Family & Relationships - 27 July 2006

I've been in love with this guy for 3 years. I recently found out he had feelings for me as well. The night he told me he liked me, we hooked up and it was great. Two days later, he tells me he wants to be friends...

Not quite what I was looking for that day...

He's going to Iraq, and I know he doesnt want to have a girlfriend when he goes over there. Understandable, I respect that.

Did I do something wrong, or does he just not want to have any worries while he's gone, and will come back to me when he gets back?

2006-07-27 06:41:23 · 7 answers · asked by alpha_xi_delta2003 2 in Singles & Dating

do you think its his true feelings coming out> Every morning after he says sorry and kisses my but i dont understand

2006-07-27 06:40:58 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

without the real thing or toys

2006-07-27 06:40:12 · 7 answers · asked by lala 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-27 06:40:05 · 6 answers · asked by shaina_wepplo2001 1 in Singles & Dating

I was hanging out with my friend somewhere and we saw 2 girls that were working in one of the stores that we liked. We both have shy personalities, so we just hung out outside the store smoking. They came out to us & started talking to us, but after 20 seconds they went back in because we were too shy to answer back.

We want to go back there later today, but we're not sure what to do.
I want to know what to say to them to give us another try.

2006-07-27 06:38:52 · 17 answers · asked by Lidge 2 in Singles & Dating

Her shirt and skirt didn't match either...it was red,purple,and it had yellow dots.My skirt was pink with flowers and my shirt was pink with 1 small tulip in the middle.

2006-07-27 06:38:41 · 17 answers · asked by ♥sonam a.♥ 2 in Friends

I am recently divorced. He walked away from our marriage in order to be single, party, never having to answer to anyone. It was a harsh experience. I never once imagined my marriage ending. I loved my ex with all my heart, and that's what made the entire experience even worse. I won't lie, I think of him nearly every day. I think of the good and bad. I consider if I'd ever take him back. It's hard to just forget something you gave your whole heart to. My family and Church has helped keep me grounded and sane. But two weeks ago, one of the older couples at church- their grand daughter and her husband started attending services where I go. When I first saw him, I just stopped. I took a second look. He's tall, slim, blonde (even styles his hair the same), dresses the same. It's so surreal. I don't mean to stare or look to often. But when I see him, my ex is all I see. I have found myself wishing that it indeed is Zach. How can I cope or deal with this new situation?

2006-07-27 06:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by ridersinthesky11 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My kids are afraid to go to their dad about things cause all he does is yell at them. This has been going on for ALONG time I'm tired of it and I think it is time we split up.He never thinks he is wrong and never says sorry about anything he does. If we fight it is ALWAYS me who has to say sorry and take the blame. I've been doing this for 6 years. I think I have worked hard enough??

2006-07-27 06:38:03 · 11 answers · asked by Colleen C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just found out im preagent and the farther of the featus is a married man that i have been seeing for about a year now
i already have 2 kids and can take care of another one
but he wants me to get an abortion
so should i get an abortion or should i just black mail him or tell his wife . and then sue him for child support
some help please

2006-07-27 06:37:57 · 56 answers · asked by princess lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

We went out for 5 yrs..I'm having the healing process on my own and everything is great. I keep telling myself..he's not the old guy I loved. When everything seems alright, I logged in friendster today and found him joined friendster, he used to say he wouldn't use it 'cause that's stupid...and now he joined the same ring which I've joined and put up lots of pictures of his new girlfriend...he wrote her lots of testis...almost 1 testi a day...saying he loves only her and it's the greatest moment in his life to know her and nothing can be compared with her...my heart thumped heavily..but I managed not to cry...just few weeks before I still asked myself if we'd have chance to get back and now I'm sure it's hell no...I won't go back to the guy who say I'm a 'nothing' and make his new girl the Queen..I dun want to be a doormat..
just want to pour it all out and get some support...

2006-07-27 06:37:55 · 14 answers · asked by jeannieC 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you do here is your chance to proclaim it like a mad person! I LOVE JESUS

2006-07-27 06:37:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am also curious do how you guys know, and what to do at that point. people make mistakes, how do you keep her from straying.

2006-07-27 06:35:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-27 06:35:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I honestly dont think it is i mean come n thats so disgusting!!!!

2006-07-27 06:35:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am gay but i am to shy to get a boyfriend here so most of my boyfriends i get online but my sister breaks them all up and because i am not 18 and she is i cant stop her because she keeps saying its out of my best interest when she is doing the same thing sometimes i am 15 and she treats me like im 5 and i cant make her stop because she will just tell me i cant get on here anymore.. i know she is watching my back but she will not stop and just let me learn... its always the same excuse that she had to learn the hard way and she just trying to watch out for me but why does she think everyone is going to have the same result as her i dont get it.. someone know?

2006-07-27 06:34:12 · 7 answers · asked by Rich 2 in Family

2006-07-27 06:34:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my father hate me and say bad words for me my mother loved with my brother. he was only love with me when my pocket is full of money.i am write these words with water in my eyes i am very alone there is no person that give littel bit of love i am living in this hell with wait of death please tell what can i do.

2006-07-27 06:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by sorabh g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an ex husband and I absolutely despise him. He's caused nothing but problems since we've been divorced. He was a lousy husband, and the cheapest b@stard you've ever known, and so pathetic in bed, it was laughable. We have 2 kids, so I still have to deal with the creep a lot more than I want to. He just makes life so miserable, that I've decided not to speak to him again unless absolutely necessary. He just makes me upset and cry every time. God I hate him. How do I deal with this? How do I get over this..and let the anger go? Are there ways to learn to deal with and handle bad feelings like this towards someone? I just want him out of my life forever, and once my kids are grown, I'm hoping that will be the case..I never want to speak to him again as it is after how he made me feel the last time. How do you cope with really hating someone and not let it consume you?

2006-07-27 06:33:12 · 23 answers · asked by Catherine n 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have sex every night, unless I'm tired from work or she is too, I don't do anything wrong in my eyes such as look at porn sometimes, but she do too, I don't "rub off one" or nothing like that. I got my co workers # before she sd no. I just forgot it was in my car, it even had tint my windows for $250 under the #. She don't kiss me anymore, she don't tell me she Love me unless I say it first, it's like I feel like the female. I love to cook, I have to clean up after her, which I don't mind but all she do is complain because she just want's to go out and party and drink and wear little clothes that I don't like her to. I just work and play basketball in my free time. I love to go out but we have two kids and only time for the weekend that we don't even plan for. So Sat. comes and here we go again, " I'm bored, I'm tired of sitting here w/ the kids" I married the wrong person. And that hurts my feelings so much I just want to leave. My dad left, and I don't want to leave my family...

2006-07-27 06:32:44 · 18 answers · asked by marc ace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-27 06:32:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do ladies like a slight tan on guys or does it matter at all what their skin is like???

2006-07-27 06:32:30 · 6 answers · asked by aaylan58 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. Im a 22 year old female. I was "talking" too this guy last year for about 6 months, but we were kind of friends before. Anyways. he got back with his exgirlfriend, they lived together, but not anymore. His girlfriend is in FL for 2 weeks, but he called me a few times last night to hang out.
Would I be too Forward if I was to Text him and say come out for a few drinks with me tonight?
Im asking this to only "guys" BECASUSE i need there opinions, does he want to hang out with me?? I mean i know he's with his girlfriend but he dosnt love her..hes just comfrotable with her, i am in the same situation with my boyfriend also...But i realllllly want too see him tonight...
what should i do? Help me...

2006-07-27 06:32:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-27 06:31:58 · 15 answers · asked by Handsup 3 in Friends

2006-07-27 06:31:52 · 23 answers · asked by Eric W 1 in Singles & Dating

If yes plz say why u ll & if no plz say why not

2006-07-27 06:31:52 · 14 answers · asked by sduhbls 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I do not know what to do anymore. I have been with my husband for 4 years married 1 and I feel so depressed. He is a very controlling person, I feel like I can not do anything! Sometimes when I do some stuff to irritate him or offend him he gets violent and I feel worse. I sometimes think about divorcing him but I think that maybe I cannot get anyone better and will never find anyone else who will make me happy. I have given up on love and am sad about 95% of the time. We do not have any kids so what is tying him to me. I also do not want to go through the embarrassment of my family telling me I told you so because I went through so much to be with him. I gave up a lot and could have been living differently I changed so much but he has not. I am not trying to say I have no fault but I cannot even communicate with him. He is very thickheaded and always has an excuse or comeback pointing out my faults. He never admits he does anything wrong, he is in denial and blind...what should I do?

2006-07-27 06:30:43 · 39 answers · asked by Naomi M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just started seeing this girl,and she already wants me to buy her gifts and be all romantic. I just meet her, I can't be that way if I don't know her that well. Why are girls so addicted to romance?

2006-07-27 06:30:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work at a 40yr man's business. He and his wife go to my church. He has told me that he wants me and that he is a dog. He keeps rubbing my arm and making sexual comments toward me. I am being attacked by a lustful spirit. His wife is a woman of God, and she is very dear to me. I don't know what to do in this situation. I am 23 and a born again believer of Jesus Christ. I desire to please God. I am not sure what I am to do, or who I can talk to...

2006-07-27 06:30:05 · 18 answers · asked by snickerriffic2001 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If so how does it make you feel?

2006-07-27 06:29:43 · 4 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to do something new for my man to keep the spark in the bedroom. Can you guys tell me what do men like. Or something new that you tried with your woman. No 3-somes or toys!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-27 06:29:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating