Ok. Im a 22 year old female. I was "talking" too this guy last year for about 6 months, but we were kind of friends before. Anyways. he got back with his exgirlfriend, they lived together, but not anymore. His girlfriend is in FL for 2 weeks, but he called me a few times last night to hang out.
Would I be too Forward if I was to Text him and say come out for a few drinks with me tonight?
Im asking this to only "guys" BECASUSE i need there opinions, does he want to hang out with me?? I mean i know he's with his girlfriend but he dosnt love her..hes just comfrotable with her, i am in the same situation with my boyfriend also...But i realllllly want too see him tonight...
what should i do? Help me...
2006-07-27 06:32:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go for it, no one will find out if ya both keep quiet .
2006-07-27 08:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both need to re-evaluate your relationship needs. I suggest you both break up with your bf/gf and let it all hang out (use safe sex techniques) and decide if you two are just wanting to play the field to see what you are looking for.
Good luck
2006-07-27 13:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by theoldguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was your boyfriend and i found out you were calling another guy for drinks i would probably have to break up with you
and if i was a girl and his girlfriend i would have to break up with him if i found out about this.
it just isnt right because as we all know from reading this...it is just not friends. you and him both want eachother.
admit it now. and now that we all know you like eachother...dump your boyfriend...have him dump his girlfriend...talk about getting together...then go out for drinks...not until you both are single though. just wrong to go behind your boyfriend and his girlfreinds back tho
2006-07-27 13:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by iWorkonComputers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, if it were me, i would take it as a booty call. but what will become of you both after the affair? are you both willing to give up what you have just for one good time? how do you think they'll react after they found out? baby girl, are you sure you want to do this?
2006-07-27 13:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should see him tonight i my not have given a very detailed answer but noone is sopoused to answer that here you do what you like best
2006-07-27 13:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by cubanitocristian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any way both are itch, so don't again its better for u
2006-07-27 13:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by kartik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have an itch; scratch it.
2006-07-27 13:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u want, go and see him!!!
2006-07-27 13:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by tt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it
2006-07-27 13:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by yusuf2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋