i love a guy in my class but he told me simply that he don't wants a relation with me but then also i can't leave him!
another guy in the tenth standard proposed to me this monday! till now i have said nothing but i think i have some feelings for him too!
now i am to decide to stick to my love(who don't even care) and the other guy(who is ready to die for me)! plllllllllzzzzzzzzzz help! i am in a great dillema!
2006-07-26 02:52:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on from the guy who doesn't want to date you. Give the one who does want to date you a chance. If you aren't interested or things don't work out at least you've given it a shot and you'll find someone else
2006-07-26 02:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by christina s 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is not interested in you then you need to be strong and leave. All you are doing by trying to stick around his is setting yourself up for a lot of hurt. It's not worth it you'll find someone else.
As far as the guy who proposed goes, if you only have "some" feelings for him you need to tell him that and not accept the proposal. If you are not 100% for sure you love this person and want to marry them then you shouldn't even consider it. The dilemma you are having in the first place with these two guys should tell you that you shouldn't be marrying him.
It seems you are really confused about what you want and if you really want my honest opinion I think you need to get away from both of them and spend some time alone to figure out what you really want out of life. If one of them ws meant for you they will be life once you get your mind straight and figure out what you want.
Hope this helps, take care and god bless!!
2006-07-26 10:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by Coco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats quite the pickle your in. The way i would approach it is just to forget about the first guy. I know its hard to forget about a guy that you love, but unrequitted love is not an easy game to play, nor a favorite. As for the second guy, i would think carefully and evaluate things before you do anything. Do you really like him, or do you like the idea of him being so devoted to you? Once you figure that out, then you should tell him how you feel. Be gentle in telling him too. Good luck and enjoy....always remember that theres other fish in the sea more deserving then the first guy!
2006-07-26 09:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question...who do YOU love? Also, think about your happiness, which one would fulfill your dreams and encourage you through every choice you will ever make? It's your choice, just remember that once you choose it's going to be really hard to go back. If the other guy doesn't love you then stop wasting your time. Focus on the one who shows how much he cares.
2006-07-26 09:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by BamaBelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really sure how to answer that one. Relationships and the starting of them can be difficult sometimes. The way that I see it is to live love and explore. Take a chance with the guy that wants you.
2006-07-26 09:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by treeman1266 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly... I think you are too young for this BF GF thing...
If you still need to decide... go with the second... no sense in pestering the first... in fact the first might have second thoughts once he see you with someone else... and then you have another dilemma
2006-07-26 09:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Shalako 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go to the guy in the 10th grade.Then after, your REAL true love will hopefully come to have feelings for you! Once he realizes that he cannot have you because you are taken.Sometimes the guy you like will like you after you stop liking him.That is what happened to me at least.
2006-07-26 09:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by Niki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy in ur class soounds kinda rude to say it that harsh to u. go for the guy that really wants youget to know him more before aggreeing to the proposal but also think money wise are u gettin married if yes think about the bank!
2006-07-26 09:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy1 doesn't want to have a relationship with ya so maybe he just wanna be friends. So be it. Guy2 just proposed to ya. You should be sure about how you feel about him first before getting in a relationship with him. If you're both sure, go ahead! Good luck with that... =)
2006-07-26 09:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by celiz e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem!!!!
gosh..i said no to the guy who asked me out...and the guy i was after asked for my number and messged me...but now he is acting weird.not calling and not replying to my messages...
so in ur case...i think u should go for the guy who likes u..
cant be sure though...
cuz i swear i'l get that guy i like...attract him or something..by hook or by crook
u can do that as well...but make sure u have a little chance..
take care...and i hope this works...all the best!! =)
2006-07-26 10:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by ♥panicqueen♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋