I am judgmental toward my husband and it seems like he can't do anything right. I know I am not perfect but I can't seem to get a handle on retaining any kind of tolerance or patience toward him. I feel like I married the wrong person-the right person being a man who tries to understand me, listens, communicates with me, doesn't get defensive or overly sensitive right off the bat, and a man with more of a postive, can-do attitude. I just feel like we are not matched well at all and both of our needs and wants have changed since we met 15 years ago. I feel I married him for the wrong reasons (security, stability) and that I would not choose him as a mate today. I struggle with these feelings everyday. We have been married for 9 years and have 2 children, 6 & 3. I am feeling lost and displaced.
2006-07-26
02:55:58
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geneva
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Marriage & Divorce