Family & Relationships - 26 July 2006

I went out of town for business for two days and when I returned tonight I checked out the hubbies cell phone calls online and found he had called a cell phone number 34 times in 24 hours. It is a number I have never seen and about 30 of those calls were made between midnight and 6 a.m. and they were about 20 minutes apart. I am shaking mad because my suspicions have been up lately about his behavior. Feel free to reference my previous questions to aid in your opinion on this matter. He is a perpetual liar and have had serious trust issues for the last several months. This is obvious b/c why else would I be checking out his calls. He does not know that I do that and before I confront him about it, I would like to know what you guys and gals think is going on. He told me he did nothing while I was gone but have a few beers with a friend but when I casually ask him anything else he gets really defensive. What do you think is going on and what should I do next? Thanks!

2006-07-26 02:37:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I worry that if I suddenly die, my son will not have anyone to look after him. I don't want just anybody. Should I make a living will, too? Will the state take him? Will he loose anything if I don't have a will?

2006-07-26 02:37:36 · 13 answers · asked by neener68 4 in Family

I tend to be more attracted to an average looking man rather than a sexy bachelor of the year look alike. Its not a self esteem thing, but i find that men with no ''external' flaws to be a bit of a turn off as they dont seem so..human? Does anyone else feel the same way or am i alone on this one?

2006-07-26 02:37:17 · 9 answers · asked by Julia 1 in Singles & Dating

Both married in different countries? After two years of such an "affair" would it be right to meet each other in real? To what extent this would go?

2006-07-26 02:36:43 · 2 answers · asked by eb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together 19 months. He is 37. I'm 34. He has "gone off" sex, its been a problem, for me, for months, I've had sex once this year! I know some of your reactions will be "he's gay" to "he's having an affair" but I can assure those obvious thoughts are wrong.
When I try & talk to him we don't get far, he's never been much of a talker. I'd like to know the best way to talk to him where in he won't clam up?
He has money worries all this time, I've moved up a dress size - I don't know if this counts, he's never mentioned it - he can get an erection, I don't believe its a physical problem.
We had a pregnancy scare & he said has said he "hasn't gotten his head around the 3 abortions he was resposible for" in his earlier relationships, do you think this is the problem? I suggested I go on better contraception & he told me not to bother! So I am confused, I have shouted & I think he thinks when I bring this up its a fight, not something to be resolved together. Can anyone help?

2006-07-26 02:35:53 · 17 answers · asked by baroness 3 in Singles & Dating

have you ever?

2006-07-26 02:35:42 · 16 answers · asked by iamlaura2006 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-26 02:35:39 · 5 answers · asked by ajay 1 in Singles & Dating

Let me know your experiences!

2006-07-26 02:35:36 · 16 answers · asked by ndso19 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

not a huge one obviously

2006-07-26 02:35:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife is 39 years old and we have 4 kids.

2006-07-26 02:34:37 · 18 answers · asked by Kenny D 1 in Family

i think i like this boy ..
i think he is younger than me ..
and i just know his name ..
but sometimes we talk about something not important
one day he talked with my teacher ..
i do not know what were they talking about ..
but sometimes they looked at me, or maybe my friend ..
today my friend told me that she likes him too ..
but she don't know that i like him ..
and now i think i really like his friend ..
but i do not know his friend's name ..
and i have never talk to him ..
my friend said, his friend isn't younger than me . but i don't think so
what should i do??

2006-07-26 02:33:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been single for a while and i dont k now why i kn ow girls like me cuz they tell me but im shy and if i had a girl i wouldnt know wat to do but how do i approach a girl wats some good tips?

2006-07-26 02:32:44 · 16 answers · asked by brian n 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-26 02:32:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just want to add that yes i love him but it is like it is not as strong as it used to be and we have two kids together. i have tried the talking thing but it does not seem to do anything i am just soooo......i also started attending chruch and praying to the lord,he does not partipate he does not want cousling but i have thought about the vacation see if that works and the things we fight about i never really know what they are about. I just dont know what to do any more should i give up i just want to scream

2006-07-26 02:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-26 02:32:08 · 3 answers · asked by Honey bee 1 in Singles & Dating

ok...my boyfriend and I have been together 1 year today! We both know we will be with each other forever...but I want him to ask me to marry him. How can I get him to?? He's divorced and 33 with 2 boys, I'm 25 with 1 daughter... just to let you know where we stand in life. He told me before that he knows he will marry me one day, but I want it now. I never wanted to get married before, and now I do because I know I love him.I've never been married so I'm excited about it. So does anyone have any advise on how to get him to ask me??? He's asked me before when am I going to propose to HIM... and I said I won't.''''''' PLZZ LET ME KNOW'''''''

2006-07-26 02:31:45 · 3 answers · asked by dannysgrl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my name ssd b date28 may 1980 birth time 6.38 p.m birth place kalyan india

2006-07-26 02:31:30 · 6 answers · asked by ssd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-26 02:31:06 · 11 answers · asked by awoody 1 in Singles & Dating

Nowadays husband and wife are getting divorce very easily even in India and they separated even without divorce is it good for the future generation?. The future generations are their children they do not have chance to enjoy the love and affection of parents because of this separation. Is it adviceble? Why this is happening even in so called traditional India which is known for its culture for family organization

2006-07-26 02:30:58 · 12 answers · asked by muthu_kulandhai2003 1 in Family

2006-07-26 02:30:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old was your first child when you decided to go back to work full-time and do you do daycare or something else? Is is worth it, financially and emotionally? Opinions GREATLY appreciated!!!

2006-07-26 02:30:49 · 19 answers · asked by neener68 4 in Family

2006-07-26 02:29:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-26 02:29:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-26 02:28:48 · 11 answers · asked by Lillian Ruksembe 1 in Friends

My son will be leaving home in a week, he is the youngest. He will be going half way across the country. I know in heart it is the right thing but my mother part of me feels so sad. Can anyone relate?

2006-07-26 02:28:23 · 7 answers · asked by Theresa Rose 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

guide this poor soul

2006-07-26 02:28:18 · 5 answers · asked by deepak rajaa 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-26 02:27:50 · 11 answers · asked by ajay t 1 in Singles & Dating

r u guys into brunettes who can think for themselves or the blond bimbo who have big boobs and no brain

2006-07-26 02:27:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-26 02:27:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

actually we had a fight....usually we jus call and make up.... this time she humilated me..and i m feeling damn bad....i dont knw wat to do...we were damn close...but i m not able to take her words...wen i think of her tears run down my cheeks....but my heart says i shud not talk to her....help meeeeeeeeeeeeee plzzzzzz

2006-07-26 02:26:56 · 14 answers · asked by riki k 1 in Friends