Guys, Help I need some excuses........?

Question

A couple of days ago I brought a date back to my place. We got a little hot & heavy & after a while I checked to see if the "backdoor was open" . She said she was cool with it if she was allowed to use her toys on me next time we are at her place.

Now I need some excuses for our next few dates cos I am scared that we are gonna end up at her place and I am not ready to hold up my end of the deal (dont know if I'll be ready at all)

Answer 1

I know you asked the guys to help with this one, but take advice from a woman. I think you are stressing about it too much. You don't even know what kind of toys she is into. If it were me, it would be feathers and restraints, but she might even have a harness. Believe me, you will never be as satisfied or have so much fun. Especially if she knows how to use them. Just go and find out. If you don't feel comfortable with it, tell her. She should understand, if she doesn't, just leave. You ARE the male party aren't you? Have FUN!!

Answer 2

Hello there, now I know you asked guys this question, but I feel maybe I can answer this for you more tactfully than a guy could. You see... instead of making excuses, you have two choices. You can go ahead and go there and explain nicely to her that this perticular request was in the heat of the moment, and that you feel very uncomfortable about things that were said... (Explain that sometimes you have no blood in the right head when things are going on.) Tell her that you feel the only thing that is good for is as an exit only. Explain that you don't feel that is for you, and appologize that things got out of hand with her. Tell her you like her very much, but ONLY if you really do. If you don't really like her, you could always tell her this... put it all back on you, hun, after all you did let it get to this point. Tell her that you had a great time with her but you are not ready to get into anything serious. Then appologise again, (i've learned it is hard to over appologize, even when it really isn't your fault... trust me, as a woman, I am trying to help you do what is right.) If a man came to me and said that he had a great time with me, but he just wasn't ready for more and especially the requests asked of him... I would understand completely. Heck you never know... you MAY walk out of this with the girl as ONLY a bootie call who understands that THAT perticular thing is uncomfortable to you... If not, you didn't need her after all... and then, (and ONLY then,) my advise is to RUN!

Good Luck hun.

I hope this helps!

Answer 3

You shouldn't have got the cake f you weren't willing to eat it too. It's hard to think straight in that situation, but try to read the fine print next time. Do you know what the toy is? Worst comes to worst, go to her place, see what she wants to do & if you don't want to, tell her. Tell her you're uncomfortable & you don't want to. If she understands she's worth keeping. If she doesn't well it serves you right for signing up for something you had no intention of doing.

Answer 4

Well, you have this marvelous little gland that will be stimulated during the insertion of toys. As long as you don't have hemorrhoids and you do use plenty of water soluble lubrication (not oils or Vaseline) you might very well enjoy the occasion. Remember, take it slowly at first, to allow your sphincter to relax. You don't want to take the chance of ripping any tender flesh.

Have fun!

Answer 5

Just do it.

Have her use a toy that is narrow, long and flexible and well lubed.. narrow, being the key word.

Don't worry, this is NOT gay. A lot of straight guys like this.
A woman is doing this.

Once the toy is in, and used SLOWLY, the massaging pressure on your prostate will actually make you get off like 10 time more intensely than you are used to.
If it feels uncomfortable, have her talk dirty to you while she plays with your pooter, and most importantly, STROKE YOURSELF(lubed) while she does it. Have her play with herself too.
I guarantee you will love it.
Its like taking a massive dump...but over and over.

Answer 6

You definitely SHOULD hold up your end of the deal, it's only fair, but I can understand wanting a bit more time, it's a mental preparation thing. Just tell her you want to wait a little while, be honest, tell her you're nervous about it. You'd be surprised how far honesty goes.

Answer 7

You know what you do you just be a man and go with the flow I thought my ex-girlfriend was weird to but I found out she's just as special as any one is here in this place we call home. Believe it or not but I've actually experimented with my ex-girlfriend and I thought it was a fun experience so if you ever need any advice you can contact me.

Answer 8

Fact. The female in question was just a recent "hook-up" or date.

Fact. She was down for the backdoor, we always try and its a coin flip but you lucked out.

Fact. She wants to return the favor by introducing your one-eyed star fish to her 4 D cell powered "git er done".

Fact. www.match.com or any other website to get yourself a new date, or you could opt for door number two or should I say backdoor number two. fffffffff silent but deadly.

Answer 9

First of all, you said "you don't know if you'll ever be ready"? What did you think she was talking about?

But since it was in the heat of the moment and you were thinking with the wrong head,....... Now you need a good excuse to get you out of what may be your first homosexual experience? ......... uhm.............lets see............try this!............. ask her if her brother is going to participate?

Caution: If she say yes, I don't have advice to help ease the pain!
p.s. you might have to change your name from "Whodaman"

Answer 10

Tell her ur dog is sick an that u have 2 have sex wit it or else he dies of a heart attack caused by the plutonium u keep around were the dog sleeps. That always works...Thanx 4 the 2 points...BOO-YAA!!!