shes 13 im 15 ok she used to be all over me...i mean we would do everything togeher..i asked her out...she said idk maybe......she told her friends she mite like me....but she really backed off...its been about a month..and shes really backd off..she doesnt talk to me that much anymore...we dont do stuff together anymore.....now she's telling her friends taht she has no feelings for me at all...but her and her mom are rele close..and she told her mom..something totally diffreent....i think she likes this other guy..but no one knows about it.....so she is still all over him...do u think she is just scared?? or doesnt like me or what??....and if i scared her away..and she doesnt like me anymore...there has to be something i can do if she had feelings for me.......to make her get those feelings back..please tell me what i should do.( i asked her y she backd off and she said she was just busy and stressed)..and what could possibly be going thru her head ??????????
2006-08-02 15:08:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, the only person who has the answer to what is going through her head is her.
2006-08-02 15:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a girl I no that were complicated. Your still younge so first of all don't get caught up in one girl all the sudden. Also since she's young to she might be scared of being in such a serious relationship right now. Ya no that saying "You never no how much you love someone untill you loose them" Well maybe once she relizes how different things are without you there then she'll want you around all the time like in the past. But things change and sometimes for the worse. If it doesn't work out the way you want it to then I no you'll be hurt but that just means that she wasn't the right girl for you and that theres someone else out there thats going to love you just the way you love her.
2006-08-02 15:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by bubbalybubbles123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, a 13 yr.old is really too young for a 15yr. old. However, when she is 15 and you are 17, that could be a different story. If I were you, I would just act friendly toward her, show some interest in a girl who will appreciate your attention. In time, she may change her mind,and as much as it may be hard for you to believe now, you may change your mind, too. Cool it until she is a bit older.Be patient....not easy advice for a 15yr.old guy!!
2006-08-02 15:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes 13 now and she probably doesnt even know wat she wants. u may not think this true, but when youre a teen, 2years in age difference is a lot. just say to yourself "what was i thinkin when i was 13?" shes probably just playin the field tryin to find out wat kind of guy she likes. you really shouldnt worry about it. and if u think u should, take time to talk to her alone. ask her how she feels, y she left u hangin. usually at the age of 13 all it is is puppy love. u understand love more than she does. youve had 2 more years than her to figure it out. youll find someone for u. but a little advice i just learned recently, dont expect a relationship to last forever because it wont. have fun while your still young, and who knows, u could find the perfect girl for u. just hang in there, if u need more advice or someone to talk to just email me, ok.
2006-08-02 15:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her figure stuff out. Can you not respect that? Perhaps she does like you, shes just scared she is thirteen after all. If your 15 you should back off too get your feelings in order and not go and stress your girl out.
your young take your time when it comes to dating ppl because you never know who will be your right one.
2006-08-02 15:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at 13 she has no idea what she wants or what she's doing. Try finding a girl your age because right now 2 years makes a big difference.
2006-08-02 15:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to declare it, yet she in all probability likes the different guy. If a female backs off in a dating or seems distant, this is in many cases through fact they at the instant are not involved and that they do no longer want to harm you by telling you that they are not involved to any extent further. i comprehend i've got accomplished it till now. it may take a at an identical time as till now you will recover from it, yet recover from it you will. i've got had a guy i've got enjoyed do an identical ingredient to me that the female's doing to you, and it hurts. are not getting hung up on her-- in case you detect yet another female that hobbies you, choose for her extremely. as nicely, relationships at her age in many cases do no longer final longer than 2 or 3 months, and greater often than no longer 6 months for young little ones in severe college.
2016-10-01 10:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you. i know that cuz i have done that too. but dude just ask her. and plus, there is nothing wrong with u being 2 years older than her. just ask her if she still likes you so you can finally know. if you actually ask her seriously and tell her how you feel, she might tell you the truth. just tell her the truth about how you feel and probably she will tell you the truth though. If she dosen't tell you the truth, she dosen't deserve you. trust me. Good luck! hopefully she will tell you she was just scared and everything will go great. Good luck dude! hopefully my advice helped. if it didn't, i'm sorry.
*MRZ.Stump*
2006-08-02 15:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at 13 all girls are BIG TIME airheads!! lol i would know, her friends if they diddnt like you may have convinced her to go with someone else, oh theyre really flaky too, their feelings change with the tide of the ocean, so she may have just lost that "spark" that was there, id move on and get a girl thats your age!!
good luck and God Bless!!
2006-08-02 15:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 13 she is child/woman and is confused about life in general.... she cant help it, it is just part of growing up..... she is to young to be in the position of even having a b/f..... these young girls are dating way to young, for their own good they need to back off and enjoy life and doing girl things with friends and mixed grouops.... by being with groups of both sexes girls and boys learn to adjust from one level of life into the next..... when they go from being children to dating like an older teen, say 16 and above, they skip an important step in the process of growing up..... so all you can and really need to do, is back off.... you can wait for her or move on.... your choice....... God bless
2006-08-02 15:18:19 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋