I have been talking to a guy for the past two weeks, he told me that i wanted to kiss me on my lips (on the phone) but he didn't actually do it when i saw him the next day. But one day later, he asked me if he can kiss my neck...he begged me....but i got scared and walked away cus i thought this should come naturally.
He was worried that i would take it offensively so he apoloized to me. But at the same time, he asked what's my limit...
Since then, i have wondered why he asked? WHy didn't he wait till it is the right time to kiss? Why did he ask my limit?
2006-08-02 15:03:09 · 29 answers · asked by polinatora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants your permission. While you want him to take charge and just kiss you, he wants to make sure it is OK with you first.
He is a nice guy and is demonstrating his respect for you. Tell him over the phone that you'd like him to kiss you the next time you meet. That it is OK and you are looking forward to it. If he asks again just say, "yes" in a soft voice.
2006-08-02 15:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the guy doesn't want to offend or make you uncomfortable. Supposed it was a guy that you didn't really care for and he tried to make a move or force himself on you? That would be an uncomfortable situation. If anything talk to the guy and tell him to let things happen naturally and not ask when he wants to kiss... Remember, another person can't read your mind, you have to let them know what you are thinking or how you feel...
2006-08-02 15:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by ronbacardi96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, this is a good sign that he respects you. He is asking for your permission to kiss you rather than just taking without asking. Just take things slow. If you don't want to kiss him then dont. If you do, just say yes and go for it. You will know when the time is right for you. Just go with the flow.
2006-08-02 15:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I'm Garry,
My advice is to save it for the man you fall in love with and visa versa.
He sounds like the shy type and he is trying to pull you in slowly as he also seems inexperienced.
Him or any other. save yourself till after marriage.
That's if you are still a virgin.
These are the laws of nature otherwise virginity wouldn't exist.
Hope I haven't offended you in anyway.
If you are thinking why don't guys save them selves it's because they don't bleed the first time they ever do it so there is no way you can tell if they are still a virgin though they still should save it till marriage.
Simple facts of nature or laws of our creator since he created us this way.
I have no intention of being rude or offending you just wanted to educate you.
Simply wishing you the best of luck in life,
Garry from Australia
2006-08-02 15:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why he is asking to kiss you but not following through--he's is probably just nervous and trying to be polite. If you'd like, why don't you just walk up to him and plant a kiss on the guy the next time you see him? I'm sure he would be pleasantly surprised. (And make sure that he knows what your limits are.)
2006-08-02 15:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by alcachofita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think he is really just trying to test your limits. A kiss should come seriously, not begging. Just ignore is limit comments, and go on. if he really wants to kiss you, he will just lean in and kiss you.
2006-08-02 15:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking if he may kiss you is being sweet and polite, to seem polite and almost old fashioned in his respect. asking what is your "limit" is creepy and rude, like asking how far he can expect to get with you before you stop him. you need to feel this one out based on his other actions. use instinct. he could be a real creep.
2006-08-02 15:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by foxfirevigil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, "he told me that i wanted to kiss me"? Okay, I think know what you meant.
Secondly, what is it about good manners that you don't understand? It's seems obvious that you both are young and inexperienced.
It's just my opinion but him asking for permission is an acknowledgment of your personal space. He respects you. That's gotta be a good thing.
I think you youngsters are so unused to good manners that you don't recognize them.
2006-08-02 15:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by Dahs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to kiss you but is not very experienced, by your limit he ment what will you let him do. In my opinion he wants to kiss your neck which is really weird for just 2 weeks
2006-08-02 15:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to do things the "right" way by asking you. If you weren't ready to be kissed, and he kissed you, that would be far more inappropriate. Relax, you're alright.
2006-08-02 15:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by Sharon G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋