very much. I was so happy when he proposed his mother wants to help pay and of course plan our wedding and honeymoon. because she has never did for her son before, my fiance wants to make her happy. we plan on buying a house, his mother is helping him choose it, not me. since they have good taste and only because of my fiance can we afford a home. i will be helping pay for it, but he is putting up the downpayment. because of this i feel i have no desicion making power, he does not understand my feelings, he also informed me we would make his mother so happy if she could decorate this house for us also, having great taste. I wonder what my part is in this marriage, i am not yet seeing the benefit of marriage over living together as we are now. I feel my opinion is not valued or wanted, let me say this what few times i met his mother she is very nice to me, and does have good taste, etc, so this is not a dis to her. any thoughts?

2006-08-02 15:06:25 · 22 answers · asked by Kentuckymist 1 in Weddings

turn a girl down straight up to there face. im a girl and just got turned down and all he said waz "No". how can they do that, that hurts their feelings, me and the guy r friends and thats all he did

2006-08-02 15:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by kim w 2 in Singles & Dating

MY friend is jealous of me because the guy she liked asked me out and I accepted. Now she's saying that he's only with me 2 make her jealous! what should I do? he dosent even like her!!

2006-08-02 15:05:49 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Cassie♥ 2 in Friends

Racheal Robinson
She was into me in school but then she like at the end we went out for a couple days and then she broke up with me, then i talked to her, then i asked if we had a chance and she said yeah so i dont know if i should ask her out or not.

Tiffany Jones
We are good friends and then i told one of me friends that i like her, she called her, told her so now i caled her and she asked and i was to nervous to tell her yes so i dont know how to tell her.

Emma Smith
We went to Leaders Training School and me, my friend nik (i meet there too) and we meet her and then she started to hang out and then she hugged us alot everyday, then there was a dance and her and nik went to the dance and they got in a rough patch so i helped them, they got over it and then Leaders Training School was over so i instant messaged her and we talked every now and then, then i talked to her last night, she said that i was less then a relationship but more than friends and i think we might go out..

2006-08-02 15:05:42 · 5 answers · asked by Sniper1409 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 15:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by red15 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-02 15:04:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-02 15:04:05 · 13 answers · asked by R.W.T.F. 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to a guy for the past two weeks, he told me that i wanted to kiss me on my lips (on the phone) but he didn't actually do it when i saw him the next day. But one day later, he asked me if he can kiss my neck...he begged me....but i got scared and walked away cus i thought this should come naturally.
He was worried that i would take it offensively so he apoloized to me. But at the same time, he asked what's my limit...
Since then, i have wondered why he asked? WHy didn't he wait till it is the right time to kiss? Why did he ask my limit?

2006-08-02 15:03:09 · 29 answers · asked by polinatora 1 in Singles & Dating

girls if you had a boyfriend and this other boy likes you and you said that you would date after you broke up with him girls i am the guy wanting the girl with the boyfriend so what would you do and what would make you break up with a guy to go out with another yes i love her and respect her but i dont want her to stick with him oh we go to seperate schools so plz help

2006-08-02 15:02:14 · 13 answers · asked by hannanabannana01 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 27 year old guy, I have had plenty of girlfriends but have to this point saved myself for marriage ( something I very much want but still haven't met the right woman) My last gf knew my thoughts on all this long before we began dating but in the end she basically told me I was " out of date" and insane for waiting. And of course broke up with me, Now I admit I am a religious man and this has alot to do with my thoughts on all this. But this isnt the first girl to leave me over this ( and most of my gf's I met in CHURCH mind you) so I am starting to wonder, am I really just fooling myself into thinking its possible in today's society to wait?

2006-08-02 15:01:08 · 36 answers · asked by Snowlion 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in 6 weeks and my fiancee's brother and father are no longer with us. We would like to include them, but the wedding will be outside...Any suggestions?

2006-08-02 15:00:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-08-02 15:00:42 · 8 answers · asked by Heavenlyrose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Talk to me. Share us your feelings. Please

2006-08-02 15:00:31 · 7 answers · asked by popstar452003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really really really like her and i think she likes me but should i ask her or should i wait until she asks me and if i ask her how do i ask, i mean i really really really really like her but i don't want to get rejected, what if everyone at church starts gosiping about me, and ya'll know how the bible says there's someone out there for all of us, well, i feel like i found her but i don't want to get rejected, how do i ask her, or should i just wait until she asks me.

2006-08-02 15:00:13 · 14 answers · asked by JesusFreak 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 15:00:04 · 19 answers · asked by White Flower 2 in Friends

how do you deal with ----
losing your family, realising thats all you ever need and wanted and knowing , well at least thinking you will never, ever get them back?
(as in you your partner and your kids living together)?
by the way it is all my fault and i have tried for 6 month, i have everything i need to move on lined up but im thinking i can never repair this i have caused how do i deal with that?
im 26 yrs old 3 kids 9 , 10, and 2.

2006-08-02 14:59:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-02 14:59:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 14:59:37 · 2 answers · asked by hrmom02 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a huge argument with a guy friend 2 years ago and now we don't talk. I sorta missed him last year but not to much. Now I miss him so much and not just as a friend but i like him as more now. every time i see or look at him though i feel a pang of guilt, anger, happiness, nervousness exitement and love which i have NEVER felt towrds a guy before. its driving me crazy!!!

2006-08-02 14:58:35 · 4 answers · asked by Englishchick 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is moving to tennesee and i live in ny wat to do?

2006-08-02 14:58:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships