I am going crazy, we were head over heels in love, so affectionate and every thing. there was a 4 year age gap between us and i dont think that was an issue. he never mentioned it. All he said to me was that he didn't love me anymore, but he is bad with explaining his feelings so i dont quite believe it. but i havent eaten in 3 days and i can't stop crying. i saw this boy everyday i worked with him before we started dating.. i really want to call him but everyone keeps telling me not to. i guess im pretty pathetic huh? what can i do to keep my mind off of it?
2006-07-22 09:52:45 · 18 answers · asked by drowningin_you 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sometimes guys just aren't sure of what they want and don't know what they have. so you should start eating, stay away from sad music and movies that would remind you of him, and start doing something new like a sport or something like that to keep your mind off of him. and you could call that guy, but only for a friend and support right now. if you tell him everything you may feel more comfortable with him and you may consider him as a date or a boyfriend.
feel better and remember that if it didn't happen, it wasn't meant to be and you will find the right guy sooner or later. =]
2006-07-22 09:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by aeiorjklsdjf 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
For starters... EAT. Just because something crappy happens doesn't mean that you should stop eating, even if your aren't hungry. Try hanging out with your friends, watch some movies. Write a song, or a poem. Or heck... why not call him?! It's been three days, and he might want you to show that you still care. Even if he really doesn't want to be with you, you should get to the bottom of the whole issue. You don't just fall out of love with someone. You should demand an explantion! It may make things worse, but at least you'll have a real answer and not just be left to wonder. Good luck with everything. But seriously... before you do anything... EAT.
2006-07-22 09:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into some activities and/or hobbies. Hang out with your buds. But seriously, only time can heal your wounds.
P.S. You need to eat. Dont let something like this make you stop eating. Actualy I think it is silly that you haven't eaten because of an ex. I know it hurts but come on.
2006-07-22 09:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Independent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and get your mind off him. Go to a movie or something, just get dressed and get out of the house. Someone better will come along, and calling him will not help anything. If he realizes he made a mistake he will call you. Begging him to come back will just make you look pathetic. Sorry you're going through this.
2006-07-22 09:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop thinking about it. Stuff like that only gonna break ya down, only if ya let it. Everyday crazy situations rockin' my mind tryin' to break me down, but I won't let it. Hopin' for the sun, don’t let it rain. We all went through situation like that so I can feel the pressures, but nevertheless don’t let yourself fall. You’ll find some one who loves you more. For him I think he might have found someone else or like someone that why he break it off. I’m not trying to be mean but maybe you gave it up to him and he got what he wanted. I’m sorry!
2006-07-22 10:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ceon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just move on.. the pain will lessen overtime.. or you could talk to him and find out why he fell out of love all of a sudden. You deserve an explanation. I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work out but maybe its for the best.
2006-07-22 09:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Spend time with your friends and do the things you enjoy. And you're not pathetic, just human. It will take time to get over it, but I'm sure you will. Best wishes.
2006-07-22 09:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, he probably dumped you that way because there's someone else, that's the only logical explanation, try distracting yourself, hanging out with your friends, try to do anything to keep him off your mind! Best of Luck! ~V.J.~
2006-07-22 09:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He found someone else and he doesn't want to hurt you or admit it. You can call him to put yourself out of your misery if you want to. It can't hurt anything to call him and ask him yourself. It is unfair not to have a reason and have closure. You should try to distract yourself as much as you can. Good luck.
2006-07-22 09:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Ambrosia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think its best to go on and cry, feel sorry for yourself, talk it to death with whoever will listen, go over and over it in your head......FOR 1 WEEK. Then stop the pity party and get on with your life....he is.
2006-07-22 09:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋