OMG WAT do i DO???

Question

i am in love with this guy and weve been goin out for a very long time but hes been away for a month on vacation..(BR)=name
and theirs this guy (CT) ive liked wayyy longer than ive been goin out with (BR) and he asked me out the other day!!.. at the time me and my bf (BR) went on a brake so i told (CT) i wasnt goin out with neone but we cant get serious right now....
well we went to the movies last night and held hands and kissed..... me and my bf (BR) just started goin back out the night befor!!!
how do i end the thing i started last night with this guy (CT) with out making it sound like i was lyeing to him about not having a bf (BR) at the time and all of asudden i do????? i dont want to make it sound like that!! do u have ne suggestions???
PLEASEEEEEE HELP.. im killing my self for last night

Answer 1

Honesty is the best policy. If you're in love with someone, and kiss someone else, it's most likely because it's 'taboo' and exciting. Bad girl? No, you're not being bad, you're just being human. You made a mistake, simple as that.

Pick the one you like the best and tell the other one that you still like him a lot, but that you need to sort your feelings about someone else in your head for a few months.

Tell CT not to give up on you just YET, even though you're a bit confused. You were possibly just missing BR and then got kissed by your old friend and that REALLY made you confused. Tell CT that you really DIDN"T mean to kiss him, and tell him all the facts about going out with BR and say "I'm really sorry I didn't tell you everything about BR before we went out."

Do NOT lie about it to BR either. If you love him, you MUST be honest with him. Tell him you went out with an old friend that you've known for a longer time, and DID get kissed by this other guy that just happens to ALSO like you, and see what he says.
If he gets mad, he's being childish, he was away for a month. If he loves you he'll understand. True love is NOT jealous of friendship, even the kissing kind.

If the one you 'eventually ' don't choose', or 'dismiss' likes you enough, he'll understand everything and wait for you patiently, to make up your own mind. A kiss isn't any big deal either way, it's NOT like if you had sex.

If they both get mad, they are both being childish. If that's the case, find yourself a NEW bf, period.

Answer 2

You kissed him even though you have a boyfriend?? Anyways, my advice to you is break up with BR and go to CT, because, as you said, you've liked him way longer than BR. It seems as though you like CT more, so it really seems like one of the only logical choices that will make you happy. Either that or pick neither.

You could've gotten out of this mess you know, by telling CT you had a boyfriend already, but you didn't, so you know..

Answer 3

Well, if you're gonna kill yourself make it quick and painless. (joke).

I don't think you're in love with either of them, it was your fault for telling CT that you didn't havea boyfriend in the first place so he thought you were available and by saying you couldn't get "serious" he thought he could kiss, f***, whatever. Basically he thought you were easy. Anyway, BR is going to find out eventually so I'm just going to say break up with BR (when he finds out) and go with CT because when BR finds out he probably will leave you.

If BR doesn't leave you rejoice and never speak to CT again.

Answer 4

I say you decide on whoever you like more. And if you decide to go with CT, then you should end the relationship with BR, I suggest not to tell him about this situation that you told him you two werent going out and all this that happened. If you do this, make sure they don't talk about what happened before you break up with him, but guys don't really talk to eachother like that anyway.

Answer 5

Keep dating both guys as long as you can keep it going. Opportunities like this don't happen every day. Enjoy yourself and have some fun. Or you can be truthful and honest and have only one boyfriend. If you think about it on your own, you already know what you need to do. Having the strength to do it is something else.

Answer 6

You can see how easy it is to paint yourself into a corner by not being upfront. The best thing to do is just to tell the truth and to apologize. Just say who you are committed to at the moment. Don't try to compare your boyfriends, because they are each unique.

If your friend forgives you, great! If he doesn't, then maybe you can learn a lesson from this.

Answer 7

I agree . . take his guy meat & positioned it on your mouth till the warriors come out for a victory march... he will are conscious of it then... If that doesnt artwork then get yet another female into mattress w. the two considered one of ya. good success & do not forget approximately to 'tend the stepchildren' once you're doin it.

Answer 8

tell him da true story that will be better for you both .you dont want him to know that you was lyin' then he'll start thinkin' that your abit(h so tell him da truth and tell him that you dont wanna like to him cuz you like bein' afriend to him just afriend cuz you cant get that guy (BR) away from your head

Answer 9

this is not easy, but just be honest with CT.... tell him you were on break when you went out but your boyfriend just came back into town and you're still in love with him..

Answer 10

Write it all out, submit it to ABC, NBC, or CBS and see if they can make it into an episode for a soap opera. Big $$$$