My ex gf has another bf. He is such a dick. We just broke up the other day. I tried calling her phone last night to talk to her and check on my kid but she wouldnt answer the phone. Finally he picked up and I asked for Chelsea and he said naw man shes not here, and hung up the phone. I heard her in the background and it really pissed me off what should i do?
2006-07-22 09:23:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She your EX...time to move on!!! Sorry
2006-07-22 09:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by mywaypink 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like junior high......."he said-she said" Drama.
You are probably very young and had a kid very young.
Work on letting go. If you have the love/hate thing going on it isn't a healthy love. Some people think they need to stick with love no matter what. Well, as you age you will realize that you need a
love/like/need/committed/honest/peaceful/loving relationship.
As you go through life you will find out that love with imature drama isn't what you need. Choose now to have a life that doesn't involve childish drama. If the mother of your child isn't what you need in life in a partner, then get over it. You don't have time for her games. This doesn't mean that you forget your child.
Be the best dad you can. Don't let your child repeat this cycle of dysfuncition.
You can't change your xgirlfriend, But, you can change how you react to her. Maybe both of you have poor role models in what an adult and parent should be. If so- it is time to change.
You x has chosen a creep to hang with. Don't play their childish games.
Let go of your anger otherwise you are giving her power.
The more you respond with negative energy the more she will be irritating. It will be a cycle that the two of you will repeat year after year. Can you imagine the life your child will have?
Time for you to stand up and become the adult in the situation. If you are old enough to reproduce (have a baby) you need to rise to the occasion and create a good life for your child.
I wish you the best.
2006-07-22 09:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL well then you are sick and you have problems. Love is without hate . So find the one. Unless you passed 1 2 3 4 base in that case you caused it live with it. I hope you do what is right. Although I feel your pain.
2006-07-22 09:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Don The great .................. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but, I think she has moved on and so should you. you will find someone out there that you can have a love/ love relationship with and you owe this to yourself. As far as your child let the court system deal with the visitation rights. you do have the right to see your child. And for the childs sake see him/her. good luck and view this as a learning experience and move on with you life , it's a new day , new start, new future.
2006-07-22 09:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by angelgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her that being that she has you child, you will be making the necessary phone calls to check up on your child, and if she refuses to cooperate you will be forced to to take legal action. As for the new bf, tell her that he needs to respect that as well.
2006-07-22 09:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off a little. Just try to be friends. Call her no more than once a day. respect her. Mabe she'll change her mind and come back to you.
2006-07-22 09:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by jonathanmt93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on the baby not the mom. Do what u need to do to put u and the baby in the best position and the women will come
2006-07-22 09:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by h_wallbanga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're creating more drama in your life than is neccessary. Take care of your child and move on.
2006-07-22 09:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get legal custody of the kid. and leave the ex gf behind she's moved on so you should to.
2006-07-22 09:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take her to family court ... she is not letting you see your child ... there you can make visitation rules and you can choose days and hours you will have your child
2006-07-22 09:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋