Okay i recently got into a relationship with my first boyfriend after 4 years of being apart while we were apart i had a Baby boy whom i love very much and this guy came into our lives like he was gonna be Daddy after me falling inlove with him he decided he was gonna be selfish and leave us which is fine better now then later but he keeps telling me he loves me i belive him and all but he doesnt want to be with me because of my child it hurts to know just becasue i have a child i cant be with the one i love so WHY DO GUYS HAVE TO BE jerks? When i girl loves you either love her or dont i know i cant have an inbetween thing so please somebody give me some insight
2006-07-22 10:03:39 · 6 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay to clear it up here he told me he loved me and wanted to father the child and then decided he wanted out which is selfish to make someone think that then leave and girls are not bitchs you must just be a dick
2006-07-22 10:10:21 · update #1
Not all guys are jerks. But this one apparently is. Look... You have a child in your care - FAR MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANY MAN! Trust me when I say that this man is not right for you if he's not willing to accept the responsibility of a child knowing now that he was responsible for making you what you are today - a package deal... Can't have you without the child. Hang in there! Because You'll eventually find a man that's worth more, who treats you better than he does also. Good luck!
2006-07-22 10:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 22⤊ 3⤋
How is him leaving you being selfish? He wasn't the father of the child, so just by dating you he's not signing up to be a father. No matter how much he says he loves you.
Why do girls have to be such bitches?
2006-07-22 10:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Steve S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i were you i will try to forget him because the most important thing here is the child not him who's gonna be blamed if you take the guy you will you want your son to be happy right? right so then just go with what you heart tells you deep inside
2006-07-22 10:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by crazy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are jerks just this one is. I say that if he can't put up with you having a kid, then that's his loss not yours and time for you to move on. You will find the one when the time is right.
2006-07-22 10:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're not jerks, you dirty fudger!
2006-07-22 10:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Rayquaza Ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there immature idiots
2006-07-22 10:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by shortydhg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋