Family & Relationships - 12 July 2006

How many of you have sex before married???

2006-07-12 10:41:00 · 14 answers · asked by greenbaypackers1920 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my girl and i and known eachother for two years now but really only been together for the last 2 months. When we got together it was amazing, i thought nothing could take us apart. I was a gentlemen to her opening doors and spoiling the crap outta her. and all of a sudden yesterday she started acting weird and said she needed more space. what is that supposed to mean? i don't know if she got scared or what cause it was to perfect. but what do i do i have all these feelings for her and no where to put them cause where on hold. i want to wine and dine her, spoil her, and show her how great it is. but she said where moving to fast and she wants to take a step back. how can we take a step back from where we already are. I want her back so bad she means the world to me.

2006-07-12 10:40:53 · 33 answers · asked by j_barnes155 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is a sophomore in high school and doesnt seem to take school very seriously. He just found out that he cannot play football this year because of last years grades. I really want him to be successful in school and football. He is smart and VERY athletic. It is not that he cannot do it, he is just choosing not to. I am trying not to put alot of pressure on him but as the new school year approaches, I want to help him anyway that I can to do well in school and to go on to bigger and better things in his life. Any ideas without pushing him further into the "slump"?? Help me out teenagers, let me know what you think.

2006-07-12 10:40:47 · 14 answers · asked by Amy R 1 in Family

In college, I met a guy. After knowing him for 2 days, the strangest thing happened - I had a sudden urge to hug him when I got in trouble with my parents. Anyways, over a short period of time, we became very close friends. We talked about everything for hours on end - life, family, friends, future goals, past experiences, childhood memories, etc.. We had kind of like a shared journal in which we wrote daily to one another about anything. Everybody thought we were sleeping together - which was not true. We never even kissed. Then one day, he told me that he was 35. I was 19. I would never have guessed as he did not look a day older than 21. But it never mattered to me becasue after all, we were just friends. We cared for each other in such a deep way that it hurt. Unfortuantely, we had a big fight one day and were not speaking. A few days later, I got news that he killed himself. That was 10 years ago. Since then, I am married. I can't forget him. Need Details? IM me.

2006-07-12 10:39:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When my best girl friend dates a guy I get jealous but i have no intention in dating her, we've been best friends since 5th grade and we r very close.I hate when she has a crush on someone.Please serious answers.

2006-07-12 10:38:57 · 33 answers · asked by scorpion prince89 3 in Friends

I've dated lots of women who are messy, unorganized, and just plain lazy compared to me and a lot of my guy friends. Guys are stereotyped to be messy and unorganized but I feel it's the total opposite nowadays. I don't like when girls stay over because I feel they just make my place messy and I have to clean up after them. Does anyone agree?

2006-07-12 10:38:48 · 9 answers · asked by Ahmalya 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 10:38:28 · 10 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems like as soon as women get serious about a guy they go off the diet and cancel the gym memberships. Whats the deal? Do they feel like they've got their man and don't need to keep up appearences?

2006-07-12 10:38:24 · 8 answers · asked by l700z3 1 in Singles & Dating

but he has never been with a guy--not even kissed a guy. anyway, he told me that he has been thinking about a girl and wondering what it would be like to have sex with her. he is also a virgin. i told him that if he has been thinking about a girl and sex with a girl, then maybe he is confused about his sexuality. i just found out that i am "the girl". i am really freaked out about this b/c we are best friends and i have never thought about him in a romantic way. when we met about 10 years ago, he was straight and actually dated a lot of women. he "came out" about 3 yrs ago. i don't know what to do--he does not know that i know i am "the girl". what am i suposed to do? i dont want to loose my best friend.

2006-07-12 10:38:09 · 5 answers · asked by cutie_1016 2 in Friends

Does it have to do somthing with kissing?

2006-07-12 10:37:56 · 23 answers · asked by kidtendo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 10:37:56 · 28 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 10:36:26 · 5 answers · asked by funkymonkey 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you wear lingerie because YOU enjoy wearing it, or do you wear lingerie to please your guy? What is your favorite type of lingerie?

2006-07-12 10:35:59 · 14 answers · asked by paul m 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 10:35:52 · 13 answers · asked by Hi there 2 in Singles & Dating

Why cant he make love to me anymore?i wish he would put more time and effort in it. is it me do i not attract him anymore i remember when we were dating he would pay attention to every part of my body and turn me on and get to all my hot spots. now it seems like the same old routine over and over as long as hes happy and satisfied what about me?
why does it take forever for me to have an orgasm is that in all woman ? Am i the only one who is in this situation ? when i try to talk to him about he gets upset? How can i get him to get me sex toys without him feeling bad about himself?

2006-07-12 10:35:35 · 9 answers · asked by Li331e C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We dated for over a year and a half. He came over today and we kissed and he hugged and he cried. He said he doesn't know what all this means but we can't get back together. I think he still loves me and has a little feeling of regret. Do you think he misses me?

2006-07-12 10:35:11 · 2 answers · asked by tsvolleystarr13 1 in Singles & Dating

we are both capricorns and freaky at time, she's would like me to receive anel sex from her, never try it before but willing. How should i get me mind ready ? and is that make me a Bi ? since i never done this before.

2006-07-12 10:34:42 · 12 answers · asked by Sexy Capri' 2 in Singles & Dating

i am looking for a half sister age 18 from cleveland ohio. i have tried ALL the free people searches websites phone numbers everything these websites claim to be free until you actually want the info then it's please subscribe. if i could afford these subscription i would just hire a p.i. i have a lot info on her just can't put it all together and find her. please help i have never met here and my father i never knew is deceased i need some help you can reach me direct at stacy12679 at yahoo dot com

2006-07-12 10:33:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He owns a 2004 Mazda RX-8 with only 6k miles. He rarely drives it and has another car that he drives all of the time so we don't need the RX-8. We plan on starting a family soon and if he keeps that car I will have to keep working instead of being a stay at home mom. Help!

2006-07-12 10:33:02 · 12 answers · asked by Nova J 3 in Family

It is for my son. He is 6 and the love of my life. We are Asian and he was born in the year of the dragon.

2006-07-12 10:32:57 · 24 answers · asked by AsianPersuasion :) 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

All right here is wuz up my sisters boyfriend is not answering her calls and he got fried today and he all most got fried yesterdaybut my sister stuck up for him and they work at the same place so the people at her work r mad at hey so what would u do in this problem stay wiht him or dump him.

2006-07-12 10:32:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-12 10:32:56 · 8 answers · asked by Big A 1 in Singles & Dating

What is everything my fiance' and I would pay out of our own pockets?

2006-07-12 10:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

How do you Cope with change after the death of someone you love

2006-07-12 10:32:41 · 9 answers · asked by cute gal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or is it more my own issue that I feel weird about it and should I do it just as I would for a friend?

2006-07-12 10:32:29 · 9 answers · asked by COblonde 3 in Singles & Dating

I never wanted to be vengeful til now. She always talks about how better she is than a lot of people and everyone is stupid to her. She is a skeemer in many ways and she needs a taste of it bad. She is old enough to be his mom. He likes her money.

2006-07-12 10:31:24 · 34 answers · asked by violetrose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I told him i don't know. I have been wanting to break up with him for a while now. Is it time to tell him we should just be friends?

2006-07-12 10:31:10 · 11 answers · asked by Amy C 1 in Singles & Dating

he is really ready for this. I am starting to fall in love with him and constantly worry about getting hurt. Although he has not done anything to make me feel this way, I am being cautious. Is it really possible to start a real relationship this soon (or am I just a rebound)?

2006-07-12 10:31:06 · 2 answers · asked by md 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know why it's so infatuating to a married man and playboy magazines? I think I'm good looking, why would my husband want to look at that crap? Is he just oblivious as to his surroundings? Ladies and Gentlemen, would you think that this is an illness or an addiction? Same question goes out to Therapists who deal with persons like this, is it normal? Your answers are very welcome. Help us women out there to better cope with this situation. Thank you, Angela from Anderson, IN

2006-07-12 10:30:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, here's the scoop.

My husband of just over one year is becoming more and more physically and mentally abusive. He pinned me against the wall a couple of days ago and almost hit me. Every time we argue it gets worse. (I KNOW I NEED TO GET AWAY, and I am in the processes of working something out. It may just take a couple of days or a week or two.)

Meanwhile, an old friend of mine, a guy I've known for a long time and that I am more then a little attracted too, is being a real gentlemen. I mean, I make advances and he wont respond because he doesn’t want to help break up the marriage. He doesn't understand it already over. Should I hold off? Why or why not. (Sanctity of marriage is not a valid reason, the sanctity was violated when I was abused.) How do I convince my friend that I am serious about a relationship with him?

Thanks for your 2 cents everyone!

2006-07-12 10:29:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce