he is really ready for this. I am starting to fall in love with him and constantly worry about getting hurt. Although he has not done anything to make me feel this way, I am being cautious. Is it really possible to start a real relationship this soon (or am I just a rebound)?
2006-07-12 10:31:06 · 2 answers · asked by md 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With love anything is possible. It may not always be the most ideal thing at the most ideal time, but you can't control how you feel. I wish you the very best.
2006-07-12 10:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in that guy's position. Proceed with caution. Is it possible? YES. But make sure you both are on the same plane. This may sound weird at this time but consider couples counseling. Has he had counseling? Does he have custody of the kid(s)? And most of all, please do let him know EXACTLY how you feel. His mind can still be a whirlwind and stringing him along isn't going to help/benefit anyone. I'm not saying that's what you're doing. Not at all. But consider what he went through. Also consider what he probably has learned from it. One thing for sure about a divorced man, he isn't going to be down for the bullcrap. He'll tell you like it is if you do the same. But one of you has to start that. I can't speak for him, but I would respect a woman who talked to me and spelled out how she felt w/o flowering it up.
Good luck to you and always protect yourself.
2006-07-12 18:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋