Im young and Im in love for the very first time. Im talking about TRUE love. However, I have to break us off just because of our circumstances. I decided it would be better for the both of us to not be together, but it hurts me. It hurts me so much and since Ive never really loved anyone like this before, I dont know how to cope with this. I am so sad, I miss him so much. I miss his voice, I miss the nice things he says, I miss him. I need help. I ended us because I love him and I knew it would be best for us not to be together. Please help me to cope. Please give me suggestions. And please tell me how much experience youve had so I know. I appreciate it.
2006-08-02 14:41:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am ancient, and I have had LOTS of experience in love...true love, desparate love, over the top love. What you are feeling will fade away with time...or until you meet someone new to be in love with...that is how life is. Believe it or not, you will NEVER forget your first love, it will always bring a great memory. But that is what it is...your FIRST love, not your last. Good luck, things will get much better very soon.
2006-08-02 14:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about martyrdom... Personally, I say you did a wrong move... I don't know whatever reason why you two broke up but personally, I believe that if you love someone, you would do a certain thing to solve that problem... I had this same oroblem once with my current BF... My parents are against our relationship... You know... Chinese should marry chinese thingy... I told him that and he proved to my parents that he can be trusted... All ends well and now, he and my parents are like buddies...
But then, here it is... There is nothing more you can do but move on... Hang out with friends more and try not to think of him... Think or do something which will keep you busy and occupied... Anything and meet other people...
Good luck with you then ^-^
2006-08-02 21:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mind and body busy to where you don't have time to think about how much you miss him. Go places with friends, talk on the phone (but not about him), maybe your parents could use some help "cleaning the garage" or something like that. I don't know just how young you are, but you will go on. Your first love is never forgotten totally though. Later in life if you and he meet, you probably will wonder what you ever saw in him in the first place and realize it was just puppy love.
2006-08-02 21:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by letsgetreal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to love yourself as an individual. Find a hobby, not a hubby. Love is an addiction, like heroin, cocaine, or alcohol. You have to learn how to get in and out of love without becoming an addict. First stop is your life. Make it worth giving to someone else.
2006-08-02 21:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i feel ur pain my boyfriend just broke up with me and it kills me it was my first actual love too i cant stop thinking about him and my sister says your first love is the hardest youll probably never get over it and atleast youll never forget it itll be okay in time but my sis says she still hasnt got over her first love that happened last summer just get a new boyfriend but what helps me cope is too talk about it with other people like how im sharing it with you im sur youll get another boyfriend good luck
2006-08-02 21:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by kimm_y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him because you love him? If you love him why broke up with him? Maybe if you were more specific with the circumstances that you're talking about, maybe you could make us understand clearly your question.
2006-08-02 21:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by AraClaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to just be friends with him so you dont miss him so much. i have had this happen to me about 4 or 5 times
2006-08-02 21:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I know how bad it hurts....
Did you break it off because of family pressure?
Is it interacial of inter religion?
Are you over 18?
We need more info to give you better advice.
2006-08-02 21:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Chris C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke up with him cause you love him and he loves you. you can't run from feeling. Try to get back with him and finish the relationship. It might make it or it might not but you don't run from anything! You run toward it. That's life.
2006-08-02 21:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by Eerin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't find love everyday, and when you do find it you need to hang on to it not run from it. So you need to try to get him back. Love is scary but it is worth hanging onto.
2006-08-02 22:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by nana_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋