Family & Relationships - 22 July 2006

I am making hamburgers for ourtwo kids and company with kids and my wife says by adding 1 tablespoon of fresh dill and 1 tablespoon of fresh basil i have ruined the burgers for the kids and no one will eat. I go to resolve the problem by washing the meat and rinsing the spices off and she yells at me and says I am wasting eggs. Please help me to resolve this I dont want to argue and it seems there is nothing i can do to make her happy with the results.

2006-07-22 10:15:53 · 18 answers · asked by brokolay 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband read my journal of personal thoughts, and turned into a really mean person towards me. i am more hurt that he read my thoughts of what i was feeling at "that moment" it had not meaning to it, it is my way of venting without arguing, am i wrong for that? he used the five months that "things have not felt right" to try and hate me. not to mention joining dating sites too. i am just hurt what should i do, i wonder if my marriage is over although i am making a effort to forgive, and he says its forgotten,but how, when he made me feel like sh*^ for motnhs,?

2006-07-22 10:14:56 · 11 answers · asked by zen4steve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husabdn read my journalof personalthoughts, and turned into a really mean person towards me. i am more hurt that he read my thoughts of what i was feeling at "that moment" it had not meaning to it, it is my way of venting without arguing, am i wrong for that? he used the five months that "things have not felt right" to try and hate me. not to mention joining dating sites too. i am just hurt what should i do, i wonder if my marriage is over although i am making a effort to forgive, and he says its forgotten,but how, when he made me feel like sh*^ for motnhs,?

2006-07-22 10:14:02 · 6 answers · asked by zen4steve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please need your help advise?
Im gay Im being going out with this guy for 3 years and w/have sex & he likes girls he have a girldfriend & they have sex too. He gets a 100.00 every 2 weeks but since he is my friend I help him with money or whatever he needs. But he comes to my house every day we do it. But my question is he call me on this past thursday and told me that he dont feel like doing sex I say ok: he say that he wants to hang out w/his friends, but he came later @ night and ask me for money I gave him some. Yesterday he never call me @all. so I keep calling him until 12:00 midnight from 8:00 pm and as now @ 1:00 pm he havent call me. Maybe he is with his girls and friends @ this time. He live with his mother By the way he drinks and smoke weed. I told him that I will give him 300.00 a month for him to take care him self. But after this little by little Im changing my mine. When I call him like last night after 10 times he never responded back or call me back.

PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR BEST ADVISE PLEASE

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My friend havent call today since yesterday.
you think that I should wait until 9:00 pm and give him a call or wait for him to call me first. He is the one that he havent call me since yesterday.

PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR BEST ADVISE

Thank You

0 second ago
My friend havent call today since yesterday.
you think that I should wait until 9:00 pm and give him a call or wait for him to call me first. He is the one that he havent call me since yesterday.

PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR BEST ADVISE

Thank You

2006-07-22 10:13:37 · 11 answers · asked by racajo2000 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-22 10:12:46 · 8 answers · asked by chill 1 in Friends

my four cousins that are 5, 6, 10, 12 hate me probably because im a distance couin to them. they are realy snoty to me they do rude and hurtful things. next week i have to go to my cabin and they will be there. do you think its ok if i just have my space like sun bathe or read a book and not hang out with them also my dad would get mad if i did that and ingnored them im a teenager for heaven sakes my mom thinks its ok what im doing. im so sad to be going what should i do. also there parents dont do anything.

2006-07-22 10:12:24 · 3 answers · asked by mayo_girl_2006 2 in Family

My dad is 41 and he's seeing someone in her mid to late twenties. For some reason this bothers me. Is it wrong to think that way? I don't want another women living with us, but this makes me feel badly.

2006-07-22 10:11:15 · 15 answers · asked by lynn 2 in Family

Come on - I know you are out there - give a lass a break....need male company NOW

2006-07-22 10:11:15 · 5 answers · asked by Pepper 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy named Paul about a year or more ago and we have been talking and stuff. Well I really like him and so far what hes let out he likes me to. Well he's ganna be 18 next month and is getting his own place. He asked me to move in with him. I am 17 years old and llive in a different state than him. I really like him maybe even love him and in many ways I want to move in with him but if I do then I wont beable to come back home. I'm afraid that when or if I move in with him and we get in a fight I wont want to stay and then I wont have any place to go. What do you think I should do. Oh and might I add that me and my parents don't get along. They are very religous and are penticoastal and expact me to live the way they believe and I hate it. What do I do?

2006-07-22 10:10:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend is my first one.

2006-07-22 10:08:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend told me her boyfriend's fantacy is for him to have sex with one of his girlfriend friends so she always call's me now telling me how big her man's d!@# is and she would call me if she is on her period telling me that her mans horney but she's can't do anything about it. When i asked her would she be jealous if i had sex with her man she said no because it gets her hot.Also she said she'd rather watch us rather than participate. Any comments?

2006-07-22 10:08:26 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

Don't you think this is the right thing to do instead of saying,hey baby I may have cheated on you?What purpose does that serve?

2006-07-22 10:08:11 · 5 answers · asked by consigliere 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I just have a strange feeling she may be cheating on me, but yet she tells me nothing is going on with this guy she knows from where she works, but she's been acting real secretive about him and won't tell me much of anything except that they're just friends. I feel suspicious of her now. Could I just maybe be panicking here? She swears to me that she's not cheating on me and that she never could, but something still doesn't feel right in my gut about it. I feel as though she's trying too hard to hide something by denying everything. I think she knows that I know something's up and when I tell her that she STILL swears she's not fooling around no matter what I say I know or been hearing. She doesn't act different though. The sex hasn't changed between us either, but we're experimenting more which I feel is good for both of us, so what could the problem be?

2006-07-22 10:08:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We been married for 2 years. He says he don't love me anymore like he use to. But he still wants us to work it out. We went away this weekend and he said he still felt the same. But he wants to wait on the divorce to see what happens between us. He tells me its over all the time and he still wants to be friends and do stuff together i want this to work so bad i am trying everything. Should i act like i just don't care anymore or should i keep on trying. I got a `13 month old son i got to be thinking about to. Please help me i love my husband so much I don't want to lose him.................

2006-07-22 10:06:47 · 9 answers · asked by Angie C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-22 10:06:24 · 7 answers · asked by e-girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi there I have not seen my father since for almost 8 yrs now and usually he use to not go more than 2 yrs without contacting me when I was a kid. I am 23 now and that was when I was 16 and on christmas day, I did a people search which charged me 40 dollars and all it did was give me a bunch of old addresses but nothing current nor phone numbers or any other ways of trying to find him. I just want some closure to find out wether he is alive or dead or what the deal is. He put me through alot when I was growing up I was only his daughter when it was confienent for him. I just want him to know that he has 2 grandkids by me now and that despite everything he put me through I am doing alot for myself.. Any suggestions? please help me.

2006-07-22 10:06:01 · 2 answers · asked by cheryl m 2 in Family

I have helped my sister a lot. I've only known her for a couple of years, because I lived with my mom & she lived with hers. Anyway, I helped her take care of her son & did things for her after her hernia surgery, I buy her things (not all the time, but just little things to say thanks), I help her with her scrapbooking & I let her borrow my things. Then today while I was helping her with her scrapbooking I notice that in one of her scrapbooks she says that our brother is her favorite person, besides her son. I understand why he would be one of her favorite people, because she's known him longer than she's known me & all, but I didn't think she would be so open about. Does anyone besides me think it was rude of her to put that in her scrapbook, where she knew I would see it? It really hurt me to see that she wrote it right there in the open. I don't want to say anything to her, because she'll just tell me I'm being too sensitive, but how can I avoid being hurt like this in the future?

2006-07-22 10:05:47 · 21 answers · asked by Goddess Princess Minky 5 in Family

I realize bruises heal but hey I have some scars too. This is a part of me that believes in just that #1 guy that I could devote my life to but through all my trials I am loosing hope. How will I know if he is for real? My ex liked to play with my emotions and I was on guard most of the time, I had to be. I am healing and in the process jumping into parts of myself I love...discovering me. I enjoy hanging out with friends and family. If you have ever been cheeted on it is really difficult to trust. What do you think about reaching out again, how will you know he/she is safe to be with?

2006-07-22 10:05:06 · 5 answers · asked by Ms. Inquisitive 2 in Singles & Dating

you ask them what took so long and about the miles,and they tell you they drove upto a completely diffrent store,(4 no reason)thru the parking lot,then they went to the right store,and that's where the miles came from?Both stores are2 minutes away and it took them over 30 minutes to get back with change.

2006-07-22 10:03:52 · 8 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay i recently got into a relationship with my first boyfriend after 4 years of being apart while we were apart i had a Baby boy whom i love very much and this guy came into our lives like he was gonna be Daddy after me falling inlove with him he decided he was gonna be selfish and leave us which is fine better now then later but he keeps telling me he loves me i belive him and all but he doesnt want to be with me because of my child it hurts to know just becasue i have a child i cant be with the one i love so WHY DO GUYS HAVE TO BE jerks? When i girl loves you either love her or dont i know i cant have an inbetween thing so please somebody give me some insight

2006-07-22 10:03:39 · 6 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

okay i asked to questions already for the same guy but what should it be?

2006-07-22 10:03:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 5'6, i'm skinny, but i am curvy, i'm light skinned, with small cat eyes, i have dark brown hair, but my natrurl hair color is light reddish brown, my hair is soft and medium length. i am the nicest person you'll ever meet unless you piss me off!!so guys and girls what's your ideal lover!!!!

2006-07-22 10:02:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you need penetration to achieve orgasm, or is clitoral stimulation adequate? Both?

2006-07-22 10:01:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats the worst bad habit you have or what your kids, parents,partners. whats the worst ones?? my bf churns his teeth when he sleeps its annoying but i suck my thumb sometimes lol. im not emmbarssed. ha ha ha.

2006-07-22 10:01:03 · 8 answers · asked by luckylu2k3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A business type executive woman or a housewife?

2006-07-22 10:00:37 · 14 answers · asked by shadow_watt 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm scared of loving again! my first & last relationship left me heart broken!! he was breaking up with his ex when i first knew him. i kept my distant untill i knew they finally left each other. athough i was'nt planning on loving him. we both just fell for each other. after a few month, i began sensing that he still have feelings for her, then i found out that they r still in touch. by then i was totaling in love with him. it was hurting like hell knowing that he is still thinking of her. we talked about it & he told me it's just a phase in forgetting her & he assured me that he loved me. this stayed for long & i couldn't bare it anymore. so i stopped calling him & disappeared of his life. Now that more than 3 years passed, i get really scared of falling for a guy again. maybe scared of having another broken heart!!! when dealing with guys that i like. i somehow block them when i feel they r interested! after that i start blame myself that it could have been something. what do i do?

2006-07-22 09:59:42 · 7 answers · asked by moon 1 in Singles & Dating

The problem is my husband is so controlling, jealous, &down right mean 85% of the time.When we first married he didnt want me to work, but when I kept complaining about him not paying the bills but buying beer & his extras he insisted I get a job. Iwent & got a job at a hotel & every morning he would fight with me accusing me of cheating & so on.All I would do is take my kids to the babysitter go to work and pick them up & go home. So I finally got sick of it & quit &now he is fighting with me about not working .I stay at home all day if I go to the store, to his parents to take the kid to swim He just fights with me so now we dont go anywhere. I feel really uncomfortable around him because of his controlling and jealous way so I don't speak much. Now he has gotten to the point of calling me every name in the book and tells me he doesnt love me. I'm not allowed to go around family but he goes to the bar till 5a & spends bill money on his fun while the kids & I are at home with nothing

2006-07-22 09:59:09 · 9 answers · asked by steelersrock_81 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we both want to be with each other but we bth been in bad relationships before and we are scared of being hurt.

2006-07-22 09:57:08 · 6 answers · asked by pattie 1 in Singles & Dating

People have their own oppion on miss RACES in American that is the big issues among Men 7 Women.

2006-07-22 09:53:56 · 14 answers · asked by Sharon S 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going crazy, we were head over heels in love, so affectionate and every thing. there was a 4 year age gap between us and i dont think that was an issue. he never mentioned it. All he said to me was that he didn't love me anymore, but he is bad with explaining his feelings so i dont quite believe it. but i havent eaten in 3 days and i can't stop crying. i saw this boy everyday i worked with him before we started dating.. i really want to call him but everyone keeps telling me not to. i guess im pretty pathetic huh? what can i do to keep my mind off of it?

2006-07-22 09:52:45 · 18 answers · asked by drowningin_you 1 in Other - Family & Relationships