i really really really like her and i think she likes me but should i ask her or should i wait until she asks me and if i ask her how do i ask, i mean i really really really really like her but i don't want to get rejected, what if everyone at church starts gosiping about me, and ya'll know how the bible says there's someone out there for all of us, well, i feel like i found her but i don't want to get rejected, how do i ask her, or should i just wait until she asks me.
2006-08-02 15:00:13 · 14 answers · asked by JesusFreak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT wait for her im 12 and im a dateing king ,and if u dont wana gt embarassed ask her on yahoo or some form of messenger..........................but if u want u could have a frein help u with it
or start taking to her and act casual...............tak abt stuff and dont act kiddie then ask her if she wants to do sumthin sum time....................for more ideas you can IM me if u want...................and u should change ur look if its not prep....................girls love prep its just common scence...............the best prep stores are abercrombie hollister and armani exchange
2006-08-02 15:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait at all. Ask her out now! If you feel that she's the right one for you, then go for it! Don' delay or postpone for one bit because one second can make the difference and change her mind about you. Ask her out, kind of like an informal date. It's better to go out and know about the person you're asking to be your girlfriend before you do ask. If you do know her, then say that you both have been friends with each other for quite some time and that you were wondering if you could take your friendship further. ASK NOW! A guy who does not ask out a girl is not a guy at all, and most girls like a real man. It's not tradition, but it is ethics which separate the man from the boy.
2006-08-02 15:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Hitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We still live in male-dominated society, and even though girls do sometimes make the first move now, most girls will wait for the guy. And, girls want a guy brave enough to make the first move. So, if you wait for her, you could be waiting for ever. And, if she has to make the first move, she won't have as much respect for you.
Fear is the most crippling of all human emotions. It keeps us from going after our hearts desire. If you really want to go out with the girl, then you should ask her out. Life is full of lots of rejection. Rejection is not something to be feared. What you should fear is sitting around waiting for life to come to you, because I can assure you, it rarely does.
2006-08-02 15:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by kathy7247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better for you do the asking or you would keep on waiting. Ask her quistions. Tell some of things about yourself. Tell her you like her. If she rejects you. Remeber this, there are plenty of fishes out in the sea. Don't worry about how people talk. They problably don't have anything else to say. You will never know unless you try.
2006-08-02 15:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her , I met my current boyfriend at church before he was my boyfriend everyone at church was gossiping about me to but it was okay, but I wasnt going to ask him out so I waited and he asked me out. Maybe she feels the same way as me. Just give it a try I know rejection is scary. The same thing I felt go for it
GOOD LUCK
2006-08-02 15:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better than probably he will merely advance out of it certainly. you comprehend, each and every little baby ought to be an astronaut, or a veterinarian, or a secretary (specific, while i became growing to be up, little ladies aspired to be secretaries), etc. especially plenty definitely everyone i comprehend, male and female, performed "gown-up" through fact the different gender now and then, and none individuals ended up as something as what we've been born with (accepting my definition of "born with" as suitable genitalia). yet you comprehend, he's 10. Ten. 10. it is not time to motivate his sexuality or something, that's merely... way too early. speaking approximately "gender reassignment surgical treatment" at age 10?? that's merely loopy. somewhat, merely through fact me ought to "ask for an eternal answer" does no longer advise which you would be wanting to do it. I advantageous does not. If a baby is gay by way of nature or experimentation is one ingredient which you will no longer do plenty approximately... yet everlasting recommendations while they are able to slightly do fractions is a approaches, a approaches too early to be nerve-racking approximately it. those issues in many cases artwork themselves out with out difficulty, interior the tip.
2016-10-01 10:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her really, me and my bf go to the same church! I asked him first but then he said no. The whole church didn't even know at all, but now we are dating and really truely made for each other so don't pass up the chance just ask her.
2006-08-02 15:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by cheerbabe104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!!! the worst she can say is no... and don't worry about people gossiping because if they do then just tell then that ta least you had the guts to ask out a girl who you liked.. and if that doesn't work, then make jokes out of the situation. good luck!!!
2006-08-02 15:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by Maria18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends are you guys good friends? do u talk alot. dont ever wait for a girl to ask you out. you can do it just ask her. u know how happy that makes a girl feel. some girls wont even ask guys out at all, like me i would just be like well that sucks he doesnt like me cuz hes not askin me out. =)
2006-08-02 15:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a guy, you are suppose to be the one to ask her out NOW!!!
If you get rejected, move on with your life!!!
2006-08-02 15:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋