I decided to give our relationship a second chance, why? well...I don't know ..may be I am just crazy in love with him, and also our two kids. Anyway now...I question myself if I made the right choice, when I found out that he was IN LOVE with this girl for over 2 years,I feel devastated, heart broken, and I've been finding out stuff that he always denied he would do,like watch porn online,(Once I tried to make him watch with me a video but he told me that was disgusting), I saw a profile he had on one of those online dating services, where he claims he is looking for someone to have an affair and a bunch of crap, anyway...I know He doesn't love me (even though he says he does) he jells at me, he makes me feel like there is something wrong with me (even though I am a nice looking woman)...so knowing all these..I decided "WELL LET'S GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY"..Why Is it too hard to get the courage to just say enough is enough! and leave and move on...Has somebody have had this kind of dilema
2006-08-02 14:26:12 · 5 answers · asked by fun 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Fear of the unknown is a big factor in staying together. You don't know how you will get by without him. You don't know where you will go or what you will do.
Sometimes it just feels more comfortable to stay in a relationship where you know the score. It is easier to just give up and accept your way of life than to make that decision to pack up and leave.
You know the best thing for you to do is to leave. Everyone is afraid of taking that step, but you won't be sorry. It will be rough at first. Then you will notice that after a few weeks things are getting easier. After a couple of months you will wonder why you didn't do this sooner. After a year you will be mad at your self for wasting so much of your life there before you left.
2006-08-02 14:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leaving the comfort zone is hard. You are used to the life you have now and changing that is way too hard, for everyone. Of course you deserve better and you should gather the strength and walk away.
In the mean time, get yourself ready for that step, think of your finances, the age of your kids, child care, schooling, where would you live, parental rights, visitation rights, laws, lawyers, all that. Get all the facts, and make a decision. Once made, stubbornly stay on it, come rain or snow. Good luck.
2006-08-02 21:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by umbralatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ENOUGH of your nonsenses. That's it. Pack your stuff and bring along your 2 kids (my God, you claim him still yr bf)? and step out from him.
Pluck your courage and text him a message "ENOUGH". Learn to play mind game and he will finally give in to you if you know how to play the game. Believe or not, up 2u.
2006-08-02 21:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being used as a convenience. Leave him he obviously doesn't give a hoot for you. Break it off and move on. Make sure he provides child support for your kids.
2006-08-02 22:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart wants what it wants. Your heart wants him, but your head doesn't. Why give him another chance? In the back of your mind, you will always wonder.......
2006-08-02 21:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋