like if i french him.. i was really feeling horney i kissed him when he came to my house but we had no sex. have i sinned?
2006-07-26 03:00:54 · 54 answers · asked by s_41gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
that is just wrong. any family that comes to the family reunion every year or related to the ones that do show up every year is to close to be kissing or anything else
2006-07-26 07:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by babybro35 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I quite doubt it truly is a real question because you sound like a complete poser, yet regardless i will answer it thinking that it might want to be genuine, or for different poor souls who take position to Google their way right here with a similar question. Legally, it is allowed in all 50 states and in Canada, (no longer confident about outdoors North u.s.), and under no circumstances some thing undesirable can take position constitutionally. however, morally and ethically there is particularly a predicament there, because it is nonetheless "incest." My mom had a pal who married her first cousin, and they'd 3 toddlers -- all and sundry of them changed into born with a (different) start deformity from the very incontrovertible certainty that the moms and dads were appropriate even as they'd the toddlers. you're risking your youngster's lives by using doing this, if it is actual.
2016-11-26 00:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you are well aware, 'Sex' with relatives is called incest and is frowned upon and is considered illegal by most societies.
Relationships with a 'cousin' fall into a grey area because there are first, second third and fourth cousins where there is absolutely no blood relationship, ie. the only relationship is by 'marriage'. "Inbreeding" of related people can cause genetic defects, and historically livestock were also not inbred because of the potential problems, so it was considered to be a very bad practice.
There is, however, the 'taboo' factor and the elements of curiosity and chemistry that dwell inside every human being.
In fact, many cousins have married historically in royalty and otherwise.
It's undoubtedly a good idea to concentrate your 'activities' to OTHERS rather than your cousin, however is is doubtful that God will zap you into hell for being curious, normal and human.
Welcome to humanity. Everyone makes mistakes and hopefully learns from them and avoids repeating them in the future.
2006-07-26 03:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are of opposite sex, it's perfectly fine.
Many cousins, especially, outside Western cultures, inter-marry relatives like that, and have the most stable marriages of all.
So, there is not the least wrong in having a crush on your cousin.
but it's like most things: You need to do it for the right purpose - not just because you were feeling horny towards him.
Things can commence that way ... but you needto get your priorities around the right way as soon as possible.
If the heart begins to take priority, then you know you are beginning to move along the right path.
Everything is a growing experience in life.
2006-07-26 03:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's a blood relative or close cousin, then yes, absolutely that is very wrong! You should not kiss anybody that is closely related to you or has a strong bond with your family like that. The only kiss you should give a relative is maybe on the cheek, nothing more.
2006-07-26 03:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Cynicaldreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you enticed, if yes, then you sinned. Anyway, french is not the way to kiss your cousin.
2006-07-26 03:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you are family...so yeah, its wrong. There are exceptions to ever rule though...like if y'all are related yet in no way share blood, then it is weird and frowned upon in modern society; but not totally disgusting. I would like to make a suggestion though...just a thought, date outside of the familiy.
2006-07-29 22:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by Delicate Flower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it . but find someone not related to you . it works out better that way . As for sin , well what did Cain and Able do ? they married there sisters, but there is laws against it now , so pass on the kin folks and find someone new.
2006-07-26 03:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by Scott c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally wrong. You're blood related, meaning incest. Thats a crime in a lot of countries. Learn to control yourself and figure out whats right and wrong because this is definitely wrong.
2006-07-26 03:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, ya kno...thats really wrong...just as wrong as a brother and sister sleeping together and getting married (saw on Jerry Springer). Don't worry...thats not me...ICK!!! If your horny hump a freaking stuffed animal or a damn pillow...don't french kiss your cousin...thats wrong.
2006-07-26 03:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋