how do you deal with ----
losing your family, realising thats all you ever need and wanted and knowing , well at least thinking you will never, ever get them back?
(as in you your partner and your kids living together)?
by the way it is all my fault and i have tried for 6 month, i have everything i need to move on lined up but im thinking i can never repair this i have caused how do i deal with that?
im 26 yrs old 3 kids 9 , 10, and 2.
2006-08-02 14:59:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
also i video taped my kids at xmas, the 2 older kids are not mine biologically but i do love them as mine, my ex said i recorded more mof my own daughter as i did of them, but to be honest lmao at the time i felt i needed to record more of them for that reason, am i just in a no win situation or what>?
2006-08-02 15:01:37 · update #1
I'm sorry that we realize how good we had it when it's too late......or maybe it is not too late...try harder, get somebody to help by showing you have changed to your ex and kids......it's never too late.....Pray and look for common people to help you get your life back...there is no better life than having your kids with you...those kids need their mom there....I wish you all the luck...
2006-08-02 15:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it always the way - you never realise how good your life was until it's gone. Maybe you didn't appreciate your family when you were all together. Unless your partner wants you back, there is nothing you can do but learn from your mistakes.
2006-08-06 13:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear one, don't give up too easily. Whatever you've done, I pray your family forgives you. You will have to prove you've moved past the mistake and want to be a better person, husband and father. Trust is a difficult thing to get back, once it is violated.
Have you thought of expressing yourself to your family like you did here? Words from your heart will go a long way.
2006-08-02 22:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really apologize, say you will do anything you can to make it up to all of them. Be nice and kind and listen to what he has to say. Tell him how much he and the children mean to you. Do you go to church? Perhaps a pastor or a counselor could help. Good luck.
2006-08-02 22:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang on in their and try repair the damage whatever it may be. you were loved once before you can be loved again keeping a level head and doing right by the ones you love. and above all keep talking
2006-08-02 22:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by omnigomni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN NEVER LOSE YOUR FAMILY THEY WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU WHEREVER YOU GO.THEY HAVE AQ SPECIAL PALCE IN YOUR HEART BUT PERHAPS YOU TRY TO HARD TIME IS A GREAT HEALER.
2006-08-05 08:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there , now and always you never know
2006-08-02 22:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by stacey m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your chin up always
2006-08-06 05:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave
2006-08-03 03:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋