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I know where you are coming from. I am still that way to a certain extent, I just get intimidating my people who are high up in society, but just be your self and try to involved your self in conversation. Don't talk too much but get involved.

2006-07-26 02:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0 0

The secret is to let the other person do most of the talking. You can strike up a conversation on any subject close to to the social setting or person (except politics and religion) and go from there. Stay away from comments that belittle people.

Keep a focus and interest in the conversation and ask questions to redirect it. It is funny in life that sometimes the less you say the more people will speak to you and hold you in high regard.

2006-07-26 02:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Find people who have the same interest as you do and then start a conversation with them on the subject. Go to social gathering and just hangout; talk about movies, TV shows, hair and makeup(if you are a girl). The first step is the most daunting, once you start the conversation you will be okay.

2006-07-26 02:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by bella 3 · 0 0

You have an advantage because there are millions of people talking about nothing really and then there are people like you. You command attention because you are quiet. Basically you are who you are make being a quiet person work in your favor.

2006-07-26 02:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0 0

There's no secret. We introverts are just quieter. The best thing to do is just talk. No big deal. The more you do it the more comfortable you become and the more you enjoy it. You will still need to spend time alone to recharge though, don't deny yourself that time. There is nothing wrong with that, you just need it to center and focus.
I used to think there was something wrong with me. Extroverts always told me I needed to learn how to be "normal". Normal for them I guess is what they meant. But normal for them means never smelling the flowers or taking the time to consider a beautiful sunset.
If you want to be more outgoing that's great, I have learned to do just that. But don't believe there is something wrong with you just because you don't crave the spotlight.

2006-07-26 02:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by AK 6 · 0 0

My one friend was also very quite so he move out of his house with his friend, he never went out of the house but then he started clubbing a lot at least 3 times a week and no he talks a bit more not quite anymoe.

2006-07-26 02:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by anti_money 2 · 0 0

Release your inhibitions. Feel the rain on your skin. No one else can feel it for you. Only you can let it in. No one else, no one else can speak the words on your lips. Sound familiar?

2006-07-26 02:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0 0

Try talking more.

2006-07-26 02:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 0 0

try to talk with somebody and be friendly too. if you have friends, try tell to him/her what you feels, maybe he/she can give an advise.

2006-07-26 02:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by i LOVE you!!! 4 · 0 0

say every thought outloud

2006-07-26 02:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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