My ex, or my 1st love we broke up about 4 years ago we hardly ever speak, and i got in contact with her threw myspace now i actully want her back all over again but how?
2006-08-02 14:47:59 · 22 answers · asked by dannyboy1286 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go see her? o_O
2006-08-02 14:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by qustionablyquestionable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two broke up with a certain reason and if theat reason if you did something she definitely didn't like, then chances are minimal for you to win her back... When girls are hurt, they may forgive but it would take a very long time to forget... I think the same go with guys...
unfortunatel, you can't make people love you... Try befriending her once again and if she showed any feelings towards you, grab that chance and ask her... Otherwise, it's better off if you two would not be in a relationship...
2006-08-02 14:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't make the same mistake you made with her with the next girl you care about. Often times I feel like tracking down my 1st love, just to see how she is doing. But I don't want to get back with her, just see how her life turned out. But I don't because I hurt her years ago... and I never did that again to another woman.
2006-08-02 14:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been in contact with her and she hasn't brought up the subject about getting back together or even seeing each other, forget it. Most likely if the two of you did get back together you will soon be asking yourself "what was the attraction? It very seldom works out the second time around.
2006-08-02 14:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by letsgetreal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look bro 4 years and she hasn't tried to contact you theres this old song by brenton woods that goes "you were the first love that i ever had but its been so long now i dont feel so bad, later baby" i think maybe you should heed this advise you never forget ur first love but like i said if she hasn't tried and ur still feeling the way u do, i think maybe your in a situation were u can get ur heart broken
2006-08-02 14:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you really cant first you have to see where her head is at before you worry about where her heart is ! she might have changed in a good or bad way. plus also remember you both broke up with each other 4 years ago for a reason so is it really worth it to go backwards!!!
2006-08-02 14:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by primet21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she would like to try the relationship again. If she says no, move on. There is usually a reason why they are ex's though.
2006-08-02 14:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting back together takes 2 people wanting the same thing at the same time. It doesn't matter at all what one of you want.
2006-08-02 14:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have to face that it might not happen and remember why you broke up anyway. Your not going to make someone love you, it takes time and some times that's not even enough.
2006-08-02 14:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice, be friendly,be fun. Don't act needy or come on too strong. Go slow and see how she reacts. If she doesn't want to try again move on. Good luck!
2006-08-02 14:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep... just like the song..
I can't make you love me... if you don't.
So true. But you can't be serious about the question, are you?
I mean you could use a GUN or hypnosis or drugs... but nobody has control over the feelings of another.... PERIOD.
2006-08-02 14:52:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋