It seems like as soon as women get serious about a guy they go off the diet and cancel the gym memberships. Whats the deal? Do they feel like they've got their man and don't need to keep up appearences?
2006-07-12 10:38:24 · 8 answers · asked by l700z3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa, hang on there. This goes both ways! And if you've never noticed most married couple have let themselves go after time, and you're right a certain level of comfort sets in. I've been in serious relationship where we would both put on or lose some weight from time to time. If it really bothers you encourage her to do activities with you. We could all use some work!
My personal favorite couple's activites are dancing and lots of imaginative sex!
2006-07-12 10:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by CrimelessRaver 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well I have been married for over 8 years and with my husband for 12 years in total and I have not gained any weight, even had a baby and after wards went right back to my normal weight, which is by the way 100 pounds.
As far as letting myself go, I didn't do that either, I'm dressed and ready everyday, even as a stay-at-home mom. I always take the time to keep myself up.
I want to look nice for my husband.
2006-07-12 10:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by bye bye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a tough one man, you are right. my gf just canceled her gym membership recently. even though she has just put on a little since we've been together i am scared more could come any time. For some reason they think they have you and they dont have to stay as thin. but what they don't realize is you're not married and can leave whenever you want. girls who strongly believe this and blow up are idiots because if their man has any game he is going to leave them, or at least lose some respect for them.
2006-07-12 10:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're excellent, that's unfair that he met you at 100 and fifty and now you're 100 and eighty. part of the rationalization he fell in love became the actual appeal in route of you. anybody has to have some type of exact appeal in route of someone alongside with all the different factors of who you're interior. a similar is going for him besides. You met him and were fascinated in who he became on the instantaneous. i think that visual attraction can get in the way of the intimacy no count what all people says. in case you experience overweight, and ought to prefer to lose the burden, then that is what you ought to do. Your feeling of worry that he will finally stray is valid. enable him see that you attempt to lose the burden, and also you ought to seem "warm" again.
2016-10-14 09:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships actually cause more stress than a woman already has and to relieve stress it is common that women eat. So she may be stressed and you dont know it.
2006-07-12 11:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mashicka F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think women just get comfortable. the reason i gained weight was because my guy was a great cook and fed me all the time.
2006-07-12 10:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by MsNic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women get comfortable with their man and have no need to attract others. also, most guys give that crappy line, "I love you no matter how fat you are"
2006-07-12 10:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by duckface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
** Grabs popcorn and waits for the fireworks**
2006-07-12 10:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by ogbobbypickle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋