actually we had a fight....usually we jus call and make up.... this time she humilated me..and i m feeling damn bad....i dont knw wat to do...we were damn close...but i m not able to take her words...wen i think of her tears run down my cheeks....but my heart says i shud not talk to her....help meeeeeeeeeeeeee plzzzzzz
2006-07-26 02:26:56 · 14 answers · asked by riki k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I reckon you should be the better person and ring her and clear the situation up. Both should apoligise regardless whi is at falut..best friends are so hard to some by. If she does'nt budge when you can can she really was'nt your friend..Friends should listen to each other, but they should also hear the words..Good luck
2006-07-26 02:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still hurting to bad at the moment to talk to her about it. Give yourself a little more time and try to be open about this and let her know how you feel humiliated and that she is over reacting in your eyes. Sometimes friends upset one another and hopefully this will bring you two closer. It sounds like something else might have blown this out of proportion instead of just the fight. Best friends make up sooner or later. Good luck.
2006-07-26 09:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by ddy'sgrl77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have problems is life and with out knowing what the fight was about it's hard to say.........If in your heart she hurt you that bad and you tear up when you relive the situation the do what i have before......Take some time and write a letter expressing why your hurt you do not have to give it to her but you can if you want.
This not only gets out your feelings that your suppressing yet it will let you say your peace on things going on. A true friend does not humiliate you or degrade you. You my hurt one another here and there but not this bad!
Feeling your pain.
2006-07-26 09:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by vcaring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the reason of your fight this time would be more serious, that's why she behaved like that. And also wonder how often lately you fight. If you fight more often, she may be tired of your fights and that's why she behaved like that. So, take her place for a while and find the reason that made her react like this.
BUT DON'T LET THIS FRIENDSHIP DIE!!! Call her and ask her to go out you two and talk seriously about your friendship. I know that her behavior hurt you but I THINK IT WORTHS TO MAKE THE FIRST STEP.
2006-07-26 09:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's so close to u then she must've been real angry. these kinda things happen in friendship - just forgive and forget. obviously if she becomes continuously abusive thats a different thing. but if it was only now, then think about why she said what she said.... try and explain it and sort it out, dont run away
2006-07-26 09:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a card or an e-mail, let her know that your friendship is important. If you guys are best Friends then things would work out, no need to throw your friendship over a fight.
2006-07-26 09:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by shabana0903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is jealous of you for some reason. Jealousy causes people to behave irrationally. You can either let it go and all will probably go back to normal or you can tell her she hurt your feelings and see if she apologizes.
2006-07-26 09:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sorta depends on the sitchuation
i just lost a friend... and i didnt even really get why
just all the sudden she just decided she didnt wanna be my friend...
and yeah we faught a couple times like you said you did with your friend but i guess we just got tired of eachother and our bickering...
i really hope that you work it out with your friend...
the longer i waited to figure out what was going on the worse it got between us...
2006-07-26 10:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by x0elaine_says0x . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a sorry card and try to make up. if that doesnt work then wait for her to call u and say sorry
2006-07-26 09:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by vinselgomez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it both of u had fight, for a guy? if yes, i suggest that,when she cool down; have a good talk with your bestfriend.or other thing example..... money?
2006-07-26 12:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by rabbit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋