I met this guy named Paul about a year or more ago and we have been talking and stuff. Well I really like him and so far what hes let out he likes me to. Well he's ganna be 18 next month and is getting his own place. He asked me to move in with him. I am 17 years old and llive in a different state than him. I really like him maybe even love him and in many ways I want to move in with him but if I do then I wont beable to come back home. I'm afraid that when or if I move in with him and we get in a fight I wont want to stay and then I wont have any place to go. What do you think I should do. Oh and might I add that me and my parents don't get along. They are very religous and are penticoastal and expact me to live the way they believe and I hate it. What do I do?
2006-07-22 10:10:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
been in same situation where if i move out again, i cannot move back in. so i will not move out no matter what until i have a job for a long time, and i know im staying there,and i can afford to be on my own, without ne one else helping me pay for rent or ne thing else at all. you have to be able to do it on ur own. i wont leave until then or until they boot me out. u have to be ready to do that. work towards it.
2006-07-22 10:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kasey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Going far away from home, with this guy is going to be risky. When you haven't lived close to him and dated in the normal way, you probably don't know him as well as you should before moving in with him.
You may not like the way your parents live, but at least you feel safe. If you go too far away you'd have no place to go if you got into trouble and this could be really scary. You should stay put.
2006-07-22 17:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way i see it your gonna be out on your own soon anyways so take a chance but while your with him for a place for you just in case you find yourself not wanting to stay their anymore. you only live once
2006-07-22 17:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by abbysrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd like to share my thoughts with you all.
DON'T LIVE IN THE PAST BECAUSE IT HAS NO FUTURE.
DON'T DWELL ON THE FUTURE BECAUSE IT DOES NOT EXIST UNTIL IT BECOMES THE PRESENT.
SO LIVE IN THE PRESENT AND ENJOY EACH DAY LIKE IT WAS YOUR LAST.
THE PAST MAYBE FULL OF HEARTACHES,BUT TODAY HAS YET TO BE FULFILLED.
SO USE THE CLEAN SLATE OF TODAY TO WASH AWAY THE WRITTEN PAGES OF YESTERDAY.
THE ONLY ONE YOU NEED TO PROVE ANYTHING TO IS YOURSELF.
IF HARBOR FEELINGS OF REGRET AND ILL WILL YOU HURT ONLY YOURSELF.
SO I'LL END THIS WITH...........
LIVE FOR YOURSELF AND TODAY.
DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY WITH THOSE THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY.
2006-07-22 17:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by fly on the wall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to college and plan for a career.
2006-07-22 17:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move in with him and finish school and get married have a baby! oh and get a JOB!
2006-07-22 17:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋