She found out a couple days ago that i'm pregnant, her and I were friends. When her and my ex were together she wanted a baby with him so bad and he wouldn't. Now ours isn't a planned pregnancy but we are both happy about it. My boyfriend hasn't told his mother yet so we have been keeping it hush hush. When she found out I told her not to say anything until his mother knew and she understood swore up and down she was fine about it, she also said she wasn't going to say anything to my boyfriend because she didn't want to. This morning my boyfriend was on his way to work and when he opened our door there was a gift bag that said "your new arrival..." in the bag was baby booties, and a jump suit, Also a card that was to my boyfriend saying "I bet your kicking yourself now." Today I tried to call her to find out why she would do that and she hung up on me, I know she is hurt from this, but why can't she just accept it and not try to hurt him or myself?
2006-07-26 03:03:39 · 14 answers · asked by instilleddistress 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is just jealous that he is having a baby with you and you didnt ask and she wanted one and she asked now she feels like she wasnt good enough for him and that she couldnt possibly feel any other way about it. Just let her go b/c she will do nothing but start trouble between you and your man. Focus on your baby, you and your bf.
2006-07-26 03:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 3 · 5⤊ 4⤋
First things first, tell the grandma to be and quick! It's better if it comes from you two and not someone that is out to hurt other people. With the ex-girlfriend, it's time to move on. Don't include her at this time, she is hurt and she is lashing out so that others around her will be hurt and angry along with her. This way she doesn't feel alone in her pain and she feels justified in her anger. So for the time being, just go on with your life, let your boyfriend's mother know what is going on so she isn't caught off guard, jumping to the ex's side with hurt and anger, and let the ex alone so that she can cool off.
2006-07-26 03:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by hvnly_spector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some people the the ex disease. By this i mean they think that they couldn't be with this person so they believe that no one else should be happy with this person either. Even though at one point she was your friend she can't bare the fact that you are now carrying his child when that could have been her. this is something she may not get over, sad to say, but jealousy is a hard thing to get over.
2006-07-26 03:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by babybro35 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do 2 issues. A) communicate at the same time with his mom and say to inform him to assert sorry on your mom and say that she might want to tell him to appreciate lady. Then walk as a lot as him the position you could nook him and insist an apology and say you want to detect a real guy because you do not see one round. purely overlook about him. Make your existence relaxing. you do not choose a guy to bitter your existence. Now you've freedom. stay it up! pretty quickly, after a hurtful even as, you receives over a jerk. look if he treats human beings like that, he will finally end up on my own and also you've men flocking you. Karma receives him. = ) B) pass with a amazing guy he would not understand. Act like he's the hot beau and act like genuine jerks once you recognize he works and make it a residing hell for him there. Then unload coke on him.
2016-10-15 05:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I read your question I feel, you are no less childish but dealing about birth of a child from your own womb; which a serious matter. But you can not help, you are all product of a culture. It is a cultural crisis for Americans which requires spiritual guidelines. Well, no point in talking to children, who are yet to grow mentally. God bless you both and the child, yet to come!
2006-07-26 03:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous, You Got Wot She Wanted, That's All It is give her a few months to think whats she done she will come crawling.
similar thing happened to me n a mate i had a boyfriend n then she wanted him so shes get him behind my back n now shes ad a baby, but it dint bother me as much coz ur happy with ur life and your soon to be family ignore her
Good Luck and congrats luv xx xx
2006-07-26 03:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by jayde h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did YOU tell her???? If you knew it would hurt her, you should have let her find out when everyone else finds out. I think that you were trying to hurt her feelings, so now if she acts childish or stupid because she's hurt, you have yourself to thank.
2006-07-26 03:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by jennymustafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-11 03:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, are you sure it was her? If not don't make any assumptions. If you are be nice about it and always try to be an adult yourself. You know why kids don't hang out with adults, because they don't get them. Even though adults know about kids(mostly).
2006-07-26 03:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by John W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her to me i;'ll let her know undretsand her mistake and help her come out of recovery see need some time at night with me..
2006-07-26 03:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by ani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just trying to break you two up, dont fall into her trap. Have a little chat and find out how she is doing. Be calm and look out for any suspicious behaviour from her.
2006-07-26 03:06:23 · answer #11 · answered by toysingapore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋