This is his first girlfriend but he has already let her trap him into setting a wedding date. He doesn't have a say in anything, it's always all about her and what "she" wants. The whole family hates her. She is very abrasive. Not only that, she has STD'S. We can't reason with our son as he thinks his biological clock is running out at only 22. Any ideas?
2006-07-22 09:19:35 · 7 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh see u need to find him someone else but u cant just tell him she isnt right for him bc that will only push him closer to her, set her up ..find someone who she might cheat with.. plant drugs on her where he will find em. start havin some otha guy call ur son n tell him he is sleepin with her..leave notes on his car from otha guys..u gotta play dirty so get to it.
2006-07-22 09:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your son is still enamored of this young lady, what can you do? You might succeed in running her out of your house so you don't have to put up with her, but it sound like your son will just see her somewhere else. I don't know that I've ever heard of a man worrying about his biological clock, however, if it's the case that your boy wants children right away, you might suggest to him that the girl's haveing STDs substantially increases the risk of a child being born with serious problems. In fact, there is probably documentation to confirm that. Otherwise, if he's smitten, you are about stuck. At 22, he's calling his own shots.
Good luck.
2006-07-22 09:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's grown up in a household with a controlling, bossy, domineering mother. Boys typically look for women who have characteristics that are familiar to them. Who is the most familiar woman? His mother!
As for STDs, maybe she got them from your son.
Bottom line, if a guy doesn't have the balls/backbone to stand up to a) his mother; b) his girlfriend; c) both, then he deserves exactly what he gets, and so do they.
2006-07-22 09:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that she is really bullying him or are you just not wanting your baby to grow up. Sounds like your son was not taught how to stick up for himself or how to have self asteem. There is nothing you can do but talk to him about it, if he refuses to listen let it go and let them live thier life and please do not get involved into thier relationship that can only make it worse. We all need to live our own life and make our own mistakes.
2006-07-22 09:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he lets her control him... or when you want him to do something or go somewhere... ask him... "do you think your girl friend will let you?" it will show him that she is controlling and running his life! My mom said the same to me about my boyfriend and it kind of... woke me up!
2006-07-22 09:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by cassidy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I feel for you but my 18 year old is living with a 30 year old and I'm 35. When you figure out what to do please let me know. Plus we have not spoken to our son for about three weeks now thanks to her. thistle4321@sbcglobal.net
2006-07-22 10:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tempt him with a sexier women...pay her if you have too...my brother married a women my family doesn't particularly care for two years ago...and we still going through drama with the little hussy
2006-07-22 09:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋