I was hanging out with my friend somewhere and we saw 2 girls that were working in one of the stores that we liked. We both have shy personalities, so we just hung out outside the store smoking. They came out to us & started talking to us, but after 20 seconds they went back in because we were too shy to answer back.
We want to go back there later today, but we're not sure what to do.
I want to know what to say to them to give us another try.
2006-07-27 06:38:52 · 17 answers · asked by Lidge 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-27 06:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude
well heres the deal i was ur category truly a year back
but then i realized its the guy who has to get the the converstion rolling so make urself intresting and have some good stories to tell her (may not be totally true u can confess later dude i dun think any gals gonna kill if u lie bout killin a snake in ur backyard on ur first meeting) but ma suggestion keep the stories as close to the truth as possible cuz lies are like a web they can tangle u forever
next i would suggest humour
humour atttracts everyone so guys make the gals laugh
u can joke bout her or bout urself the incidents u tell her make them funny
i read a few of those dating tips letters by david de angelo and they used the 'cocky and funny' and trust me it works to get the converstion rolling
u maybe be the best guy in the world but if u start pouring ur heart out on day one dude u r boring so stop that
u can have plenty of time later to show how emotional and sensitive and a good guy u r
trust me all gals know guys are cheap if u smoke joke bout it
(but i suggest stop smoking may make u look cool but dude it sucks)
and lastly be urself
2006-07-27 06:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by girish z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, lose the cigs, they take away years from your life while adding years to your visage. Next, go in there and get after them. They came out and you chickened out, but thats fine. You should go in. It would make you seem that you really are interested. Next look around. More than likely, one of them will ask you if you need help. Say yes. Then tell her that you find her extremely attractive and would like to maybe, possibly get get to know you. It's okay to be slightly shy, some females think its cute. However at the same time, maintain smoothness.
2006-07-27 06:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remeber, "grasshopper," you're a young stallion.
You need to talk small talk, to see if they think similarly to you, to see if they are good prospect. Talk weather, current events, music.
If you haven't introduced yourself yet, do so. If you already have, just go in, say "Hi." Then you can stand there all shy for a sec and start in with a conversation on weather. Alway adequate. The shy silence lets them know you are interested. OR you could be straight up and ask them if they'de like to go for coffee or something, or if they have time to talk right now.
2006-07-27 06:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful not to seem like stalkers by constantly going back, if you do go back, don't make it so obvious your there to see the girls, start talking to other people to build your confidence, then after a while approach the girls you like, and ditch the smokes as it can sem like a barrier. but if the girls smoke offer them a light/smoke etc, its a brilliant ice breaker
2006-07-27 06:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i think you should just go up to them and introduce yourself and then you tell them that you were a bit shy coz they are very attractive. then you see how it goes from there if it works start a decent converstation with them and then at the end say that you would like to talk to them again and get to know them better, judging from the response they give you you ask their numbers and phone them sometime.
2006-07-27 06:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by theguru_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compliment her. girls like guys who actually notice things. you might want to start off by talking to her about where she works and the store and stuff. anyways, don't force anything, act natural. talk to her like you would talk to your friend. throw in a little shyness too if you like, it can be kinda cute. but don't not answer back because they're going to get the wrong idea.
2006-07-27 06:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by fadetopink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sue and Mary
How are you today
sue and Mary: we are fine thank you
You: what are you doing 2day?
Sue Mary: we are looking at you!
You: How old is your store?
Mary Sue: it is about 100 years old.
You: What did u do 4 fun?
Mary Sue: we dance, sing, run in place.
You: Wow
Sue Mary: we sing to.
You: Wow!
Sure Mary: looking around.
You: what are you looking at?
mary Sue: we are looking at the sky.
You: how high is the sky?
Mary Sue: it is a few mile high or 2 miles hi.
YOu. Hi, it is 2 miles high?
Mary Sue: yes it might be more but we are not sure.
You: Oh
Mary Sue: we want to go on a plane someday.
You: Oh.
Sue Mary: we like to look at the sky.
You: Oh....................................
2015-09-15 17:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to strike up a conversation or youll never get anywhere you need to try and keep talking and when s feels comfortable enough believe me she will answer back if not m sorry but i dont think its gonna work out maybe shes not interested or already has a boyfriend try to push her into ttalking to you bt dont be toooooo pusht because thats a total turn-off!!!!!!!!!
AND IF YOU ARE DESPERATE....ASK HER OUT!
2006-07-27 06:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well firstly stop smoking it is deffinately bad for your health,
2. be a man and stand up and go and talk to them
3. don't behave like a jerk when you go and talk to them they may not talk to you.
4. don't stand in front of the store because they may think you guys wanna rob them.
5.when they talk to you please reply.
6.ask them to go to the park or dinner
2006-07-27 07:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by snow_flakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋