Family & Relationships - 22 July 2006

I really like my friend, and like to hang out with her once in awhile, but it never fails, her boyfriends always hit on me. I am single, successful, have a very good job as a nurse and I think they see me as a better catch because she has 1 kid in prizon, no money, no home and to be honest drinks quite a bit and has no ambition. How would you handle this? She wants to go out with her new boyfriend and me. I dont wanna have this guilt. It has happened at least 2 other times. Should I tell her or just pretend it doesnt happen. She has a new boyfriend and she and I have been friends since high school and we are 43 yrs old.

2006-07-22 09:29:21 · 1 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-22 09:28:31 · 19 answers · asked by consigliere 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-22 09:28:21 · 18 answers · asked by sergio 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex gf has another bf. We had been going out for about 3 years. He is such a dick. We just broke up the other day. I tried calling her phone last night to talk to her and check on my kid but she wouldnt answer the phone. Finally he picked up and I asked for Chelsea and he said naw man shes not here, and hung up the phone. I heard her in the background and it really pissed me off what should i do?

2006-07-22 09:27:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-22 09:26:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is Courtney, I can't talk on yahoo messenger, its shut down or something. Sorry but see if you can send me something an I'll try an fix the problem.An people that are reading this an They don't think its necessary or appropreiate then don't answer, this is my only chance for me to find him I don't know his phone # or anthing we've just been talking.

2006-07-22 09:26:03 · 3 answers · asked by I like to no what guys think h 1 in Friends

My husband makes comments about me that are not nice. He says he's joking just to pick on me but it is driving me crazy! Picture this: I'm 5'5", 115 pounds...thin and attractive. Seriously! He makes comments about my butt, boobs, thighs...you name it. I have had two children but you wouldn't know it. I even look about 5-10 years younger than my actual age! What's up with that?

2006-07-22 09:25:58 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is currently in Poland on a stag weekend and as we speak he is in some seedy night club with strippers and lap dancers. This kind of thing has never bothered me before, infact he did all this on his stag do and I was fine with it, but we had a baby this year and my body is certainly not back to what it was so I feel insecure. I tried to explain, but he said he had to go and couldn't get out of it. So he's left me at home looking after our son on my own while he has a fabulous weekend abroad with naked women flaunting themselves at him. We can't afford a holiday together and all his vaccation goes on a DIY project. All I can tell you is that I am finding it really hard sititng at home knowing he's in a club with strippers etc. What should I do? Should I say anything to him when he gets home on Monday? Am I wrong to feel this way?

2006-07-22 09:25:40 · 13 answers · asked by newmummy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have met some women who didn't care for me to wash their backs in the shower....others didn't want me to see the m naked...etc. etc.

So ladies tell me what is off limits when it comes to Sex with you and your partner?

2006-07-22 09:25:10 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Girls I need help on this one!

2006-07-22 09:23:52 · 19 answers · asked by joe r 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex gf has another bf. He is such a dick. We just broke up the other day. I tried calling her phone last night to talk to her and check on my kid but she wouldnt answer the phone. Finally he picked up and I asked for Chelsea and he said naw man shes not here, and hung up the phone. I heard her in the background and it really pissed me off what should i do?

2006-07-22 09:23:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have seen on HBO'S real sex episodes that some places have adult sex clubs for couples i was wondering what states have them and has anyone ever went to one?

2006-07-22 09:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had dated a guy for 6 months and then I told him I don't love him. He is know starting to get crazy. Has left messages on my voice mail tell me I am a slum and all types of crazy things. When we were together we both had a herpy out break. Know he going around telling everyone that I gave it to him. He even left my ex the one before him a message saying that I gave him herps. I am very much in love with my ex the one before the one making my life crazy. I don't know if he really left a meesage but that is what he told me. I don't know what to do my ex that I love tried to call me but I was sleep and missed the call know he not answering my call. What should I do because I love my ex the before the one making me crazy. Please help my I am so sad.

2006-07-22 09:21:27 · 10 answers · asked by keri 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-22 09:20:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Halle Berry is my pick & why?....Well let's just say ....I didn't watch "Catwoman" for the script writing.

This is for males or females

2006-07-22 09:20:52 · 26 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently read all of the books by Osho. For me it offered some great insights into being happy and fulfilled in this life. If all living is about is making a living and we never seek out a more spiritual path (looking inward and really connecting with who we are and becoming more aware) how can we ever be truly happy? As a society we are all about being good consumers and working as much as we can and making money so we can have things.. but we never stop to see the real beauty in people.... it is great to be able to appreciate another person in the same way that you could appreciate a beautiful wild animal. We rarely look at each other in awe of the creations that we are and all the potential that lies in each of us.... it's sad....

2006-07-22 09:20:38 · 8 answers · asked by citymouse411 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are looking for ideas that are unique that people will remember. Any ideas will help. Thanks

2006-07-22 09:19:47 · 18 answers · asked by Joe Stephens 2 in Weddings

This is his first girlfriend but he has already let her trap him into setting a wedding date. He doesn't have a say in anything, it's always all about her and what "she" wants. The whole family hates her. She is very abrasive. Not only that, she has STD'S. We can't reason with our son as he thinks his biological clock is running out at only 22. Any ideas?

2006-07-22 09:19:35 · 7 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am in love with this guy and weve been goin out for a very long time but hes been away for a month on vacation..(BR)=name
and theirs this guy (CT) ive liked wayyy longer than ive been goin out with (BR) and he asked me out the other day!!.. at the time me and my bf (BR) went on a brake so i told (CT) i wasnt goin out with neone but we cant get serious right now....
well we went to the movies last night and held hands and kissed..... me and my bf (BR) just started goin back out the night befor!!!
how do i end the thing i started last night with this guy (CT) with out making it sound like i was lyeing to him about not having a bf (BR) at the time and all of asudden i do????? i dont want to make it sound like that!! do u have ne suggestions???
PLEASEEEEEE HELP.. im killing my self for last night

2006-07-22 09:18:53 · 20 answers · asked by CHRiiStiiNA 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help.a guy i had been dating for 4months online and on the phone.he told me 2weeks ago lets just be friends i said ok.then a week ago he said i wanna think about us getting back together and ill call u tomorrow to let u know.he never called.but his profile says single and i hate love.the thing is before we became just friends we had a great connection.but now he has been gone for 4days im having trouble coping.and knowing ill never talk to him again.

2006-07-22 09:17:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im really outgoing with my male and female freinds, but im awfull at approaching women who i find attractive in a bar, when i go out, the more vodka i drink the better i get but then i get to drunk and say something stupid. Im no George clooney but im average looking and have a sarcastic yet great sense of humour.
The usual things go through my head when im contemplating approaching someone, like, im to tall, to chubby, to ugly etc etc.
I wish women would have a green flashing light above there head if they found me attractive, then i would be full of confidence and approach them without the fear of rejection.

Any ideas?

2006-07-22 09:16:10 · 10 answers · asked by Chubby 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 37. I'm a very confident, tall, black male who is ready to slow down at this point in my life and be in a relationship. However I keep attracting young girls. 19-27 I mean i'm not complaining, the attention is a big ego booster. But I can't go into my 40's dating younger girls like that. They 're at a different point in life than i am.
How do i attract older women?

2006-07-22 09:15:56 · 31 answers · asked by A man ready to commit. 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend decided to take a break for the summer while I was on vacation. So I ended up meeting a guy here and we dated and kissed. Is this considered cheating? and should I tell him?

2006-07-22 09:15:24 · 7 answers · asked by sweet_babycakes09 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend thinks my uncle likes her but he dont should i tell her or not. all my other friends say that i should not because she told ever one he likes her and he dont. that was not right she dont know what he looks like i never told her he liked her.

2006-07-22 09:15:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm kind of happy with my girlfreind? but my heart is confused ?we ve been together 4 1/2 years now met her in college? now my heart telling me it's not right one? my heart feels like a rubber band in 2 directions ? one feels like i want stay with her other wants go some were else but I dont want hurt her feelings though? be honest please

2006-07-22 09:13:47 · 19 answers · asked by Jeff s 1 in Singles & Dating

out of all the times i had sex i think there is once or twice i stayed up after a orgasm.

normally my willy goes down for 10-30 minutes and will be up again depending on the mood and the girl...

but how come sometimes it stays up, it's soo rare.. how can u do it?? if anyone has the experience plz share plz

2006-07-22 09:12:53 · 6 answers · asked by DOHC VTEC 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-22 09:11:55 · 14 answers · asked by bugars 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-22 09:11:38 · 18 answers · asked by hanko 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering because im a christian but i masturbate.

2006-07-22 09:11:07 · 19 answers · asked by baby_girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anyone else have problems today logging on?

2006-07-22 09:10:40 · 19 answers · asked by Tyler 1 in Singles & Dating