2006-07-27 06:31:52 · 23 answers · asked by Eric W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write a letter, It's tacky but cute. and very discreet unless that person shows everyone and you wouldn't want them anyways. I've found it to be quite effective and you won't ge turned down if they don't like you, they'll simply avoid you rather than hurt or feelings good luck. I've tried this with getting back with my ex and even though he didn't come back i felt better about knowing he knew how i felt and he did call me and we talked about it. Goood luck@!
2006-07-27 06:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Butta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you MUST deal with your shyness. Ask yourself, 'WHY am I SO shy?' Is it because you are always thinking about what others think about you, so much so that you can't engage in even casual social interaction without obsessing about what everyone else thinks of you? Do you need to build up your confidence? Find a hobby, sport, club, or group you enjoy participating in. EVERYONE is good at something, you may just need to find what yours is. Once you have done this and have built up your confidence, look for a girl who shares similar interests to you. Then, get to know her for the person SHE is. Be a good listener. Find out her particular likes and dislikes, her fears, her dreams, her hopes. Get to know her as a person first, then as a freind, and finally, as a love interest IF she feels the same way you do.
2006-07-27 13:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with you where? As in go out on a date with you? If you are shy then you can do it numerous ways.....1) write her a little note and give it to her in passing (this way you do not have to talk with her) 2) go to her work and take her a single flower daisy's are the best because you are just showing her that you like her a rose is way to romantic to start off with 3) you could muster up all of your confidence and walk right up to her and let her know of your feelings and tell her that you have been noticing her for awhile now and that she is in your thoughts often and you would like to know if she would like your company one evening Good Luck!!!
2006-07-27 13:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how well you know the girl. If you're friend already, then bring it up in context of a conversation. If not, just don't let it on that you're shy. Be very confident in yourself but don't come off like a hardass
2006-07-27 13:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by demise_584 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand the basics of male-female interactions. Females like guys who are not shy, and go for what they want. Be confident in yourself and just start talking to her first. Bust her chops a bit but not in a mean way, show her you are confident in yourself and that you don't hold her on pedestal, but are in fact equals. She will be putty in your hands. Make her want to go out with you.
2006-07-27 13:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by CrashCondon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey b......let's do this!!!No I'm kidding simply walk up to her start a conversation and say hey listen you want to go out sometime?Or like I was wondering if you would go out to dinner with me or lunch with me.I know this great place,(just make sure you find this great place before you say that)P.S never think that this great place is McDonalds)Good luck and go for it.If you let her get away someone else might snatch her up.Don't want to end up saying i shouldve,wouldve couldve
2006-07-27 13:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by redanimalmuppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to have confidence in Ur self that u can talk to a girl even if u are blushing a lot i'm a shy girl and it helps when i just thing that i'm talking to one of my good friends instead of a stranger and when it comes to a cute boy i have to swallow my pride and talk to them u should do the same and see what happens just swallow Ur shy side and be Ur self good LUCK
2006-07-27 13:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by kimmy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop focusing on one particular girl, its making you nervous. Start trying to flirt with random girls, you dont have to use lines, just joke around and be witty I bet you have plenty of entertaining things to say to get a girls attentions.
2006-07-27 13:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by puzzle55usa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be like Harry Potter how he was asking Margaret Cho to the Dance in Goblet of fire...
willyougotothedancewithme?
2006-07-27 13:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by Becka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come out with it and say it. write her a note asking her have a friend ask her for u. give her flowers. something that says u really like her
2006-07-27 13:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by ashmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋